Parents calm down first. When parents give orders, if the child is not interested, then he will go against his parents. At this time, what parents have to do is to calm themselves down and persuade their children to do it slowly. If you encounter unreasonable situations, you can take some appropriate measures, but you must control the heat, otherwise it will hurt your child's physical and mental health.
2. Don't command and communicate fairly. Many parents are actually talking to their children with a condescending attitude. Children should listen and do whatever they want. In fact, parents should also reflect on whether their orders are out of the wishes of their children. If not, they should find out their children's hearts.
3. Go into the child's heart. Many children prefer to communicate with their friends instead of their parents, because their parents are too tolerant. In fact, children have grown up, and parents should let their children do something within their power to increase their self-confidence.
4. Errors are allowed. Many children go against their parents because they don't know what the consequences of mistakes are. Therefore, parents can try to make their children make mistakes. Of course, the range of error should be controllable by parents.
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