What skills can the counselor use when the statement of the helper is ambiguous or the concept is unclear?

When the problem is vague, too general, and the concept is unclear, the consultant should use concrete technology.

Concrete technology is also called concrete technology and clarification technology. Specific technology means that when a consultant listens to a client's statement, if he finds that the content of the client's statement is ambiguous, the consultant will use questions such as "Who, when, where, how do you feel, what you think, what happened and how" to help the client describe his problem more clearly and concretely.

The thoughts, feelings and events described by some visitors are often vague, contradictory and unreasonable, which complicates the problem and is often one of the important reasons that plague visitors. Counselors help visitors clearly and accurately express their true intentions, opinions, concepts used, emotions experienced and events experienced.

(1) can sort out the vague thoughts, feelings and problems expressed by help seekers, and understand the real feelings and events of help seekers;

(2) Let the help-seekers know their thoughts and feelings and their real situation, which in itself will help to improve the state of the help-seekers; Provide a concrete example.