Wife is unfaithful, married 10 years, secretly contacting ex-boyfriend. What should I do?

Men can tolerate anything, but this is the only thing they can't tolerate. I can spoil you, love you, love you, spoil you, but the only thing I can't stand is this. Let's talk about your business. First of all, stabilize your emotions. Only emotional stability can achieve the best effect of solving problems. So that you can clear your head. First, get evidence, if there is evidence of their adultery, including authentication, physical evidence, photos and recordings. Video, etc. Because catching thieves and stolen goods, catching rape and catching double. The law stresses evidence. I can't just listen to your side of the story. If it is a divorce by agreement, then I think you must pay a lot of compensation. Although you want to raise two daughters, you must understand that you should not be impulsive. First, you work outside and have no time to take care of the children. Having a second mother is not necessarily good for children. It is unrealistic for you not to get married all your life. There must be a lot of things in your family, including children and the elderly, which need your care. You can't do it alone. So considering the development of children, if you have two children, it will also be a problem for your future marriage. No one wants to be a mother as soon as they enter the house. It's not your own child. How can you take care of another girl when she is older? The girl said, Dad, I'm menstruating. Why didn't I do it? Have you thought about these complicated things? Because you are two children, the judge may award one to each child. So you must plan ahead. It's best not to have any, and give the children money every month. That must be her mother. It must be more careful than you in taking care of children. And if you don't have children, you can rest assured that you can make money, and you don't have to estimate many problems if you marry another one. And it is a girl, not a son. Of course, I will be sprayed by many netizens, sorry. I'm talking about reality. China prefers boys to girls, and I'm telling the truth. This is a child's business, please think it over. I look at you completely from an outsider's point of view, and I hope you can consider the pros and cons yourself.

Let's talk about the property problem. First of all, transfer all the cash and real estate in your name, including the car factory real estate. For real estate, the house is the property after marriage and it is irreversible. According to China's marriage law, a house can be occupied by one person and half. Unless you have proof that she committed adultery, there must be strong evidence that they have been together for a long time. Then there is whether you can ask your father and relatives for help. Why do you say you can ask your parents? Because they won't hurt you. Friends and relatives should be careful. I'll tell you how. Is to write an IOU to your parents. Prove that some of the money for buying a house was lent to you by your parents. This method is a bit destructive and needs precise planning. Try not to look for others, lest others have the heart to make money. I think you must find strong evidence to get rid of her. But remember that rabbits will bite if they are anxious. Let alone people. Besides, his lover is a fucking person, and you think they can harm you. What's more, if you do this, you won't get any benefits, and you will be relieved. I want to get back at you. So you should make a good plan while ensuring your own safety. Besides, it is better to give her the house and children. You go out clean. If the money is gone, you can earn it again. You are a capable person. Without the burden of children, your career will be much less hindered. Moreover, the mother takes care of the children very carefully. With a house, it is guaranteed that personal safety will not do anything to you, and dogs will not jump over the wall and kill people. The most poisonous woman is fierce, and you will die. It's called giving for peace. This is destiny. You can only eat your own bitter fruit. So the best solution is to give her all the children's houses. You transfer cash and real estate yourself. The factory can declare bankruptcy and turn itself away. I think you will. Alone. It's no problem to settle down somewhere else. Start a new life in another city. It will be fine then. My parents took over it. Remember that money is dead and people are alive. Do you care about a room if you are desperate for a divorce? What do you need your ears for when your head falls off? Besides, when husband and wife share property, it must be half for each person. So why don't we all give her 1.5 million? We are making money.

Say it again, big brother, relax. Don't compete with yourself. Pass if you can, and say goodbye if you can't. Don't act like a vendetta. I'm afraid something will happen to you. Lawyers are full of crap. China's lawyers are just decorations. They only work for you after taking your money. Think for yourself. You can go to the bookstore and buy two marriage laws yourself. They also refer to the marriage law to tell you. It is not worth spending so much money on them. How many people really help you? They are all for money. I'm sorry that my lawyer sprayed me again. I just said something practical. Since eldest brother is a man, this tone will definitely not be swallowed. But we should use methods rationally and adjust our mentality to solve the problem.