How can I put it? Cai Kangyong said that if you have no ambition, you will miss it. Xu said that if you have ambition, you will still miss it. Yes, the lack of ambition will really make us miss a lot, such as some opportunities, success, fame and fortune and so on. But those may be external. Self-ambition will make us miss our relatives, friends, lovers and so on. These are internal, so-called emotions. There is nothing wrong with being self-motivated and there is nothing wrong with not being self-motivated. Everyone pursues life in a different way. We can't ask others to live the same life as us. Why do we have to have people like us? We can't measure other people's lives by our own standards and respect those who live in any way. As long as you think there is nothing wrong and no influence, who can you blame? This is a pluralistic society, and respecting others means respecting yourself.
In my opinion, it may be wrong not to be motivated. As Kang said, nothing is taken for granted. Self-motivated is to be free and not to let yourself fall into a helpless state. Freedom is not doing nothing, but you have capital and can choose freedom. But it may not be a problem. I think everyone's self-improvement will be troubled and self-doubt when they encounter bottlenecks. Cry silly for a bunch of people But as Kang Yong said, in fact, self-motivation is for freedom. All efforts are just to have the ability to refuse an unwanted life. ?
In a word, it's not someone else's fault, it's yourself, and you've said it from your own reality. I have no motivation. Am I wrong? I have always been self-motivated and know when to work hard. I know it's a waste of time not to make progress. But when I heard Rujing's speech, my empathy made me cry the most. Self-motivation is endless. I tried, but I didn't succeed. Self-motivation is super torture. But later, Kang Yong said, when you hit a bottleneck, your self-motivation didn't end, but turned into depression. It is painful to hit a wall when you work hard. But I don't want to stay where I am. I'm still making progress? .
Such as static said, when you meet a hurdle on the road to growth, you have to give up your ambition. Otherwise, this person will always be stuck there. Later, Cai Kangyong said, instead of giving up, he turned to find something he liked and was good at. Sometimes there is no difference in life, only left and right. In a word, I am a self-motivated person, because I am afraid and timid.