Parents' feedback on the first lesson of the new semester 1
Family education is an important part of the whole education system. We often say, "Family is a school where children are always attached to and never stop classes, and parents are the first teachers who never leave their posts." It is through family education that parents subtly pass on their lofty moral character, profound knowledge and rich life experience to the next generation, and will accompany their children through the whole life journey.
(A) The first is to create a good family environment.
Family harmony is very important for children's growth. Love between family members will help children learn tolerance, understanding, love, love others and love themselves. Without the care of family, children will become more and more indifferent and selfish. I have seen many cases, such as children's depravity, numbness and so on, all because the family lacks love. Imagine a child who doesn't even love his parents and family, will he still care about strangers? Therefore, we must create a warm and harmonious family life for our children and let them live a happy and worry-free life.
(2) Let children learn their own things as soon as possible, do it yourself, and cultivate their labor habits.
When Momo just learned to sit, we had put her on a stool to have dinner with her family. Although she couldn't eat by herself at that time, we insisted that she should see how adults eat, so Momo slowly learned to eat by herself and learned to eat with chopsticks very early. As long as he can do things at home, he insists on doing them himself, such as sweeping the floor, washing vegetables, taking chopsticks, moving stools and so on. Many parents think that what children can do at such a young age is getting busier and busier. In fact, it is certain that he can't do well, but as long as he participates, if you always stop him from working, he will feel that his mother doesn't need me, and over time he will no longer be willing to do it. Moreover, the cultivation of work habits will make him cherish the fruits of other people's labor more, such as not littering toys, littering and so on.
(3) Encourage and praise children.
The child's self-esteem is also very strong, and sometimes an insult can make him feel bad for a long time. On the contrary, encouraging him more will make children full of vitality. For example, children help parents clean the table, and parents will praise their children and say, You are great! How diligent! No one is wise. In this way, the child will be very happy and may help mop the floor.
(d) Find some good children as role models for children.
Children are very competitive. When other children do what they want to do, they often do what they want to do. Therefore, when educating children, try to find some diligent and sensible children to be role models. For example, children often stay in bed, and parents can say: I will get up and recite poems before dawn tomorrow. I'm so good that no one can catch up with him. In this way, the children will be inspired and refreshed, and they will compete with Xiao Ming to see who gets up early.
(5) Create a learning environment for children and cultivate their study habits.
For a while, my family watched too much TV, but Momo watched too much TV. Then I thought I couldn't do this anymore. So now everyone in the family has learned to read, even if they don't read, so Momo has learned to read. Although the time will not be long, the habit is gradually formed, and it will be better to accumulate bit by bit. As the saying goes, it is better to go to Wan Li Road than to study in thousands of books, so I will take my children out for a walk whenever I have time. Learning knowledge in nature is more acceptable to my children. Although education experts don't recommend children to learn ancient poems of Tang poetry at such a young age, I think reading these poems can cultivate children's aesthetic feeling and sense of rhythm, although children still don't understand them. As for children's songs and music, it is certainly beneficial to watch and listen more. The key is that Mo Mo likes them very much. I think it is most important to cultivate interest.
Parents' feelings about the first lesson of the new semester II
There are four kinds of life education: family education, school education, social education and religious education.
Family education is the foundation of the four kinds of education. If there is something wrong with the family education of a nation or a society, it will be like a tree without roots and flourishing outside, and it will not last long. Therefore, family education, from primary school to home, is the most important.
However, the current family education is very chaotic. Nowadays, parents and elders only know coquetry, do not teach ethics, and do not pay attention to morality. They know almost nothing about the theory, methods, experiences and examples of family education. In addition, with the development of TV, computer, mobile phone and network information, children have lost their innocent temperament in their early childhood. At this time, if parents do not give correct guidance, children will easily get into bad habits and their pure hearts will be defiled, such as white paper and ink. Great troubles, impure heart, difficult academic success, knowledge and learning are mostly superficial, it is difficult to go deep into it. The happiness of reading, understanding and wisdom growth is beyond our comprehension. After a long time, it is easy to get tired of learning and deal with things, which leads to wasting good time, treating people with things and academic virtue. What's the use of getting a diploma?
