Everyone else is sitting in this empty chair, or they may borrow a small chair to let themselves go back to the past, and then tourists can vent their emotions and cure unfinished things.
This is a very classic skill that is often used in the unfinished event work path experiment. There are 9 steps in the working path of unfinished events:
When importing, we usually use the trinity balance technology to make the case have an overall understanding of itself through the expression of language, emotion and body.
For example, in a case where you are tired from clenching your fist, we can ask, "I just saw you clenching your fist and said you were tired." Can you tell me how you feel?
"Fisting is a physical expression, expression is a language, feeling tired is an emotion, and the trinity is balanced.
The summary must have an overview and a description of the situation, some simple and some detailed.
When visitors begin to perceive, present and describe their own themes, we can let them "track" through association.
For example, you can ask visitors, "What does your state remind you of at this moment?" Visitors may say, "I think of the past, and I …".
When the visitor expresses emotions in the narrative, we can use gestalt concretization technology, that is, let the case stay in concreteness, stay in his own intention, rather than stay in narrative and events. When a narrative or event appears in the form of an image, his experience and influence will be stronger.
For unfinished events, we should insist on going back to that moment, not this moment (this moment and that moment of G.Yontef). At this time, visualization can be combined, and the case is not easy to resist and separate.
In the unfinished details of the case, let the case describe the detailed information as much as possible and express what you see. At this time, combined with gestalt amplification technology, the effect of experience will be more obvious.
Let the case express its pent-up needs in language, emotion and behavior, and then try to let the case get in touch with the core figure in the unfinished event through the empty chair technology to feel his temperature, emotion and attitude.
When the case is in full contact with the person who has not completed the event, compensation and growth will happen immediately. The principle of "simple path" in compensation method is basically that so-and-so is wrong, so-and-so loves you, and then repeats. Too complicated compensation methods will make the case jump out of the scene and drift away.
When I was a child, I grew up, grew up, had strength, and took responsibility for myself. From small chair to big chair, and then from that moment to this moment, this is a ritualized process, which marks the growth of the case.
Looking back occurs at the end, sometimes it is guided by the counselor, and sometimes it is a subconscious spontaneous behavior of the case. In the process of looking back, image reconstruction occurs and the picture becomes warm.
Empty chairs can appear in some links in different forms according to different situations. It can help tourists retreat quickly in the form of a "small chair", or it can be just a chair to let tourists vent their depressed emotions through simple dialogue, or it can appear in the form of a "double chair" to help tourists integrate the two poles and achieve growth.
Next, I want to introduce phenomenology and field theory. Before I introduce it, I'd better tell a story so that everyone can better understand these concepts.
Two travelers sat on a huge rock overlooking the East African prairie. A traveler watched the sun scorching the earth gradually move away from the horizon, felt the temperature slowly changing from hot to cold, and listened to another traveler telling his story. The clear sky is as colorful as watercolor painting, and his companions told him about his childhood obsession with the East African prairie. While listening and watching, he also raised his telescope and happened to see a lion hunting in the distance. The lion is eating the carcass of the antelope. Young people are very curious. The lion seems to be eating in an orderly way. Lions will take the lead in eating, but lions who don't turn around will wait, followed by a group of seemingly hungry hyenas, eager to eat leftovers.
Another partner, continuing to tell his story, tried to take two or three part-time jobs in his daily life in order to see the East African prairie. Even though it is difficult, he still doesn't care. He stuck to his goal. Another partner listened to his story while watching hyenas eat from a distance. He found vultures hovering in the air not far away, and several of them had landed first, and kept a proper distance from hyenas in order to get food earlier than their companions. While his partner continued to talk about his experiences in the process of coming, such as the plane broke down, the backpack was cut open during the trip and the property was stolen.
As the sun sets, giraffes on the East African prairie shake their necks like swaying reeds. The afterglow of the sun echoes the clouds, and the scene at this time can only be described as magnificent. Listening to the partner who is telling the travel nightmare, the traveler gradually turned around, patted his partner on the shoulder and pointed to the distance: Dear partner, why not immerse yourself in the scene at this moment? Isn't that what you want?