Married 10 years, Liu Jing and her husband are college classmates. At first, they had a good relationship. When they came out to look for a job together, their jobs were particularly stable and their income was relatively objective. The oldest of the two children 10 years old, and the youngest is 4 years old. Both husband and wife work in government agencies. Her husband is the minister of propaganda department, and he often contacts friends in the literary and art circles. There are many female friends, and he has to take care of the children all the time.
I didn't care at first, and I didn't have the habit of looking at each other's mobile phones. Once my husband had a birthday and fell asleep after drinking too much. A voice came from the mobile phone, and Liu Jing listened. When the other party said happy birthday, he saw their knowledge records, especially naked, and had been dating for more than half a year. At that time, Liu Jing was at a loss, and these problems appeared in her peaceful marriage. Why is this happening?
Liu Jing wondered, "What's wrong with me? Do this to me. Is it wrong for me to take my children to work at home? " At that time, Liu Jing lost his tone when discussing with Shi Yue, and he was very disappointed with his marriage. He no longer trusts men and loses confidence and courage in life.
According to peer statistics, 70% or 80% of marriages are derailed by one party, but the severity is different and the types are different. Most of them are broken because men cheat. Every day, we get help from women from all over the country. What should I do if my husband cheats? What if my husband has an illegitimate child?
Husband buys a house and a car for a third party, and so on. Every woman should think about how to handle these problems.
Ms. Liu's marriage situation is the same as that of her husband's infidelity, and there is a third party in the marriage. After discovering her husband's infidelity, she immediately found our professional organization and made a detailed analysis and evaluation of the quality of marriage with Shi Yue, and analyzed the reasons for her husband's infidelity. Why did their marriage come to this day? What is the starting point of the third party? Why didn't she take defensive measures before her husband cheated, and so on. Finally, it is diagnosed that their marriage is a salvageable marriage, but the process of repairing the relationship between husband and wife is systematic and complicated, which requires a period of self-improvement and learning the methods and skills of marriage management, including the intervention and prevention of the third party.
Then Mr. Shi Yue customized a two-month plan and guidance for Ms. Liu, and regularly followed up the current situation of Ms. Liu and her husband. Through systematic study and practice, Ms. Liu has a new understanding of marriage, and their husband-wife relationship has begun to experience unprecedented feelings. It turns out that husband and wife can get along more harmoniously in this way.
Ms. Liu is also confident to control the future marriage direction. But after two months of guidance, you didn't stop learning. Managing marriage is a long-term process and a lifelong practice. Different stages of marriage have different patterns and ways.