The problem of family education can't be explained clearly in one or two sentences. Limited to space, here are some important words of godson:
Five contents of educating children: guiding the mind, expanding the ambition, cultivating talents, inspiring righteousness and restraining mistakes.
Nine principles of educating children: courtesy, honesty, study hard, choose friends, refrain from talking too much, practice daily coping, know how to advance and retreat, cherish time, keep promises, and have correct opinions when things go wrong.
To educate children, the first thing is to change temperament.
If you are stingy, teach generosity;
If you are irritable, you should teach gentleness;
Vanity, simple teaching;
Good performance, to teach implicit;
To be frivolous, we must teach stability.
In real life, we should first get rid of children's arrogance and cultivate the virtue of modesty, so that they are gentle, courteous and frugal, and have no circuitous behavior. Children around the age of ten have not yet finalized their ideology and have a strong memory. When they hear a good word, they will never forget it. When they hear a bad word, they will always have evil thoughts. Therefore, in front of children, don't say inferior words, especially quit obscene language. We should always tell stories of ancient sages, such as stories of ancient people's diligent study, biographies of women, records of loyalty and righteousness, biographies of filial piety and so on.
Finally, in view of the current confusion in family education, I would like to make three most important comments:
1. Never spoil. Countless families have proved with blood and tears how incompetent and fragile it is to spoil their grown-up children. When one day parents can't satisfy their children's desires, it is the beginning of this family's disaster and pain.
You must study hard, and don't think that studying is enough. The old man said that farming and reading have been handed down from home for a long time, and children who study hard are often alert and discerning. If you develop the habit of laziness from an early age, the disadvantages are really endless. It is not unreasonable that there are more annoying words than arrogant words. The failure of a family cannot be separated from a lazy word.
3. Be sure to read the books of sages and read the classics of sages. Three of the four ancient civilizations have perished, leaving only Chinese civilization, wisdom handed down for thousands of years, theories, methods, experiences and achievements of self-cultivation, family harmony and world peace.
Parents' feelings about the first lesson of the new semester 3
Thank the school for providing such a rare learning opportunity for our parents. I have learned a lot from my parents' school and benefited a lot. My daughter is in the first grade of primary school in the second half of this year, and I have also stepped into the door of my parents' school. Since _ _ _, we have had one vivid and meaningful lesson after another in the parents' school, and I have benefited a lot. While every parent wants his child to succeed and his daughter to succeed, how important family education is in the process of children's growth, and it also makes me feel more deeply that it is difficult to be a teacher, a parent and a qualified parent. Being a good parent has a long way to go. Fortunately, there is a parent school. Through her, I have a deeper and newer understanding of family education. While trying to be a good parent, I have also changed and improved in various aspects. The shallow experience is as follows:
The first is the change of educational concept. Through the lectures given by xu teacher and Mr. Sun, I understand the requirements of the school for children and how to cooperate with the school to do a good job in children's education. Because I think children listen to teachers best, and I even thought so before. I send my children to school, and it is the school teacher who has the final say in learning well and learning badly, forming a kind of dependence psychology. Through learning, I understand that parents should actively participate in the family education for their children, communicate with teachers more, find a balance between school and family, and organically combine school education with family education to achieve the best effect of education. Through Zhu Dejiang's lecture, I understand that the core of education is to cultivate children's healthy personality, to cultivate children's self-confidence is the first secret of success, and to cultivate good habits is more important than grades.
Secondly, I have mastered the knowledge and methods of family education and improved my educational ability. Through study, I understand how parents should educate their children. Family is the first classroom to educate children, and parents are their first teachers. The quality of family education will directly affect the healthy growth of children. In daily life, we should pay attention to our words and deeds, educate our children to be polite, abide by various codes of conduct, cultivate their good behavior habits, create a good growth environment for their children, actively cultivate their various hobbies, often take their children to participate in activities beneficial to their bodies and minds, and cultivate their good habits such as loving labor, respecting the elderly and loving the young, and being diligent and frugal. At the same time, I think in family education, we should be patient with children and avoid being rude. I personally realize that sometimes children are "disobedient" for other reasons. As long as you have patience, you will find out the reasons for his mistakes. Only in this way can you treat both the symptoms and the root causes of children's education.
