Psychological consultation room is like a mysterious cave, which always seems to shine with the warmth or hope we need, but when we try to walk in, we feel deeper darkness, humidity and despair. We are not sure whether we can see a completely different sky through this cave.
Aaron admitted that the meeting was three minutes late, and there must be anti-empathy and resistance behind it. He remembered Aaron's special arrangement for Ginny (he didn't accept the treatment fee, but wrote instead) and the last sentence he realized today: "Sometimes it's incredible that such a lovely and light soul really has to suffer so much." It can almost be concluded that the therapist has a special feeling for Ginny, and it is difficult to really distinguish which feelings are anti-empathy, which are simple likes, or even more private. However, as the relationship between consultation and interview, such positive factors are often important promoting factors, and the interest in visitors enhances the motivation of therapists to enter each other's hearts.
In the first part of the consultation, the visitor was immersed in his own feelings and experiences, and the consultant could hardly find clues and didn't know what to do until Aaron decided to start with the details of his life on the day of his visit. This behavior of adjusting the focus helps the therapist to know more about what affects Ginny.
Sex and partnership. On the one hand, Ginny is ashamed of her complacency, on the other hand, she has two contradictory emotions towards her boyfriend. When the counselor felt that he understood the symptoms, he tried to alleviate the anxiety caused by Ginny's masturbation. In the eyes of visitors, the comfort behavior of psychological counselors is still improperly exposed.
Ginny seems satisfied with this conversation.
Ginny doesn't feel so nervous in the consulting room, but she also feels accompanied. This part seems to correspond to the feeling of "no clue" in the clinic. Although the counselor feels that Ginny is trapped by her feelings and experiences, Ginny knows that she is in the consulting room with someone.
Most interestingly, Ginny told the counselor that "everyone masturbates". The counselor means to comfort Ginny, but Ginny thinks the counselor is still telling her that the counselor is doing the same thing herself.
During this consultation, Ginny learned more about her life. For example, she realized that she should be responsible for her relationship with her boyfriend. "Jeancard and I look like frogs and her insects in the school aquarium-so nervous." On the one hand, she realizes what the real relationship is, on the other hand, she also realizes that this part is caused by herself.
At the end of this consultation, Ginny felt the fear of being abandoned again. At this time, her feeling was "I suppressed something." It seems that Ginny suppressed her sexual empathy for Aron, and further, it may be that Ginny resisted the anxiety of separating from the counselor for herself.
For people who walk into the consulting room, they actually need to bear great uncertainty. On the one hand, they hope that the consultant can understand themselves, on the other hand, they are worried that they can't stay after understanding themselves. For helping yourself through consultation, it is still a road that few people take.