But after marveling, I admire him because his goal is clear. If you have an ideal life, you will have a look forward. If life loses its goals and ideals, then life will become very bad. You don't know why you are alive and why you are happy. People will always become happy when they get what they want, and become happy in the process of pursuing. So I don't think he will be depressed. Maybe he will become depressed after buying the ideal house, because he has lost his goal. But I don't think he will, because he doesn't have a girlfriend yet, and he will aim at finding a beautiful woman in life.
So what is our goal in life? A friend laughed at me and said, you are really, why are you doing this? But I didn't do it on impulse. Someone replied that it is time to retire now; Someone replied that he won 5 million or something. What is the goal of life? Go to school-> Looking for a job/starting a business after graduation-> Love-> Buy a house-> Get married-> Have a baby-> Cultivate children-> Retire-> Happiness and harmony in old age may be the trajectory of many people's lives, and in this process, they may skip a certain stage and directly reach the next stage. Some people say that this is our ideal. Actually, it's not right. It's not our ideal. At most, it's our life trajectory and life mode. An ideal should be something you want and you are very willing to realize. Of course, the trajectory of life mentioned above can also be regarded as a person's ideal and goal, as long as you are not unhappy and actively complete it.
Close your eyes and imagine that there must be one thing you really want or achieve, and that is our short-term goal. Maybe the goal is to learn feathers and knit sweaters. We have found our short-term goal and achieved it. After or during the realization, we will find another bigger goal. Although we don't know what this bigger goal is yet, after we reach one goal, the next goal will definitely wait for us. Everyone has different interests and hobbies. Some people aim at the quality of life, while others aim at work. We should not laugh at a goal that you think is not a goal, but should strive to achieve the current goal, so as to find our bigger goal. Only in this way can our life be more meaningful and happier. Otherwise, a person will feel that life is meaningless, he doesn't know what to do all day, and everything feels meaningless.
Fifty famous aphorisms about life and ideals
1, life should be like a candle, it is always bright from the top to the end. Xiaochu Nv
2. The road is trodden by people, and the history is written by people. Every move of mankind is writing its own history. -Ji Hongchang
3. I hope I don't feel guilty about life every time I recall it-Guo Xiaochuan
The value of life is not measured by time, but by depth. Leo Tolstoy
5. The value of a person should be judged by what he has contributed, not by what he has achieved. -Einstein
6, life is really like this cup of spirits, without repeated refining, it will not be so delicious! -Guo Xiaochuan
7. Night is the prelude to day. -Guo Xiaochuan
Winter has come, can spring be far behind? -Shelley
9. Believe in yourself before others will believe in you. -Turgenev
10, the past has been forgotten, and my heart is selfless. mould
1 1, always seeking benefits for others, not self-interest. -Xie Juezai
12, gentleman's righteousness, villain's benefit. Confucius
13, don't care about poverty, don't worry about wealth. -Tao Yuanming
14, not strong is not wise. Mo Zhai
15, Swallows know the ambition of swans! Chen She
16, aim high. -Zhuge Liang
17, the old horse crouches, aiming at a thousand miles; The martyrs were full of courage in their later years. -Cao Cao
18. Swallows play with firewood. They know how to swim with swans. -Cao Zhi
19, poor and healthy, not falling into the blue sky. -Wang Bo
20, Dapeng day downwind, soaring in Wan Li. -Li Bai
2 1. People who made great achievements in ancient times not only had talent, but also had persistent determination. -Su Shi
22. Life is an outstanding person, and death is a ghost. I still miss Xiang Yu and refuse to cross Jiangdong. -Li Qingzhao
23, a strong heart is not old, and you can still be a ghost when you die. -Lu you
24. Being poor is a shame, and being ashamed is poor without ambition. Kun Lv
25. The ideal of life is for the ideal life. -Zhang Wentian
26. The ideal person should not only meet material needs, but also meet spiritual interests. -Hegel
27. The whole meaning of life lies in the endless exploration of the unknown. Zola
28. When you are alive, worry about death; When I die, I am attached to my life as soon as possible. No wonder so many people live an unsafe and tired life. -Xinglinzi
29. Whenever possible, we should "imitate" ourselves and become ourselves. -(America) Morz
30. Being alive is always fun, even if you are worried. -(America) H. Mencken
3 1. The hardest thing in life is to know yourself. -tellez.
32. The happiest thing in the world is to fight for the ideal. -Socrates
33. Ideals are like the morning stars, we never reach them, but like mariners, we can navigate according to their positions. -Schlitz
34. Pessimists are defeated by themselves first, and then by life; An optimist conquers himself first, then life. -Wang Guozhen 35. Without wind and waves, it is impossible to show the true colors of sails; Without twists and turns, you can't taste the joy of life.
36, fallen leaves-the tears scattered by the leaves have fallen, why bend down to pick them up; Instead of carrying bitter memories, it is better to go to tomorrow and take a bath in the spring rain.
37. It seems that people accept their fate every day. In fact, people are arranging their own destiny every day.
38, don't do it with evil small, don't do it with good small. Only virtue and virtue can serve others. -Liu Bei
39. A gentleman's trip is quiet and self-cultivation, frugal and self-cultivation, indifferent and ambitious, and quiet. -Zhuge Liang
40, leap, not ten steps; Ten drivers, Xu, contributed; Perseverance, rotten wood can't be carved; Perseverance, the stone can be carved. -Xun Kuang
4 1. If you don't sow in spring, you won't grow in summer, harvest in autumn and taste in winter. Heine
42. Don't be arrogant. -(Qing) Lu
43. Don't be idle during the day, and youth will never come again. —— Lin Kuan
44. Flowers are similar from year to year, but people are different from year to year. Liu Xiyi
45, the gentleman's behavior, regardless of right and wrong, regardless of interests; On good or bad, regardless of success or failure; On immortality, dead or alive. —— (Ming) Huang Zongxi
46. A person's real greatness lies in his awareness of his own smallness. Paul
47. Time can win our lives, but it can't win the laughter, blessings and endless love we left behind along the way. -Xinglinzi