Many girls don't like men who are too gentleman in love. Why?

Reason 1: Being a gentleman is a good quality, but if a boy's life experience covers many girls, it violates the definition of a gentleman and becomes the central air conditioner that girls hate most. Boys' life experiences should be well grasped and implemented within a normal social scope. If it goes beyond the normal social scope, it can be defined as courtship. If some boys are worried about other girls under the banner of gentlemen, it will easily lead to ambiguity and unnecessary trouble. Girls want boys to give their tenderness and consideration to only one girl, so don't have any intimate behavior with others except normal intersection.

Reason two: lack of fun. In real life, we will find that a gentleman boy can't find a girlfriend, but a bad boy can get a beautiful woman. If boys are too gentlemen and stick to the traditional dogma that men and women are not close, it will give girls a strong sense of distance, so that girls can't find the feeling of love and feel that they don't want to be close. Respect between brothers is not suitable for love. In love, boys need concrete actions to express their enthusiasm for girls. Boys who are too gentlemanly will ignore this aspect when they are with gentlemen.

Reason 3: The biggest disadvantage of insecure gentlemen in their feelings is that they easily miss a good opportunity to further develop with girls because of politeness. Many of these boys will be regarded as spare tires or good cards by girls because they missed the best opportunity for two people to be together. Their gentlemanly personality will lead to being kind to many people, making the girls they like feel no preference, missing the opportunity for two people to be together, and finally developing love into friendship.

Tipping, of course, does not mean that a gentleman is not good. In fact, a gentleman is a good character. Any boy should be a gentleman, but he should also grasp the boundaries. Excessive gentleness will make people unable to understand their inner thoughts and express their correct thoughts.