Third, the improvement of their own quality. As a child's first school, parents always play the role of "teacher", so they must improve their education quality. Through Dr. Xu Jimei's lecture in the First Hospital, I have mastered some knowledge about parent-child communication. I know how to assign tasks to children, how to deal with children's demands and rejections, and how to deal with children's anger. To educate children well, we must first establish a good parent-child relationship, make friends with children and respect them. As a qualified parent, we should also be an example, which requires our parents to lead by example!
Fourth, the view of children's success. Through learning, it is clear what kind of person to train children into. The times require the society to cultivate compound new talents to meet the needs of the times. We must cultivate our children into a new generation with good moral quality and all-round development of morality, intelligence, physique, beauty and labor. In daily life, we can't simply pursue high scores and high education, but ignore the cultivation of children's personality, will and innovation ability. At the same time, we should teach children to get along with different people, cultivate their communication and independent living ability, cultivate their sense of competition and cooperation spirit, and let them become a healthy and developed person in the future.
In short, children are still young, and the cultivation of children's ability to distinguish right from wrong and good behavior should come from the education they see in daily life, the environment they contact and the things they contact, and the correct educational methods should be chosen for children. Now I have deeply realized that being a parent is an art that needs lifelong learning. While caring about his food, clothing, housing and transportation, it is more important to guide him correctly and educate him patiently in all aspects so that his children can become useful people in the future.
I hope the school will run more parent schools in the future, so that our parents can constantly enrich themselves, study hard together, train their children into outstanding talents beneficial to society, and also make themselves a qualified parent.
Parents' feelings about the first lesson of the new semester 4
Speaking of children, probably every parent has endless topics. The growth of children has devoted too much effort and love to us. Of course, children have also brought us countless joys. Children are growing up day by day, from babbling and toddlering to today's children, and their changes bring us surprises one by one. In fact, the growth process of children is also the growth process of our parents, and we are constantly learning and making progress in their schools. I really don't know whether we taught the children or the children taught us.
The birth of a child means the beginning of education, which can be divided into family education, social education and school education. Parents can't just care about their children's intellectual development and academic performance. In my opinion, parents should pay attention to: children's physical and mental health education; Emotional education; Social morality; The education of non-intellectual factors such as will quality is family education. Knowledge transfer and intellectual development must be completed by school education. Even if parents know this knowledge, they may not know how to solve problems, or even contradict the methods of professional teachers. Therefore, as long as parents do a good job in family education, they will support teachers' work. Below, I will talk about some of my experiences in children's education.
My 8-year-old son is in the third grade in the second primary school. He has something to be proud of: his children have developed in an all-round way and his learning progress is very obvious. He has certain independent ability and can take the initiative to learn; Have a certain sense of responsibility and love, be considerate and respectful of parents, live in harmony with children, understand the hardships of labor and have strong communication skills. But there are also many problems, such as carelessness, love to play computer games, and slow work.
When it comes to educating children, I don't think there is any success. However, the child has grown from a hungry baby to a child who knows a little about personnel. This process is indeed the condensation of our parents' painstaking efforts. There is also a lot of confusion. Let me talk about some educational ideas and experiences of our family.
First, the word "strict" took the lead and seized the critical period of primary school.
Hu Shi, a great scholar, once said, "When a person is young, it is most important. In the future, becoming a great saint, a great hero, a great hero, a great traitor, a great thief and a great thief are all divorced from this kind of family education. " Nowadays, there are more only children in society, family conditions are better, and there are more phenomena of discipline from generation to generation and even asking others to discipline children. In the process of children's growth, many parents often ignore the strict education of their children, "love" and "spoil" their children and spoil them. If they are rude to others, their parents and grandparents should do things for them themselves, talk while doing their homework, or ask adults to accompany them with their homework. For example, among the college students and high school students I know, there have been incidents of asking my parents to cook for me. We should never think that this is a trivial matter. I call it an event because I think such a child is spoiled, selfish and self-centered. No sympathy, no self-care ability, no will to overcome difficulties. Trees are not born straight, but grow into trees.
The purpose of my family's education for children is to let them understand truth and virtue and become a sincere and sincere person. Everything should be guided correctly, so that children can develop the habit of understanding and attaching importance to morality. Children should be trained to think more about the public and try to get rid of selfish ideas. Children are required to have love, love the country, love their parents, love the society, honor their parents and respect their teachers. Study hard and don't slack off. Strive to be a student with all-round development in morality, intelligence and physique.
