The first friend who reminds me for a long time, just call him Amin! The biggest difference between Amin and others is that she blushes when she sees girls. I remember once my uncle wanted to introduce Amin to someone, but when he arrived at the matchmaker's house, his face flushed and he couldn't say a word. So, my uncle kicked Amin. Of course, since then, few people have introduced Amin to anyone. These are all heard from the large population. However, I had a good chat with Amin. Although we are ten years apart, there is always something to talk about. I remember once picking apples with him in his sister's orchard. He rode me for dozens of miles and finally lost my slippers. Naturally, I got another training. This seems to be the only thing worth laughing at.
Later, it may be because I went to school, or I think there is a difference between men and women, or I may be old enough to drink for my elders in the New Year, or I may be old enough to go out to work. In short, we spend less and less time talking and chatting. Only when there is a temple fair in my house every year will he come no matter how far away. In short, I don't feel so depressed here.
Occasionally, I heard adults say that Amin was smart when he was a child, but because his parents were too weak, when friends in the village complained about fighting or swearing, Amin's parents beat Amin at random. Amin will resist at first, but the more he resists his parents' sticks, the heavier he becomes. That Amin didn't bother to explain later. Because parents always live in the village in a compromise way, they always feel that as long as the other party is at ease, they ignore the truth. On another occasion, Amin was said to be locked at home. The reason is that neighbors said Amin had damaged their saplings and suggested tying Amin at home to avoid causing trouble, so parents did so. Amin didn't loosen the chain until the other party stopped mentioning it. And this has happened more than once. You can imagine how tortured Amin is in his twenties. He couldn't tell how much pain he felt, so Amin became resentful, a little nervous and furious with his family, but his family, neighbors and relatives all felt that Amin was mentally ill, and no one cared what caused Amin to be today.
So on the day of my temple fair in 2002, Amin passed away. I clearly remember that many junior high school students came to my house that day, and another student specifically asked me, "You didn't say that your family has many relatives. Why didn't I have a crush on a few people?" I'm just saying that something happened somewhere else, and these things have been solved. After my classmates left that day, I listened to the description of my relatives coming back and fell into deep meditation and pain. I can imagine the excitement when you came back from the honeysuckle field, and the scene of 7 bleeding after you accidentally slipped on the road because of excitement.
Maybe there is not so much criticism, ruthlessness and irony in the world. Your age is always fixed at thirty, when I was only sixteen. I've been thinking for a long time. If we were all brave, or if we listened to your complaints and fought hard, there would be no tragedy.
The second thing that reminds me for a long time is summer. Xia has a natural sweet smile and kind character. I remember that year when I built a house for my eldest brother, she came to help early and was busy with two big white melons in the corner of Westinghouse. Xia Jie seems to be as old as my big brother! I heard that I work in a clothing factory near my home, and I am still an excellent employee! Xia is the most capable and hard-working in the eyes of relatives, and we all think that she may have a bright future if she doesn't leave.
In fact, she did find a good husband, and her mother-in-law is also very powerful. Every autumn, when she first arrives, her mother-in-law will make a quilt and send it over. I remember once listening to her mother say that she wanted a divorce, and she scolded her back. The reason is that I can't find a reason for divorce, but I think it's a joke to divorce if I don't like it. At that time, if you say it, you will be eliminated by your neighbors. And Xia is an extremely filial child. Every year he comes to help his mother do farm work and clean the house. But I am not happy every day. She said she couldn't say why, but she felt uncomfortable there, but everyone seemed to be very kind to herself! Every time she filed for divorce, her mother advised her to go back on the grounds of losing face, missing her children or missing her.
Later, I got the news that she died of breast cancer in April of 20 13, when it was still snowing. Only thirty years old. Relatives say that Xia is too honest and her mother is too strong to cause today's situation. The most powerful evidence of her mother's strength is that she cut off Xia's first love and forced Xia to marry their neighbor's daughter. The reason is that mother and neighbors have a good relationship, but they just happen to be close. Besides, if she refuses, I'm afraid I'll be embarrassed to meet you later. Sometimes I wonder if we are too kind and make too many compromises for our family, but we can't solve the pain in our hearts, which leads to today's ending.
The third thing that reminds me for a long time is Amin, my first colleague who worked with me. I still remember my first impression was fearless and confident. What impressed me the most was that when she made the foreign trade list for the first time, the person she thanked the most at the weekly meeting was herself, because she said this list herself. We ordinary people should first say thank you for your support, your colleagues' help and so on. So I was particularly impressed with her at that time. I think she is so simple that everything is taken for granted.
Later, I heard from a close colleague that Amin had an unforgettable love story, saying that she had been in love with her former partner for three or four years, and that she had married to her hometown in the south. Later, she felt that her family was too poor and her parents were very old. If she stays there for a long time, it will be difficult for her to turn over in her life, although her parents and the object at that time were very kind to her. But she still didn't dare to bet on tomorrow, so she sneaked back.
At that time, I really admired her courage, followed her to such a far place, and then fled back. Later, she jumped ship to another company, was promoted to manager, started her own company and found a good family. What surprised me most was that she could let the man transfer the property to his own name. I have to admire her own shrewd calculation. But even if you dare to do it, people who are good at planning ahead will die because of an induced abortion. She was just thirty years old that year.
Colleagues say it's because she doesn't want the child who isn't sure if she was born with a problem. I just feel that things change. Sometimes we compare everything, calculate gains and losses, and finally get what? After all, the house I came to was returned to the man by all means, and my company was accepted. In the end, I didn't even qualify for the ancestral grave, so I had to stay in a lonely grave. I wonder if the other party will come to pay homage.
From this perspective, we can't go too far, and we can't go too far. Life, I don't know when we will press the pause button. As long as I think of you, I feel anxious.