A few days ago, I saw a message from an anonymous brother on a social software: Who said my sister smells good? I found a sister who is three years older than me, and it doesn't smell good at all ... I replied half jokingly: Maybe you need to find a sister who is 12 years older.
In fact, the growth of age is also the gradual enrichment of my sister's life experience. I believe that younger sisters of different ages will experience different degrees of love relationship with their older brothers. Sisters can not only get sexual pleasure in the sibling relationship, but also experience the feeling of being needed in this relationship.
Some psychological counselors believe that in a successful sibling relationship, the elder sister has more economic status. When a sister chooses to accept sibling love, it is also a manifestation of her self-acceptance.
Such sisters are not only economically independent, but also have a more independent and free spirit and personality. Sisters think that being with the person they like has nothing to do with age.
Similarly, boys who are willing to accept brotherly love will have a higher degree of self-identity. Maybe their younger brother is younger than their older sister, but that doesn't mean their younger brother is mentally immature.
A younger brother can also have a deeper, better and more stable sense of self-identity, and does not need to prove that he is a man from his younger sister.
The younger brother allows himself to "show weakness" in intimate relationships. They can show their vulnerability and needs in front of their sisters. They don't have to be brave and strong male images.
What is the most satisfying thing about brother-sister relationship?
1, equality and mutual respect?
2. Easy to get along with without burden?
3. Sweet and passionate love?
4. Encourage each other, and * * * has a vision of growth?
5. Fresh and harmonious sexual life experience?
6. Careful and thoughtful care?
7. Attractive appearance or temperament?
8. A steady pace of life?
9. Qi Xin's determination to work together to break the tradition?
Professor Shang Zhongsheng, an expert on social issues at Wuhan University, called the popularity of sibling love "de-patterning" of society.
More modern people are no longer restricted by the age of "men are older than women", and lovers who love each other are more concerned about the fit of all aspects.
Couples who love their brothers and sisters are more willing to pursue intimate relationships of equality, respect and mutual assistance.
In this relationship, the two sides no longer suppress their own needs, but more consciously look for and experience the missing parts of traditional love.
With the awakening of individual needs, more and more people no longer value "whether we are a good match in the eyes of others", but whether this relationship can meet my real needs.
In the sibling relationship, sisters have more opportunities to gain self-identity, higher emotional value, relationship advantages and good sexual experience. ...
For the younger brother, mature and rational female image, attachment and care, or economic support. ...
People who are against sibling love always think that sibling love is only suitable for love, not for marriage. My younger brother is in his prime, but my younger sister is old, and brotherhood will not last long ... However, according to the survey, couples whose brothers and sisters love each other want to get married more than those who don't.
In the early days of brother-sister relationship, the two sisters were definitely the stronger side in the intimate relationship, so the younger brothers may feel frustrated.
Most younger brothers like going out with friends, drinking, staying up late or having no idea about home. ...
In the sibling relationship, sisters need to teach their younger brother how to be a responsible, reliable and smarter partner …
With the growth of age, the advantage of younger brother gradually rises. Once my sister loses her dominant position, some unpredictable hidden dangers and out-of-control emotions will make my sisters anxious.
Sisters will start to doubt themselves. They can't believe that their young brother will still be attracted to them, and they will try to continue this relationship.
Finally, I would like to share some tips for maintaining intimate relationships between men and women:
1, focusing on personal growth in relationships:
How to become a more mature individual;
2. Try to give each other more emotional value: take responsibility for your negative emotions and respond sincerely and positively when your lover shares good news with you.
3, improve the relationship between "* * * enjoyment":
In a relationship, pay more attention to each other's feelings, their growth, and accept each other's changes. When you feel uncomfortable in a relationship, remember: whoever is uncomfortable will change;
4. Do a good job in relationship expectation: Traditionally, everyone wants the other half to tolerate themselves. From now on, we should learn to enjoy the present, allow trial and error, and be willing to correct mistakes.