My family's habit of raising children is strict and lenient. In kindergartens and primary schools, children are obedient, easy to discipline and easy to form good habits. At this time, I am very strict with my son. As long as children form good habits when they are young, they will not be out of line if they are bigger and looser. This is a critical period, and any education has a critical period. It is most effective to cultivate children's behavior habits at this age. If this kind of education is carried out after this age, the effect may be much worse. The primary school stage is the most critical period to establish routine and cultivate good study habits. It is most effective to cultivate all kinds of good habits at this stage. Grasping this link is equivalent to grasping the child's future.
Second, cultivate a sense of independence, so that children have no thoughts of dependence.
Children grow up day by day, but no matter how long they grow, they will always be children in the eyes of their parents. We always feel that they can't do this or that and need our help everywhere. In fact, children's abilities are often beyond our imagination. The key is whether we will let them do it. Maybe we all have this experience. It seems that a child will do something overnight that we have never specifically called him. We will be surprised: how did he learn it? This is the child. As long as we let him take the first step, they will give us a big surprise! Maybe sometimes we think it is not so easy for them to do it by themselves, but children will do it two or three times at a time and will do it well one day! If you don't let him do it, I'm afraid he will never do it well. At home, we try to let children do what they can, such as serving food, pouring tea and sweeping the floor for adults. Communication ability in modern society is also very important, and we should also pay attention to training. On the one hand, we encourage children to communicate with others, on the other hand, we also give them some communication skills.
Third, pay attention to children's growth, communicate with children more, be good parents, answer questions in time and guide children correctly.
Our family is harmonious and happy, which provides a good family environment for the healthy growth of children. Family disharmony is often more harmful to children than adults, which will make children lose their sense of security, easily form bad personality and psychology, and lack sense of responsibility and love. A good family environment can provide necessary fertile soil for children's healthy growth. At the same time, my family attaches great importance to moral education, and only by being a man can we do things. Moral education mainly starts with such trivial things as asking our son not to lie, not to take other people's things and not to litter. The content of moral education also changes with the growth of children. Of course, we will do what parents ask our children to do first. Teaching by example is more important than teaching by words, as Confucius said: "Being upright and acting without orders". The influence of parents' words and deeds on children is subtle. In addition, parents should not condescend to carry out moral education for their children, but should do it in an atmosphere of democracy and equality; In addition, children's education is a step-by-step process, which cannot be achieved overnight. We usually take a little time every day to pay attention to our children's growth: how is the homework done and how is the study progressing? What's new? Aren't you happy? Especially when children are confused, frustrated and make mistakes, communicate with them in time, give correct guidance and adjust their mentality. At the same time, from the people and things around us in daily life, children are subtly educated about their outlook on life and values, so that children can establish lofty ideals from an early age, thus inspiring endless motivation in their hearts. At the same time, it is children's nature to love to play. Without too much extracurricular training, we never deprive children of the right to play.
Fourth, contact teachers frequently to learn about children's learning situation and performance at school.
Families and schools should always keep in touch and be consistent. Parents should take the initiative to visit the teacher at school, reflect their children's learning situation and ideological attitude at home, and ask their children about their learning attitude at school, whether they are serious in class and whether they speak positively. If your child is insufficient in some aspects, you can have targeted education after returning to China. We didn't do very well in this respect. Fortunately, the teacher contacted us in time, which avoided educating children to take detours and avoiding the formation of some bad habits.
Family education is a complex systematic project. My family's education for children is still not enough, and we are still exploring some methods. We will continue to study hard and learn from the successful experience of other people's family education, and discuss with teachers and parents, so that children can develop in an all-round way, become excellent students with all-round development in morality, intelligence and physique, serve the motherland and people in the future, and be a wise, moral and conscious person.
Parents, children and grandchildren, do not dye bad habits. Children should be educated to study hard and work hard, and they will become the pillars of our country in the future. Benefit the people; First of all, we should carry out moral education for children, know reason and morality, and educate children to become sincere and sincere people.
