At this point, some people will ask questions. This is unconditional! Yes, adults, not children. No matter how they get married, no matter how they live independently in this world, no matter from which angle, everyone can't live on their own, regardless of the feelings of others, the most important thing is the feelings of their families. Yes, everyone can't live only for himself. Those who can't move or shout slogans say they want to live for themselves. It can be said that they are really not adults, and it is hard to say that they are giant babies, at least mentally.
Moreover, even if we give up the future, it is only a temporary future! These two people really came together. Husband and wife are unified, and the benefits are not as good as money. If they love each other, the family will never be worse. On the contrary, families will be more prosperous because of love. In this case, it can be seen from daily life that which truly caring couple will have no future?
Parents are the most unlikely people in your life. We didn't know you and your partner. We can only give superficial views on some problems, or convince you to be loyal to love or let you pursue the future. But your parents are different. They know you best and your love best, and they will obey you unconditionally. At the same time, they can make the most reasonable answer. They can choose love or the future. They know you very well.
Another person's life is not only love and future, but also responsibility and affection. You can't do something that you regret for the rest of your life. Nobody said we couldn't give up. If two people really love each other, they should make progress together. Love is not looking at each other, but looking at the distance together! So I don't think I should give up my job for love.