It's really hard to calm down when you encounter such unfortunate things during pregnancy. But think about it, if you don't calm down first, don't you have to leave your child in your stomach to have a complete and happy home? I have to calm myself down for the sake of the children and this family. Calm down, in order not to quarrel with your husband, and to leave some room for your marriage.
If you really feel that you can't calm down and think, then I suggest you seek help from a professional emotional counselor. They may be able to help you out of this difficult period in a professional way.
Second, find out the reason why her husband cheated.
It is necessary to find out why your husband cheated, because this is the basis for your choice of this marriage. However, because pregnant women are inconvenient to move, it is best to ask your most trusted girlfriends or brothers and sisters to help you understand. I would like to remind you that it is best not to let your parents know, because their concern for you may bring more emotions, which is not conducive to your leading the development of things.
After finding out the reason, if your husband just can't meet your physiological needs during pregnancy, you can still forgive. After all, it's much easier to accept than an affair. If your husband fell in love with someone else during your pregnancy, then this man, this father, please give up. How can you expect him to be a good father and give you a happy home for life?
Third, showdown with her husband.
If you can forgive after finding out the reason, let it be the past. Your generosity will make your husband feel guilty and make him swear that he will be better to you in the future. This may be the best ending.
But what if you can't forgive? Or give him a flat showdown, because you are desperate for him, so you won't have any emotions. What you have to do is to find ways to fight for your due rights, so that you and your children can live better in the future.
All of the above, I hope to help you in misfortune. At the same time, it also reminds those lucky expectant mothers who have never cheated. During pregnancy, you should communicate more with your husband, pay more attention to your image and manage your negative emotions. At the same time, it can also make her husband exercise more and consume physical strength, divert her husband's sexual needs during pregnancy, and let her husband cheat in the cradle.