1, steady mind, inner peace, whether it is divided or combined, listen to the heart.
In the face of men's infidelity, women will inevitably get angry and do some irrational things, which is not desirable. In the case of uncertain future trends, we should carefully analyze and think about each step and try our best to make the most correct choice.
We must be very clear in our hearts, what is the reason for this man's infidelity? In the future, I will continue to walk with him and rebuild my marriage, or get together and leave, and never get involved again. We must listen to ourselves carefully and make a decision.
Of course, for men who are unwilling to be lonely by nature and are used to philandering, we should stop being too painful for our future life and leave no future trouble. No matter what choice you make in the end, you must follow one principle: protect yourself and don't let yourself be hurt for the second time or even more.
2. Look at yourself, find the crux and prescribe the right medicine.
Men cheat, from the outside, are all the same, but careful analysis will reveal that the reasons are not the same. Some men, usually divided into books, step by step from growing up to entering the society. But I don't know much, and I haven't had any presumptuous experience. At this time, it is inevitable that you will encounter the temptation that you have never had before and go astray.
At that time, we can experience this colorful world together. Some are because of family disharmony and different concepts, which leads to the deepening and irreconcilable contradictions between them, so that feelings gradually change from expectation to disappointment, and they have to go out to seek inner comfort and give themselves more world.
At this time, we should listen to each other and exchange views. There is also that life is getting more and more dull, everything has entered a certain mode, and it is difficult to ripple inside. In this regard, we should create surprises and surprises. The above, according to the different crux, of course, should be handled in different ways. Observe our feelings from the third perspective, examine ourselves, analyze the crux, and prescribe the right medicine.
3. Be customer-oriented, treat each other with courtesy, and take retreat as progress.
Everyone has his own bottom line, don't blackmail in the name of love. Every relationship is like standing on a mountain. Originally, the scope of each other was equal, but both sides occupied each other's space in the name of love, which led to imbalance. When no way back finally stood on the edge of a cliff, the other side had to go to another mountain and seek equality again.
There is no doubt that such an approach can only bring tragedy, so why not leave a certain range for the other party? Only by treating customers with respect and courtesy can there be room for enjoyment, and both sides will have more calm. Retreat seems to be a concession, which essentially maintains the harmony of feelings and the integrity of love. This is great wisdom.
Don't leave with the door.
Don't say "go away, I don't want to see you again" because you will come back after you leave. Or let "I am alone", even if you break up, it is not like this. No matter what the outcome is, you need two people to talk together at this time, and driving away the negotiating opponent will only make you more unable to judge the bottom line of the other party.
Matters needing attention
1, don't take it out on others. Don't tell his parents about it before the divorce decision is made. The smaller the gap in marriage, the easier it is to bridge it.
2. Don't break valuables, and don't tear up the photo of your. In short, don't do things that make your life more incomplete.