-Zhi Heng looking for a home.
Editor: Mai Mai
I don't remember who I am. I only have a broken past. The memory of being abducted, the open-air market, the policeman who bought the popsicle (for me), the two-story house, the narrow aisle and the smooth slide in the kindergarten are all my fragmented past. ...
However, my adoptive parents told me that these are the life I experienced after living with them: the past that was briefly abducted and recovered, and the friendly neighbors of the two-story building are all my memories of the future.
But "before", I have completely forgotten? I put a big question mark.
The breadwinner told me that my adoptive parents first met me in Xiaoba Town, Qingtongxia, Yinchuan, Ningxia, when I was two years old. At that time, I lived next to a sluice about 300 meters away from Xiaoba Town Police Station with a mentally abnormal woman who might come from Gansu. This woman is self-sufficient, and I live in a garbage dump, often unkempt. Sometimes she is awake and sometimes she is confused. When she is awake, she can't help complaining to her relatives, and when she is confused, she is at a loss. Although my parents' livelihood is also very difficult, I can't help but be touched by the softest corner of my heart when I look at the situation of NianLia. They often send food to this woman and adopt me in the back. Two years later, I followed my adoptive parents back to Shangqiu, Henan.
"Before" me, from now on, only "fragments" pieced together by my breadwinner helped me. I don't want to give up this "before" and the mystery of my life. I tried to listen and piece together until I met her.
She is a baby home volunteer, Fei Hua, listening to my story carefully on the other end of the phone. She savored it carefully, and her first instinct told her that this was a case with rich clues, and there should be a suspected family looking for a baby to register at home. So, before posting, she conducted an advanced search in the Baby Home Forum (enter the keyword "Gansu Male Ningxia"), and found a suspected case of finding relatives numbered 38693 in a case of similar years: the child's mother was mentally ill and her two-year-old son Cai was lost near the south gate of Yinchuan City. In 2005, the child's mother was found in Hejian, Qingyang City, Gansu Province. Judging from her mother's last words, she admitted that she had been taken in by a good-hearted person in a place with a stone mountain before, and then she continued to wander for some reason and lost her child's whereabouts.
This SouFun case was registered in Bao Bei SouFun Subnet as early as 20112, and nearly eight years have passed. Nana Nana, a volunteer who was looking for a home at that time, made no breakthrough after posting. After Nana Nana quit the working group, the case was redistributed to volunteers for music follow-up on 20 18. By further comparing the photos of children when they were young in the home-seeking posts with those provided by me, Hua further found that their ear contours were very similar. Flowers dance and then connect with music.
A seemingly smooth start, but found a bottleneck here at home. 20 18 music took over the case and found that the parents' contact information was invalid. Music tried various methods and could not contact parents for the time being. 20 19 10 month, 1 1, the music was very happy after receiving the news of Hua Fei. Several people quickly set up a discussion group to discuss. After hearing about the difficulties encountered by music, the volunteer man suggested that he could ask the website administrator for help. Finally, with the help of Wei, the website manager, Music successfully found the contact information of her parents and added her sister's WeChat. However, my father and sister at home are wary of the volunteers they found many years later. My father said he didn't want to talk about it. My sister only said that his parents had taken blood and they didn't live with their mother, so she refused to provide any information.
On the one hand, it is the anxiety of volunteers, and on the other hand, it is the caution of parents. When the two are mixed, the comparison is far away. After discussion, the volunteers decided to let the flowers fly to guide me to collect blood first. The flowers danced carefully, which dispelled my worries. I finished the blood sample collection at the first time, and then it was a "long" wait. Say long, not because time is really long, but because it seems far away. At the moment when the veil is about to be unveiled, every minute and second becomes a worrying wait, which lasts for years or even decades.
From 1 1 month, 1 February,1month to February, I waited for the cold winter, but I still couldn't wait for my silent parents. One-way loneliness sings an empty valley for every minute and second of waiting, which is the endless suffering of sadness and anxiety mixed with expectation and disappointment. It is the persistence of volunteers who have accompanied the rain, snow, wind and frost all the way, and the truth is about to bloom in spring.
In February 2020, the webmaster sent good news: my DNA was successfully compared with this pair of parents. Music contacted my parents again for the first time through the indifference of volunteers. ...
There is no limit to finding relatives, and compassion for others. Volunteers will not easily let go of their initial help because they don't understand and prevent their loved ones for a while. It's a long way to go, Xiu Yuan. I hope that the road to finding relatives in the future will not be bumpy.
Don't cry when looking for relatives, volunteers come on!
Original post link:
Born from about 1997 to 1998 in 2000, he was picked up from Yinchuan, Ningxia, or was suspected to have been abducted to Zhi Heng, Shangqiu, Henan, to find his relatives. 49436.6866868666 1
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Looking for Cai 38693 near the south gate of Yinchuan City, Ningxia, born in 1998, disappeared in 2000.
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