"Finn, I agree with your sister's suggestion. Now that your child is still young, divorce is really not the best. You just regard Xiao Wei as a partner. He can earn money to support his family or relax. " My mother also advised me not to divorce.
"Fragrant, your sister and your mother are right. Divorce is really not the best solution. Even if you look for it after the divorce, it may not be as good as Xiao Wei. Boys, eating, drinking, whoring and gambling will always be the same. He will make you pay, and the second marriage is generally very bitter. " My father smoked a cigarette and advised me not to divorce.
My eyes are full of tears. Ever since I found out that my husband, Xiao Wei, was cheating on me, my heart has been in chaos. I took my 5-year-old son back to my mother's house. I didn't know what to do for a few days.
"Daughter-in-law, I will take your son home." On the seventh day after leaving his parents' home, Xiao Wei came to the door with a gift. Although he is laughing, he makes me sick.
My father took Xiao Wei aside and told him many things. He only saw Xiao Wei nod to admit his mistake, promised to be good to me in the future, and vowed to cut off contact with women outside. His father patted him on the shoulder with satisfaction: "Go home and have a good life." What should my husband do if he cheats and refuses to divorce?
My mother is also very happy to see Xiao Wei pick me up. "At least Xiao Wei is worried about you and the children," said her mother. "If you are angry with him, pay for whatever you like, be good to yourself, be good to your children, and don't wronged him for making money."
"Dad, I miss you." My son has been asking my father why he didn't come to pick him up for several days. I really can't bear to see his true appearance. His development lacks father or mother.
In order to have a better son and a complete family, and because Xiao Wei's apology is still sincere, I took my children and Xiao Wei home.
On the way, Xiao Wei made fun of me and the children in the back seat while driving. I ignored him, all I can remember is the scene when I found out he was having an affair. The more I think about it, the more I feel sorry for myself.
On that day, Xiao Wei said that he would go to work until ten o'clock in the evening, and it was still not warm. My heart aches that he eats something without nutrition in the office, cooks dinner at five o'clock, entrusts his son to the care of his next-door neighbor, and then drives a new energy vehicle to deliver meals to his husband.
It began to rain in Mao Mao, so I had to wear a poncho when riding a motorcycle. I walked to the ground floor of my husband's business building and saw him drive out. I thought he might have gone to dinner, so I didn't have time to care so much, so I turned around and followed him.
Driving three kilometers to an upscale restaurant, I called myself stupid. How can he condescend to eat a nutritious dinner? I'm just fooling myself. People come here to eat spicy food!
I only saw Xiao Wei get off the bus and walk into the restaurant. Instead, he waited at the door. In the past two minutes, a young woman dressed in fashion rushed to his side. He took her hand and helped her with the brand bag. They walked into the restaurant in love.
I quickly parked the new energy vehicle, walked into the restaurant and sat in a secluded place, where I could see Xiao Wei clearly.
During the whole process of eating, Xiao Wei interacted with the lady sweetly. He gave her a bowl of rice and brought it to her mouth. She wiped his mouth, just like a pair of close lovers.
After dinner, Xiao Wei and the woman got on the bus hand in hand again. I can't control my anger. It happened in front of the car before Xiao Wei started driving.
Xiao Wei saw me and quickly got off the bus and asked, "Daughter-in-law, why are you here?"
"Your class is very happy!" I said angrily, "Who is he?"
"I'm his girlfriend." The woman also got off. "We have been together for a year."
Slapped the woman, "shameless!"
Xiao Wei stopped me and reminded the woman to go first. Originally, she didn't want to go, but Xiao Wei scolded her. A woman or a woman knows that she is angry, or she has to leave quickly.
When I got home, Xiao Wei and I quarreled all night, only to know that every time he said he was working overtime, he always went out with that woman.
After crying all night, I thought I could get a divorce, but I was not sure what I thought, so I took my son home the next day.
I just didn't expect to go back to my family. My sister and parents advised me not to divorce. It is very likely that this is the pain of giving birth. Without children, I will undoubtedly get divorced and live alone.
Inadvertently, everyone went home, Xiao Wei mainly performed well, and the anger in his heart gradually disappeared in a month or two.
Although my anger has disappeared, the pain is still there. Although I went shopping crazily and bought myself beautiful clothes, skin care products and accessories, I was very sad and more and more mysterious. I think Xiao Wei and that woman moved a little and got together again.
I complained to my best friend, Amei, who said, "A smart woman won't divorce when she finds out that her husband is having an affair. If they don't remarry after divorce, it will be difficult for them to bring up their children alone. If you get married for the second time, even if the man is in love and having an affair, it is also a chicken feather to take care of the children separately after marriage. Don't divorce and spend his money. No matter how he is outside, he and his children are happy. When the children grow up, they will make a decision. There is no pressure. "
Amei has the right to talk about her husband's infidelity. Her husband cheated on her two years ago, and she didn't cry, make trouble or get divorced. She only requires her husband to pay, and now life is ok.
Maybe patience is the true meaning of life. It is a luxury to live happily every day since marriage, especially after having children. A mother lives for her children first.
