Two people can choose to be together all the time. At first, it was because two people believed in love. Because two people love each other, they can live happily and live a long life.
Wen Wen and her boyfriend Zhang Hao have been together for more than three years. They first met on the software, and then they have been chatting on their mobile phones, which belongs to online dating. They talked for half a year before they made an appointment. At the 1 meeting, both of them were embarrassed. Wen Wen belongs to that kind of introverted person. They don't know what to say to Zhang Hao after meeting. Although the two chatted well online, online chatting and real chatting are two concepts, so Wen Wen felt very embarrassed.
Zhang Hao is more handsome than in the movie, and he is Wen Wen's type. Wenwen never told her family that she had found a boyfriend. They were in an underground relationship. Zhang Hao's education is not as high as Wenwen's, and he graduated from Wenwen University, while Zhang Hao chose to drop out of school in high school and work hard in the society alone. Zhang Hao hasn't made any great achievements now, but he still has a stable job. I asked Zhang Hao if he was a very smart person, so I suggested that he go to an adult university, which would be higher than his current salary. I just heard Wen Wen's idea. I always joked that Wen Wen was naive. Now that he is so busy at work, how can he have time to study? And if you have time, you might as well play games at home. Wen Wen had to give up this idea, because he really liked Zhang Hao and everything had to be arranged by him.
Now that they have been together for three years, Wenwen intends to discuss marriage with his family. At first, Wenwen's mother didn't like Zhang Hao, mainly because Zhang Hao's education was too low and the economic conditions of the two families were different. Family conditions in Zhang Hao are not as good as those in Wenwen. But Wenwen has been persuading her parents. Finally, her parents couldn't resist Wen Wen and had to agree to their marriage.
Agree to get engaged before Chinese New Year and get married after Chinese New Year. Because the family conditions in Zhang Hao are very general, Wen Wen's family is not prepared to embarrass Zhang Hao.
There is a custom of getting married in Wenwen's family. Before getting married, my mother-in-law will buy three gold coins and some new clothes for the bride. Because this custom is very common among writers, people who get married will do it. But because of this custom, Zhang Hao and Wen Wen quarreled many times.
Wenwen felt very wronged. When talking about marriage, she didn't ask too much. Wenwen's parents have prepared a house for Wenwen. The house has been transferred in the name of Wenwen. Now that the house is available, should the bride price be given or not? The bride price is a decent thing. If there is no bride price, people will gossip. In order not to embarrass Hao Hao, Wenwen's family only wants 28,000 yuan.
The elders attach great importance to the bride price. Wenwen believes that after two people get married, they will definitely live in a new house. I bought a suite in my own home, and it is also appropriate for my boyfriend to give me some bride price. But Zhang Hao's parents don't think so. They always think that Wen Wen's family wants to cheat his family.
Wen Wen and Zhang Hao go shopping in the shopping center. Wenwen told them about buying three gold and clothes. Originally, two people walked hand in hand. When Zhang Hao heard this, he immediately shook off Wenwen's hand and took a look at Wenwen. Wen Wen had to find a way to please him, but Zhang Hao seemed indifferent to it. Zhang Hao said, "Our family has given you money for the bride price, and now suddenly we want to buy three gold and clothes. Is your family too greedy? Why didn't you say this at the beginning? " Zhang Hao said many ugly words again, and Wen Wen's tears came down in an instant. A person ran home crying and felt that her boyfriend really didn't respect her.
Because of this, the two men had a cold war for several days, and neither of them spoke to the other. Wen Wen didn't dare to tell his parents about it, for fear that they might have a problem with Zhang Hao. Until one day, Wen Wen and his mother came home angrily and said to Wen Wen, "Your boyfriend is really annoying, and his mother's personality has a big problem." He has been speaking ill of you outside these two days. Don't say anything to me now, don't put in a good word for him. I don't agree with this marriage! " Wenwen's father also believes that Chen Hao is not the only one in the world. He can't live without him.
Wen Wen stayed at home for a few days and sent a message to Zhang Hao: "Did you finally buy three gold and clothes?" "Don't buy it." Zhang Hao only answered two words, very simple. Wenwen gave up and discussed with his family to break off the marriage. Zhang Hao's family will come to see you soon. "Your family is really make a mountain out of a molehill. You're going to break up your marriage because of a little thing. Is it necessary for two people to be awkward? " Wen Wen only hopes that Zhang Hao has an attitude. She looked at each other like a shrew and decided not to marry.
"Come on, son, you see this woman, is clearly want our money. If we agree to her request, who knows what she will do after marriage? Forget it! " This is the end of the matter, because the man is unwilling to buy three gold and clothes.
In fact, there is nothing wrong with the temperature. She made no unreasonable demands. She should also have these customs that others have. Just trying to get Zhang's attention. What's more, Wen Wen's family also spent money to buy a suite, which was much more expensive than the bride price, so the man's performance was really disappointing. What Wenwen's family wants is a man's attitude, but what is Zhang Hao's family like? It's really disappointing to say all kinds of bad things about girls outside because you don't recognize this custom.
Recently, it is often seen that the love that has been talked about for many years broke up because of the bride price, and the bride price that boys were unwilling to give was finally given to the blind date. Many people say that because you have been in love for a long time, boys will think you are his, and the bride price can be discussed. But the blind date is different, so you can give as much as you want. Therefore, love together because of love is never as good as blind date. It is really a heartfelt statement.
I hope many young couples don't quarrel about getting married, just ask them what they want and talk it over. Don't let good things turn into bad things.