This is the first time for me to take my classmate Xin to Miss Guo's studio. To tell you the truth, I'm a little nervous. I was afraid that she was not interested in sketching because of monotony, so I sat in the back of the first class and watched with her.
During the National Day holiday, Mr. Guo was alone in the studio with his friend's children. There were only two students in the studio, which was very quiet. Teacher Guo gave a pen and a piece of drawing paper, and began to guide her to draw very professionally from the aspects of lines, composition, overall observation, layout and symmetry. I sat there, leafing through the magazine, often interrupted by the excited praise of Teacher Guo, and looked up. "Well, the lines are very tangible and feel good!" "Great, very careful observation!" I said those modifiers such as "very", "too" and "very" very loudly and with a long voice. My mother is really in high spirits, and her uneasy heart seems to be relaxed. When Miss Guo pointed out her shortcomings, it was raining lightly in Mao Mao. "Look, it would be better if this line were longer!" "Just come a little bit from this angle!" These "a little" and "a little" seem to say that you are just a little insufficient and there is no big problem.
You know, this is just Xin's first sketch class. I couldn't even take a sketch pen before, but two hours later, when Teacher Guo scored 90 points for Xin's first work, all I saw was a messy line drawing that I couldn't see at all. Isn't such a high score a bit exaggerated? In fact, this is the wisdom of Teacher Guo.
Since then, Xin entered the student era and showed unprecedented interest in sketch classes. Every time she goes to class, she is as happy as she wants to do something very interesting. And the first sentence when I come back every time is that Teacher Guo praised me again today! I also said that I have made great progress in front of other parents! Look at her pride, happier than winning the lottery.
And every time I talk to Mr. Guo on the phone, the first sentence I hear is "SXY mom, SXY draws very well and makes rapid progress!" Anyway, being bombarded by sugar-coated shells like Miss Guo not only makes the students proud, but also believes that I must have a talent for painting. Even my mother is complacent, as if she had buried a future painter without trying to train her.
In fact, I didn't see any "great progress" in the works that Teacher Xin brought back every time in the first semester. Besides, my daughter, I know, has an average talent. I have seen children with real talent and learning, and that kind of spirituality is very admirable. In this way, Ke Xin maintained a keen interest in sketch and even painting in Mr. Guo's weekly "sweet talk", and this interest also extended to comics, and he had his own ideals and goals. Because of the sketch class, my inferiority complex was aroused by great confidence.
Speaking of confidence, it's too important! Some time ago, I found that Xin's English was declining, and the papers I took out were really bad. I read her English test paper carefully and felt very angry: "you see, even such simple knowledge can be wrong." In the present tense, the third person sINGular verb should be followed by s, and the verb after LIKR should be followed by ing. Why did you forget? What were you thinking during the exam? " I'm really confused. You know, these grammars are often emphasized over and over again, but she always makes mistakes and seems to have a bad memory, so her tone is a bit unforgiving. After she was told several times by me, one day she shouted, "My English is poor and my memory is poor!" " "In a huff, throw the paper aside. In fact, she still likes English, perhaps because I hit her so many times that I feel that my English is really failing.
It seems that every mother can't be patient with her children, always exaggerating her mistakes and turning a blind eye to her own advantages. The child's self-confidence was greatly affected by your nitpicking, so he just sat down on the ground. I am stupid and inferior to others, but I am not good at all in your eyes!
There is a good saying that if you say a child is smart, he will become more and more smart, and if you say he is stupid, he will become more and more stupid. Mom, I really should chew it.