I gave in. I'm just a housewife. Xiao Wei offers a new house at home. He just needs to work hard and get paid. If he cares too much about others, it is easy to damage his liver and body.
Only later did I know that I still thought too much.
After discovering Xiao Wei's extramarital affair for half a year, he did stop to take care of his family, but a year later he cheated a beautiful divorced young woman and gave her a lot of money.
The salary is used to pay off the mortgage. I'll take it. Where did he get the money?
After reading his mobile phone several times, I realized that he had applied for more than 60 thousand online loans before. He is so stupid that he really wants to eat his meat.
I beat him up, even to my mother-in-law and let everyone around me know. Because of our small family, my parents-in-law paid him back 50 thousand pension service fees, and he also promised not to contact with women outside.
I don't trust him anymore. Anyway, I hide my savings at home and he can do whatever he wants. I really don't want to talk to him anymore.
Xiao Wei stopped for several months and gradually got into trouble. He often goes out to drink. When he is drunk, he sometimes tries to hit me. Maybe I was too fierce to do it.
However, after that, Xiao Wei gradually began to openly contact with women outside, even saying disgusting love words in front of me.
It's really too much. I think I can hold back, but I am weak and gradually feel that it is meaningless to be so angry with a boy. Consider him dead.
But the more I want to live a good life, the more I want to ignore him, the more he goes too far. He gradually stopped giving me his salary, living expenses and his son.
Not long after, he found another college graduate. In order to better provide the girl with a business, he even sold his car. Selling a new car does me no harm. I don't think it's beyond my control.
Sometimes boys are really stupid. When that girl needs more and more assets, Xiao Wei quietly sells the house without telling me.
It took me three months to get to know the house.
I really put up with it again. I asked myself, what is the role of such a husband? Therefore, I will be a horizontal heart, a person ran back to her mother's house, an old man, no matter what, it is not easy to ignore his son.
A few days after I left my mother's house, he took his son crying and begged me to go home. I took the opportunity to ask him to hand over my salary, but he didn't agree and left without my son to help me.
No regrets!
I want a divorce anyway.
At this time, my parents either advised me to be patient for the sake of my children, at least the children should have a better home. Ah mui also advised me to put up with it. She said that a woman's life is like this. What can she do if she is divorced?
But I don't care, as long as I am divorced, I can still accept the pain, that is, I can still treat him as dead, so why don't I give myself a free possibility?
He doesn't want to divorce Xiao Wei unless I bring my son, who is really an asshole and doesn't even want to raise his own children.
I agree with him that I can take care of the children, but he must help me with 2000 yuan alimony every month.
He readily agreed.
The moment I got the divorce certificate, I cried. In the past three years, I have suffered a lot, and my married life is very helpless. I've tried many ways, but it's hard to achieve. Although I haven't worked for many years, I firmly believe that the harder I work, the better my luck.
After the divorce, my children and I temporarily lived in my parents' house. I know they will be unhappy, but I can't help it. I have to inconvenience them before working and renting a house.
I got a job as a doctor and went to the hospital to take care of patients. I am unfamiliar at first, and my income is relatively small, only 150 a day, but at least it is profitable.
Two months later, I learned that the job as a nurse can earn 6000 yuan a month. I give my parents 2000 yuan every month, and they help me pick up my children by car. That's not bad.
Xiao Wei, an asshole, only paid alimony for three months and never paid it again.
I met 85-year-old Sister Xu when I went to the hospital. She asked me to be a domestic nanny, 6000 yuan a month, and allowed me to pick up the children and live together.
Sister Xu is rich, but her children have been overseas, and she seldom goes home to see her, only giving her money. She especially wants her family to be prosperous and have elements of life.
I live with my son at Sister Xu's house, and she is free to help with her children's homework. She said it was great to watch them grow up! My job is to take care of Sister Xu's three meals a day, and send her to the hospital for aftercare if there is any discomfort in the process.
My son is very obedient. He often calls Sister Xu "Grandma". She is very happy. She helped my son get many big red envelopes during the Spring Festival. I understand her pain of letting me take care of the children alone.
After taking care of Sister Xu for three or four years, she passed away. She was grateful that my son and I waited for her in the last two years and gave me 65438+ 10,000 yuan as a thank you.
When Sister Xu died, my son and I were sad for a while.
Later, I bought a 50-square-meter second-hand house with my own deposit of 250,000 yuan and the full amount of 65,438+10,000 yuan from Sister Xu. My son and I finally have our own small family.
In order to take better care of my son, I set up a stall next to his college. The income is not high, three or four thousand a month, but I have already met it.
Life after divorce is really hard, and there is no chance to be lazy. I cried quietly many times, but I persisted and lived a slightly better life with my son.
At this time, I received a bad news. A-mei got breast cancer, perhaps because of the unfortunate marriage, and she suffered a lot of grievances. Seeing that she was weak, I was lucky enough to summon up the courage to divorce.
Soon after, I received a bad news. Xiao Wei was sentenced to two years in prison for fighting and causing injuries.
What should my husband do if he cheats and refuses to divorce? I think he will come sooner or later. Fortunately, my son and I are already alone. The impact of divorce is painful, but it's worth it. At least I'm free.