Emotion is a wonderful thing. You put the other person in the most important position in your heart, thinking that he will treat you the same way. But it's not like this.
Sometimes you send a message to someone you like and wait for him to reply.
But he is always silent. You can't help asking him again and again, but he still ignores you.
You are worried about what happened to him, or he is in a bad mood, but in fact he just doesn't want to reply to you. It doesn't matter that you are with him, it's just your wishful thinking.
In fact, people who don't return your messages should stop asking questions. When getting along with others, I am most afraid of sending messages indiscriminately. You have to understand that in an era when the Internet is so developed, it is impossible for him not to receive or see your news.
If he attaches importance to you, he won't necessarily reply in seconds, but he will definitely reply to you at his convenience.
No matter in love, or in communication with relatives, friends and others, it is the same truth.
Ask the other person to leave his life.
Many times, we often take others too seriously and ignore our own emotional needs.
Always consider each other's feelings, love each other more than yourself, but find yourself left out in the cold.
If your message is irrelevant, it doesn't matter if he doesn't reply. Obviously, you are eager to find him, or hope to get his help ... but he turns a blind eye.
You don't need to take such people so seriously anymore. Leaving him in life will only make you more miserable.
Writer San Mao said that we refuse to explore our own value, and we attach too much importance to others' participation in our own lives, so life is no longer beautiful.
Yes, in this life, the most taboo is to regard others as more important than yourself.
You know, those who don't take you seriously might as well ask them out of your life. Because it's no use keeping such a person.
I will neither love you nor help you when you need it, but I will make you feel very unhappy.
Never mind, forget it quietly.
The world of adults is sometimes meaningless.
Adult friendship is hard to come by, but it goes quietly.
I sent you a message, and you haven't replied to me for a long time, so I won't bother you easily again.
No matter how deep our feelings were in the past, from now on, you can lie silently in your circle of friends, but you will never take the initiative to talk to you again.
The cruelest feeling in this world is that we are at the two ends of the screen, but it seems that we are separated by an unknown distance.
Between people, once you have this feeling, don't go on reluctantly. Never say goodbye, never say goodbye, let it all end in silence.
No matter how unwilling you are, you can only "forget it" in the end.
In the face of people who don't want to reply to your message, there is no need to entangle and retain more. There are more beautiful scenery in this world, so why hang yourself on a crooked tree?
Miyazaki Hayao said that life is a train to the grave, and there will be many stops on the way, so it is difficult for someone to accompany it from beginning to end. When the person accompanying you wants to get off the bus, be grateful even if you don't give up, and then wave goodbye.
No matter who you loved, who you walked with, who hurt you ... when they stop replying to your messages, you should know that you don't have to wait any longer.
It is enough to love and give ... there is no need to feel sorry for those who don't deserve it, and there is no need to waste feelings for those who don't deserve it.
There are still many things waiting for you to do in this world, and there are many people worth cherishing.
Learn to let go smartly and set foot on a new journey bravely. Believe that the world is very big, and you will eventually meet someone who is really sincere to you.