At this point, the marriage between Luo Ziqun and Chen came to an end. "Little Three" Lingling also successfully advanced, and the dust settled.
Luo Zijun: Beautiful, innocent and lovely. She and Chen have a lovely child: Pinger. When Chen's career is booming, why is their marriage interfered by a third party?
As He Han said: The most terrible mistresses are not those beautiful vases, but those full of energy!
Lingling, an ordinary divorced woman with children, what magic weapon did she use to make an introverted and honest man so cruel?
At the beginning, when there was no obvious crack in the marriage between Luo Zijun and Chen, Lingling always stood in front of Chen with a gesture of "My wife has paid a lot for you, I just love you silently, and you are not responsible for me".
Even after his divorce, he took the initiative to comfort Chen not to have psychological pressure. "Divorce is my own choice, it has nothing to do with you. We are both very good. "
Lingling firmly grasped the man's psychology: "The red flag at home does not fall, and the colorful flags are fluttering outside"; A wife is always a wife, and a lover is always a lover.
Retreat for progress has won Chen's favor.
When their underground love affair was revealed by Tang Jing, Lingling showed a strong look: pulling WeChat, deleting phone calls and applying for leave, without the traditional drama of women: crying and hanging herself, but a pair of self-esteem and boundaries. Make men greedy and itchy!
Until the court ruled that divorce was a foregone conclusion. Whenever Chen hesitates, Lingling still shows a gesture that she doesn't care and gives full freedom, which further strengthens Chen's determination to be with herself.
Because as a mistress, Lingling is always very clear: what is her own now and what is not. In front of Chen, she will always be a pair: not greedy, dutiful and content. She will never restrict a man or ask him for anything. She always gives him enough freedom.
And this gesture, only for men, is the most precious, willing to throw a moth into the fire!
Lingling first appeared when Chen worked overtime.
As a supporter of the information statistics department, she unconditionally supports her boss, works overtime silently, and sends stomach medicine representing love when the boss is physically and mentally exhausted and has an upset stomach. This kind of convenient, timely and warm-hearted behavior is simply beyond the reach of a wife who is a few kilometers away.
When Lingling realized that Chen's parents had come a long way because of divorce, and the old man was anxious to get angry, she took the initiative to buy tonics such as ginseng, which fully reflected her respect and concern for the old man.
I want to know my heart, my head is white. Can there be a:? When you work hard, you know how cold it is; A caring lover who knows how to be filial to his parents is what every man dreams of!
As an information and data statistician, Lingling's working ability is indispensable to Chen Lai. Once, because Lingling asked for three days off, it might seriously affect the progress of the project, so that Tang Jing could not force her to leave by anonymous letter!
Lingling's working ability is obvious to all.
At the same time, as a college graduate, Lingling was just a small market researcher at first, and with her own efforts, she was able to be a staff member of the information department of a well-known consulting company step by step. Her efforts and devotion to her work are unmatched by ordinary people.
Many women will say to men: the way you concentrate on your work is the most attractive. In fact, this sentence is the same for women.
Women at work are the most beautiful, especially when they are serious.
Love at first sight depends on looks. Life is not easy, and if you want lasting affection, you must keep pace with two teammates and make progress together.
In the TV series, He Han and Tang Jing took Zijun, and through on-the-spot investigation, she finally found the gap between herself and Lingling. This is a very valuable experience for Zijun's later life, although it is unlikely to happen in real life.
It is very important and crucial to get out of the mood and find out the problem in time after the incident.
Many people think that as long as I am the original wife, I will always stand on the commanding heights of morality, and everyone should join me in condemning dogs and men. Perhaps decades ago, this cognition was established. But this time is different. Even in the congratulatory letter, I said: In fact, I can understand Chen and even feel a little sympathy for him. When you can't bear it, no matter what position or role you are in, you are as rebellious as others. When you are elegant and excellent, all respect and public opinion will turn to you.
We should treat Lingling in two ways.
Whether Luo Zijun and Chen's marriage is problematic or not, it is contemptible to interfere in other people's marriages during their marriage.
But as a woman in marriage, from Lingling, we can see how a woman makes a man tempted by her and even gives up the original stable marriage and family, which is worth learning and thinking about in marriage!
It's like a thief accidentally stole his wallet. Of course, it is not good for a thief, but if he can find loopholes in managing personal belongings through this incident, learn lessons and improve himself, it may not be a good thing for the rest of his life.