One is to break up with you with your present job;
One is that I still love you deeply, but I tell you that's impossible.
Although we all look forward to a good breakup, many times, once people who really love each other break up, there is no way to break up well, and few people can really break up calmly. Often one party wants to break up, but the other party is entangled. The most troublesome thing is that when you have exhausted your only feelings, you have to let go.
The first kind of cruel breakup, the reason why it is cruel, is often because it looks like a violent breakup, hitting the face and hitting the heart. Declare your failure in a violent and brilliant way, and then hurt your self-esteem as a winner. Let you have a shame of being betrayed by feelings, and it seems like a blatant provocation.
In fact, this kind of person, you don't have to be angry with TA, this way of breaking up is suspected of personality problems. Since we have been in love and had good memories, even if we break up, it is not impossible. But there is no need to hurt the loved ones in this way when breaking up.
The second kind of cruel breakup, which is cruel, is often similar to that kind of gentle knife. It hurts a little to cut meat. On the one hand, it gives you hope, warmth, ambiguity and nostalgia, on the other hand, it makes you despair, so that you can't see hope and expectation. Therefore, when you want to let go, TA will associate with you and tell you that you have deep feelings and love you very much. However, when you want to continue to express your love, TA will say, it's just a pity that you can't have a future and are not suitable for being together. In short, this breakup is really annoying and not happy at all.
Whether it's love or marriage, since you are in love, you need to give love a little dignity when you don't love it. Respect each other and leave some good memories for each other. If we break up and share cruelty and hatred, do we really love each other? Very doubtful. Therefore, breaking up means not loving, you can keep it, but you can't force it, you can communicate, but you can't hurt it!
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