Fangfang (a pseudonym) is the mother of a child over one year old. On this day, Fangfang wants to clean the house, but children over one year old can't live without adults. At this time, she saw her husband sitting on the sofa watching TV. Although he didn't know much about the skills of raising children, there was nothing she could do, so she gave the child a husband and asked him to take him to the room to play.
So father and son are playing with toys in the room. After a while, the father felt bored, so he thought about how to make his son be honest and play with his mobile phone for a while.
At this time, he glanced out of the corner of his eye at the shoes that had just been washed in the shoe cabinet. He had a plan and took them. He deliberately sat in front of the child, put on his shoes and made a funny expression.
So the baby is easily fooled. He also took the other shoe in his hand and began to imitate his father's movements. Although it was difficult for him to tie his shoelaces, he didn't give up.
On the other hand, the mother felt that her father was taking care of the baby in the room, and there was no sound for half an hour, so she put down her work and pushed the door open. She saw her father's "divine operation" and made the child so obedient and convinced: "You are really a genius with a baby."
Although dad is not as reliable as mom in raising children, there are many benefits for dad to raise children.
First, the benefits of dad taking care of children.
1. It's more independent to give back children.
When fathers take care of their children, most of them are not as careful as when mothers take care of their children. For some things that children can do by themselves, such as dressing, eating and carrying some things, fathers prefer to let their children do it by themselves, which can exercise their hands-on ability and enable them to do something independently.
2. Can make children feel more love.
For children, fatherly love and maternal love are indispensable. Mom and dad can complement each other in personality, thought, psychology and behavior. Having a father around can make children behave braver and more adventurous, let them feel more love and develop more comprehensively.
3. It can make the family more harmonious
It is very difficult for a mother to take care of her children alone. When a father can help take care of the children, it can not only reduce her burden, but also make her feel happier, thus eliminating the negative emotions caused by taking care of the children and making the family more harmonious.
Dad can take his children to experience more games.
For women, men prefer to experience games with their children rather than watch them play. Moreover, for some games that require physical strength that mothers can't take their children to play, fathers can also let their children play and let them experience more games.
Father's love for children is not less than that of mother's, because father has to bear the burden of most families, so his expression of love for children is not as obvious as that of mother's. Here, I would also like to remind everyone to let dad take care of the children as much as possible, which will not only make the children grow up happier, but also make dad care more about the children.