First, the wolf loves his wife more than himself.
Second, the wolf loves to work.
Article 3 Big Wolf is smart, capable and persistent.
Article 4: Big Wolf has strong hands-on ability.
Fifth, the wolf never feels bad about spending money on his wife.
Article 6 Big Wolf is faithful to his wife.
Article 7 Big Wolf never hides his private house.
Article 8 Big Wolf never discusses right and wrong with his wife.
Article 9 Big Wolf can cook.
Article 10 Big Wolf will please his wife.
Women regard grey wolf as the embodiment of an ideal man and blindly follow him. They hope to find a gray wolf man and think that the gray wolf man is their most beautiful marriage. So, as men, are they willing to be big wolves?
There is a big gap between ideal and reality. As a man, even if you want to be a big, big and wolf man and want to be perfect, I'm afraid you can't do it. Or it's hard to do. The "Wolf" is a typical "henpecked wife". His wife "Kotaro" is a fierce character with a bad temper. She dresses up like a "queen" every day, but she is very hard on her husband. Every time Grey Wolf was bullied by sheep and appeared at home, his wife not only didn't comfort him, but also hated iron for not turning into steel, and hit Grey Wolf hard on the head with a homemade iron pot. Even so, Grey Wolf never gets angry. When he fled, he said sadly to his wife, "wife, wife, don't be angry, it's not good for your skin!" " . If women are endlessly mean to their men like Kotaro, and men are so kind to women, but get such feedback, how many men can be willing to suffer Wichita like Big Wolf? How many men can stand such a family life for a long time? Modern marriage advocates equality between men and women, and slave marriage is no longer suitable for modern men.
As a grey wolf man, no matter whether his wife is right or wrong, he never discusses with her. From this perspective, it is also impossible for men. This is the biggest hidden danger in marriage. Contradictions, problems and conflicts between husband and wife are inevitable. If it is allowed to develop blindly, without criticism or correction, and without any discussion, it will encourage the continuation of mistakes and aggravate the mistakes of the other side. The two sides will never get communication and emotional integration. This is a style of helping others abuse, how can it be said that it is also a kind of kindness to his wife? A man who does not restrain and correct his wife's mistakes can only be said to be incompetent, or is typically afraid of his wife's inflammation. A truly independent person always distinguishes right from wrong when dealing with problems. How many men are willing to be such a pervert?
As a woman, if you don't strengthen your self-cultivation, you only need men to be kind to you, be loyal to you, spend all the money you earn, and never think about each other. How can this Kotaro-style woman be deeply loved by men? The scales of love are equivalent. If one party gives infinitely and never takes, or one party takes infinitely and never gives, the balance will start to be unbalanced. This kind of marriage is difficult to last long. I believe that no man is born with endless devotion to his wife. A big wolf is as hard to find as a needle in a haystack in real life.
Since men don't want to be big Wolf, it's just an unrealistic fantasy for women to marry big Wolf. For this fantasy, we should be realistic at all times and be an independent woman, not attached to men.