She works in the company herself, but in her spare time, she organized two online public welfare groups, one is the "matchmaker group", which specializes in helping people connect; A "companion group" aims to help people accompany the elderly. Both are non-profit organizations, doing voluntary service and offering love for charity.
People who know her say that she is not like this. This originally meant before her mother died. At that time, she was introverted and not very talkative, giving people a cold and inaccessible feeling. Everyone who knows her knows her character, so she has few good friends at work. The death of her mother hit her hard, and she has been living in pain and self-blame for some time.
Therefore, she asked for more than a month's leave to sort out her mother's belongings at home every day, and she was in Lacrimosa every day. A relative in Shenzhen was very worried about her situation and introduced her to a "net companion" team. Every day, there are special people to chat with her, help her to relieve her emotions and find a sustenance for her soul. Slowly, she got used to this kind of company and began to bring this model to people around her. To this end, she also organized a "Love and Companion" WeChat group in the local area, and took the lead in reading something positive in the group every day, day after day, and persisted for more than ten years every day. She wants to be a different person.
Give someone a rose, and the hand has a lingering fragrance. While giving love to others, she also gained happiness and a sense of accomplishment, which also helped her find her personal value. Her language is more and more euphemistic, her expression is more and more peaceful, and her personality is more and more gentle.
Later, because I saw that more and more parents around me began to marry their children, I suffered from the lack of a trustworthy platform and intermediary. She led the establishment of a "matchmaker group", and all parents with school-age children joined the group. After joining the group, you should first release a message explaining the child's age, education, workplace and personal requirements for the other half.
In two years, she has created two "matchmakers" of nearly a thousand people. Today, 48 pairs of happy marriages have been promoted and become veritable "matchmakers".
"Sister Juan spent a lot of thoughts in order to find someone for me. I can't express my love. She taught me sentence by sentence how to communicate with others. Now my marriage and family are very happy, thanks to her. " Xiao Ren, who found the other half through her introduction, was still very touched when talking about the help A Juan gave her.
Old people are most afraid of loneliness, especially sick old people. A Juan and her team often go to nursing homes and some elderly people who live alone to perform programs, chat and conduct psychological counseling. Later, because there were often old people who needed haircuts, they learned to have haircuts again and brought tools to serve the old people every time. Later, it was developed to use the old people who went to the village on Sunday to have a voluntary haircut friendship with poor families.
There is a family in the community and the woman is a teacher. Because of illness, she is paralyzed in bed and can't take care of herself. Her husband divorced her, leaving her and her two daughters at home. The eldest daughter is in the fourth grade and the youngest daughter is in kindergarten. She can only rely on her parents in their eighties to take care of her and her two daughters. Both old people are sick themselves, so embarrassed that they can only eat pickles and drink confused soup every meal.
Knowing this situation, A Juan and her team insisted on going to their home once every two weeks, bringing some daily necessities to scrub the body of the woman who was paralyzed in bed and clean the room for them. Her neighbors can't stand the strange smell of their home, but A Juan and her team don't have any resentment or complaints. It has been going on for more than eight months.
A Juan has also developed the habit of carrying plastic bags with him. When I saw the mineral water bottle, I picked it up, put it in a plastic bag, put it in the basement at home, and finally sold it with the waste at home to buy some daily necessities for the elderly in the nursing home. Later, colleagues in the unit knew her kindness and kept old newspapers and magazines for her.
It is not difficult for a person to do a good deed, but it is difficult to do it all his life. Lei Feng, whom we are familiar with, is such a person, and A Juan is also a person who is determined to do good deeds all his life.
Maybe others don't quite understand, and they will think that her A Juan is not for profit, that's a picture name. That's because they didn't insist on doing public welfare. A person who often does public welfare is extremely rich and substantial in heart. Maybe what they want is this kind of inner richness and enrichment!