Patience and perseverance will always be rewarded. -Einstein
People who can't do small things can't do big things. Lomonosov
He who loses patience loses his soul. bacon
Be patient! Don't rely on inspiration. Inspiration does not exist. The excellent qualities of artists are nothing more than wisdom, concentration, sincerity and will. rodin
There is a saying that "you can't eat hot tofu if you are impatient." Thus, patience is one of the key factors of success. In psychology, patience belongs to one aspect of the quality of will, namely endurance. It has a certain relationship with other aspects of will quality, such as initiative, self-control and psychological endurance.
Qi Baishi is a master of modern painting in China. Mr. Qi is not only good at calligraphy and painting, but also has high attainments in seal cutting, but he was not born with this art. He also worked very hard and made unremitting efforts to practice seal cutting to a superb level.
Qi Baishi especially loved seal cutting when he was young, but he was always dissatisfied with his seal cutting technology. He humbly asked an old seal engraver for advice, and the old seal engraver said to him, "Go and pick a cornerstone and go home. Grind it, grind it, and when this stone turns into mud, your seal will be engraved. "
So Qi Baishi did as suggested by the old seal engraver. He picked a cornerstone, carved it and ground it. Compared with ancient seal cutting works, it was carved day and night. Carve, smooth and carve again. I don't know how many blood bubbles have formed on my hands. Day after day, year after year, there are fewer and fewer cornerstones, but the soil deposited on the ground is getting thicker and thicker. Finally, a CHA Ki-seok finally "turned stone into mud".
This hard cornerstone not only honed Qi Baishi's will, but also made his seal cutting grow in the process of tempering. The seal he carved was vigorous, refined and unique. Gradually, his seal cutting reached a state of perfection.
A girl who graduated from the self-taught examination applied for the position of manager secretary of a foreign trade company. But the company arranged for her to be an administrative clerk. The girl thought for a moment and felt that as long as she patiently did the work of a clerk, it would be just as good. So she agreed.
The girl's job is to receive guests and copy, print and other trivial matters. Colleagues always pile some documents that need to be copied and printed on the girl's desk, and then tell her which ones need to be copied, which ones need to be printed, and how many copies each one needs. Girls always patiently record all kinds of requirements and then do them seriously.
On several occasions, the girl's careful inspection avoided the loss of the company. So, that girl was really promoted to the manager's secretary. The girl said to people like this: "Although the work is simple, as long as you have extraordinary patience and care, you will succeed."
Patience is regarded as one of the measures of a person's psychological quality and health, and it is also one of the key factors for a child's future success. Cultivating a child's patience is not only helpful to his study, but also has a great influence on his future life path. However, children are children after all, and many children are not patient enough. As long as you think about it or hear it, you need to cash it immediately. Otherwise, they will keep pestering and arguing until their parents meet their demands.
This is not surprising, because children's patience is not innate, but needs to be cultivated. When a child keeps crying to force his parents to meet his requirements, parents should hold their breath and pay attention to patient training for the child. Only the patience of parents can cultivate the patience of children. So, how to cultivate children's habit of patience?
Recommendation 1: Parents should set an example.
Many children are impatient because their parents are also anticlimactic when they do things themselves. Therefore, in order to make children have patience, parents should first do everything patiently.
For example, parents can study with their children at night. Parents should insist on reading when children keep getting up and sitting down. Children can read patiently or be infected when they see their parents.
In addition, parents should make an appointment with their children before asking them to do something, and they must be patient; If it is not completed, it is necessary not only to make up for the unfinished work, but also to increase the time for dealing with related matters. In this way, children can do things in a planned way and finish things patiently in a certain period of time.
Recommendation 2: Let children understand the importance of patience.
Parents must let their children know that patience and persistence are the secrets of success. In order to make Tong Dizhou understand the importance of patience from an early age, the father of Tong Dizhou, a famous biologist, specially gave him a banner entitled "Dripping water wears away a stone", warning Tong Dizhou that there are no windtight rocks in the world, only people who have no patience.
After his father died, eldest brother arranged for Tong Dizhou to study in Ningbo Normal University. After only one semester, Tong Dizhou proposed to take an examination of the famous primary schools in the province at that time. My brother said to him, "Primary schools teach in English. Your English is not good at all, and you will definitely fail the exam. " Tong Dizhou thinks that "a drop of water wears a stone", as long as he studies patiently, he will certainly pass the exam.
In order to prepare for the exam, Tong Dizhou insisted on teaching himself English, and rarely left his study except for eating every day. Finally, Tong Dizhou was admitted to Xiaoshi Middle School. In Xiaoshi Middle School, Tong Dizhou used the spirit of dripping water wears away the stone again, which made his grades rise from the penultimate place when he first entered school to the first place in his class. This is because Tong Dizhou has a profound understanding of patient learning.
Parents should set an example and be patient when educating their children. If the child does something wrong, reason with him and patiently tell him where it is wrong. Don't beat and scold; Even if you refuse his unreasonable request, you should persuade him.