After reading the biography of Zhou Xin in the Ming Dynasty, I was deeply moved by the warning that "a gentleman should look after his humble abode". "A gentleman has three regrets: it is a pity not to learn in this life; Unfortunately, this day is idle; Unfortunately, this is ruined. " Except for a few talented people, the average IQ of life is similar. Who is smart and who is stupid depends on the study the day after tomorrow. It's a pity that he can't learn in his life, because he can't learn knowledge, technology and science, live on his own extremely limited experience, have a narrow vision and a closed mind, and can't integrate into the ever-changing trend of the times. Being behind the times is the ultimate destination of people who can't learn in this life. What is more "regrettable" is that he can't get close to the truth, purify his heart with the truth, abandon evil and promote good, and make himself "as young as ever" (in Liang Qichao's words). Lyubyshev said in The Mystery of Success: "Life is the most precious thing for human beings, but a careful analysis of this life shows that time is the most precious thing. Because life is made up of time. " According to the statistics of the Oxford English Corpus (founded in 2000, with more than 1 100 million entries), among the top 100 nouns commonly used by human beings today, "time" actually ranks first-this is an amazing and wonderful discovery. Time is indeed above all else, and it is precisely because of this that it is a "pity" to "idle this day". People who waste time are actually wasting their lives; People who waste other people's time are actually trying to kill others. Lu Xun wrote in coffee time, and Chen Jingrun worked out 1+ 1 by eating steamed bread. When Zhu Ziqing washed his hands, he realized the true meaning of life that "days will flow away from the basin". They don't want to "waste a day", which shows the spirit of a gentleman who cherishes time. Anyone, including those great men who plan decisions thousands of miles away, will always have a record of failure in his life record. Failure is not terrible, sad and shameful for a gentleman. The terrible thing is to be afraid of failure and do nothing. Sadly, after the failure, we made the same mistake without summing up the lessons. Shamefully, after the failure, we tried every means to beautify ourselves and sang it as a triumph. Lenin once called those who are not afraid of failure, but at the same time can learn from them for future practice as "smart people". As early as the 1960s, Japan established a "failure school" and a failure database. Various types of fault data in various industries are available for reference at any time. "Failure" is a common occurrence in life, and the key depends on how you treat failure. Mr. Liang Shuming, a university expert, has a unique view on success and failure: "Success is a coincidence in the sky; I failed, it was myself. "All failures, no matter how many objective factors, no matter how many others' faults, will always be your own fault: failure to overcome those factors that are not conducive to success." Failure is in me "is a spur to people's pursuit of success." It is a pity that a gentleman is devastated after his failure.
In the second paragraph, it is a pity to be ruined.
It is a pity that a gentleman is devastated after his failure.