Greed and laziness are the main causes of human depravity. In any case, we should guide everything correctly, cultivate children's habit of understanding and attaching importance to morality, cultivate children's thought of serving the public and get rid of all selfish thoughts. Children are required to have love, love the country, love their parents, love society, love all people and things, and respect their parents and teachers. Study hard and don't slack off. Strive to be a student with all-round development in morality, intelligence and physique. Stepping into society in the future is not for yourself, but for the benefit of the people.
Educate children to be ambitious. People can't achieve great things without ambition. Ambition is one's goal. Therefore, our family often urges children to have clear goals. Ask children to be ambitious. Clear the direction and study hard. Diligent, at home, ask children to do "parents call and answer;" Parents, don't be lazy. At school, children are required to "respect teachers and listen to their teaching". "Listen carefully in class, complete all the homework assigned by the teacher on time, unite students and learn from each other's strengths; Do as many things as possible that are beneficial to the public at school. Strictly abide by school rules, educate children to strive to be an excellent student with all-round development in morality, intelligence and physique, serve the motherland and people in the future, and be a wise, moral and conscious person. This is our family's expectation and education plan for children.
Parents' feelings about the first lesson of the new semester 5
Parents are children's first teachers, and good family education is of great significance to children's growth. The following are some experiences told by a parent.
From my parents' initial enlightenment education to educating my daughter now, my life experience tells me that family education is as important to children as school education, and even determines their development direction and affects their life. Now I will talk about my experience on the issue of family education.
Adults are the target. Learning to be a man is the foundation of children, and children will benefit for life. Educate children to have a healthy psychology and a sound personality, and never let them become knowledgeable, eccentric, indifferent to their parents and indifferent to others and society. We should treat children as independent people, fully respect and understand them, and reason with them no matter how big their mistakes are. I have always adhered to this educational principle for children, so that they can get all-round development in morality, intelligence, physique, beauty and labor under the education of school, society and family, and at least become qualified citizens who are beneficial to society and adapt to modern society.
Parents are mirrors. "Genius" can't be created, but as long as parents seize the opportunity to discover, cultivate and develop their children's talents and use their own efforts to follow their own path of life, their children may succeed. Parents are not only natural teachers, but also guardians, partners, friends and role models. Children's words and deeds reflect their parents' ideology. It is not easy to be a parent, and it is even harder to be a good parent. That's true. How to be a good parent, I think, first of all, we should strive to "learn to care". Parents should set an example, care about the society, the country, others, friends and colleagues. Make them respect the old and love the young, be humble and help each other, be tolerant and generous, and be kind to others. Secondly, we should strengthen our self-cultivation. Parents should adhere to moral education, abide by the law, and consciously demonstrate to their children practical activities to improve moral quality in line with socialist moral principles and norms. Thirdly, we should create a harmonious environment. The educational environment is a thermometer for children's growth. To build a harmonious family and society, the subtle influence of family life atmosphere can not be ignored, and the moral spirit of family elders can not be underestimated. If children live with proper praise and encouragement, they will learn self-esteem and self-confidence. Living in humiliation, he will learn to feel inferior; Living in equality, he will learn justice; Living with quarrels, complaints, preferences and lack of warmth, he will learn sophistry, blame, jealousy and indifference ... This reality is "teaching without words". Not alarmist.
Children are teachers. Parents should be good at learning their children's strengths. Children have many "lovely shortcomings" that adults should learn from. Such as exuberant vitality and good learning attitude; Not conservative, good at accepting new things; Less sophisticated, sincere and straightforward to people and things; Parents should learn from new technologies, new toys and other unknown knowledge and master the ability to play with them as soon as possible. This advantage of children should be fully affirmed, encouraged and praised by parents, and should not be ignored, accused, suppressed or even stifled.
Respect for teachers is the key. Teachers are the main body of the trinity system education of school, society and family, the engineers of human soul, the founders of children's happiness, the comforters and healers of the soul. For me, I have a deep understanding. My child is a single-parent family, and the feelings of respecting teachers and respecting morality are relatively weak, and the academic foundation is not stable enough. However, his teacher has injected a lot of sincere love and tried his best to strengthen school education with a strong sense of responsibility and dedication, so that my children can develop in a more all-round way in morality, intelligence and physical education, and make up for the shortage of our family education. Such a teacher is highly respected by me, my children and society.
In the future, I am determined to actively cooperate with the school to educate my children so that they can become useful talents who can adapt to modern society. The above experience is just my opinion.
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