As one of the four ancient civilizations, China has always enjoyed the reputation of a country of etiquette, and the meeting ceremony is especially special, which can not only show a person's manners and temperament, but also leave a very deep first impression on the other side. The following is the etiquette of meeting for the first time in business etiquette. Let's study together.
First Meeting Etiquette in Business Etiquette 1 Handshake Etiquette
Shaking hands when meeting for the first time is a friendly gesture, but the etiquette of shaking hands can not be ignored. It is polite to shake hands casually. If this link is not handled properly, it will inevitably put you in an awkward position.
The handshake should not be too heavy or too light.
When shaking hands, we should prevent the way of weak handshake. Similarly, it is absolutely not advisable to forcibly hold each other's hands. For female friends, we should pay attention to both aspects. When you shake hands with someone weakly, the other person may guess that you despise him. Therefore, this situation should be avoided.
One thing to pay special attention to is that when you hold someone, don't shake him. This is not a sign of hospitality. On the contrary, others will think you are too rude. Generally, when shaking hands, you only need to pat them three times.
Point-to-Point
Persistence is also a taboo. Tap twice and then retract your hand. Even if the other person is someone you admire for a long time, don't cling to it, which will make others have a bad impression on you.
A lady should extend her hand first to show her friendliness.
If a man and a woman shake hands, the woman should extend her hand generously first. If the man opposite is the object you want to know, don't be shy to reach out. Because in the handshake ceremony, the handshake between men and women must be initiated by the woman, which is a sign that men respect the woman. If the other person shakes hands with you without thinking, it means that he is not a gentleman.
Nature is the key
Many people ask: how can we be generous and decent? It's actually very simple, so it's natural. But some people think that nature is arbitrary, but it is not. Chance and nature are two different concepts. You can do whatever you want at home, but in social situations, it is unacceptable. When we talk about nature, we mean the natural fluency and randomness of words and actions. When you meet for the first time, you should bring this nature to the person you want to know.
Smile naturally
Smiling greetings are more likely to infect people than verbal greetings. When you meet for the first time, if you show a kind and natural smile, others will think that you are also happy to know him. This is the first step of meeting etiquette. On the contrary, if your smile is stiff and reluctant. People will think that you are not very happy to let him near you.
So, pay attention to your smile when you meet for the first time. So what kind of smile is natural? Some people suggest that it is more appropriate to grin a little, while others think that it is more appropriate to smile without grinning. You might as well look in the mirror and find a smile that suits you best. This smile is your smile.
Speak naturally.
After laughing, it is essential to say hello and talk about things of mutual interest in words. At this time, some women often seem a little stiff. Especially if the other person is a gentleman, an inexperienced lady doesn't know how to behave.
If you encounter such a situation, you might as well put it down and say it naturally. Imagine that you are the gentleman, and you don't want the lady you are talking to to to be too formal, which will only show the unpleasant feeling you bring to others. In this way, others will leave you thousands of miles away.
Therefore, the first secret of elegance is nature. Constantly changing.
Common social etiquette expressions
Say "I've heard a lot about you" when I first met you; Use "wait" to wait for guests;
The other party's letter is called "Shu Hui"; Ask someone to help say "I'm sorry";
Ask people to do things with "please"; Ask someone to give directions and use "instructions";
Praise people's views with "high praise"; Ask for forgiveness and say "tolerance";
Use "goodbye" with others; Visit others with "visit";
Please don't send "leave"; Trouble others to say "I'm sorry";
Ask for convenience and say "excuse me"; Presenting works with "axe correction";
Long time no see "long time no see"; Go in the middle first and use "compensation for losses"
Etiquette of first meeting in business etiquette II. Greeting ceremony
It is appropriate to use greetings in the following situations. When you meet people you don't know, you can smile and nod to them as a sign of friendship. On the same occasion, I met friends and colleagues many times, so there is no need for both sides to stop and have in-depth exchanges. You don't have to shake hands or bow every time, just smile and nod to each other. You can also use it when you meet a powerful leader. When you meet a leader, you can nod respectfully and say hello to show your respect for the other party. The other person doesn't shake hands with you, and he can't take the initiative to shake hands. Elders and superiors can nod their heads and salute their juniors and subordinates.
Greeting way:
Greet with a smile: it is suitable for meeting people, just look at them and smile gently. At the same time, it is accompanied by greetings, such as "hello" and "good morning" and so on.
Raise your hand: suitable for greeting people far away. Raise your right hand, fingertips up, palms facing each other, smile at each other, nod briefly, and swing your palms gently.
Nod: Look at each other, smile and nod gently to each other.
Bow and greet: face each other and bow respectfully. Suitable for elders, leaders, etc. It is also suitable for speech occasions.
Take off your hat: when we are wearing hats and are far away from each other, we can take off our hats with one hand and put them in a position parallel to our shoulders, looking at each other and nodding slightly.
Second, JuGongLi.
Jugongli originated in China. In the pre-Qin period, when they met, they would bend down to show humility and respect. Bowing has now become a social etiquette. Jugongli means: lower your height to show respect and admiration for others. Usually, it is the meeting etiquette of the younger generation to the elders, the younger generation to the superiors and peers, which is widely used in contemporary communication among China, Japan and South Korea.
In China, Jugongli is mostly used for weddings, mourning activities, reception of foreign guests, curtain calls of actors, awards speeches, etc. When greeting "hello", "good morning" and "welcome", and when meeting with leaders, colleagues and elders, you can bow and bow.
The meaning of different degrees of bowing. 15 degree bow is used to greet, introduce, shake hands, pass things, give up your seat, give way, guide, etc. The 30-degree bow ceremony means to salute each other, which is suitable for welcoming and greeting important leaders, guests and elders. A 45-degree bow shows deep respect for the other party and is used to apologize or express deep gratitude.
Third, the hug ceremony
Hugging ceremony is a kind of etiquette to express intimate feelings between acquaintances and friends in Europe and America, and it is also a meeting etiquette for leaders in diplomatic occasions. Like kissing, it shows respect and intimacy through the contact of a certain part of the body.
The essentials of hugging. During the ceremony, the two stood opposite each other, with their right arm on the top and left arm on the bottom, their right hand on each other's left back shoulder, their left hand on each other's right back waist, their chests leaning to the left, hugging each other tightly, and their heads sticking together. According to different occasions, hugs can be divided into warm hugs (left-right-left) and courtesy hugs (left gently hugs).
Fourth, the kiss ceremony
This is more common in the west. In Eastern Europe and Arab countries, the kissing ceremony is a meeting ceremony for people to express their love, friendship, respect or love.
There are the following kinds of kissing ceremonies:
Kiss the cheek. When saluting, the elder kisses one or both faces of the younger generation, and the younger generation can hug the neck of the elder with both hands, or kiss the forehead of the elder with both hands hanging down. Close ladies and close relatives and friends can also kiss on the cheek. In the event of a happy event or sadness, we usually kiss to show our sincere condolences.
Kiss your hands. In social situations, when a man shows respect to a distinguished lady, he can kiss the back of her hand or fingers. During this ceremony, the man should walk up to the woman, stand at attention and put down his hand. If a woman raises her right arm slightly, it implies that a man can kiss her hand. At this time, the man gently pulls the front end of the woman's fingertips with his right hand or hands, and bends down to let his lips symbolically touch the back of her hand or fingers. Kissing must be steady, natural and neat, without making a sound or leaving a trace. After kissing, look up and smile at each other, then put your hand down. A lady can't do it if she doesn't raise her right arm.
Kiss your lips. Generally speaking, it is only between husband and wife, between lovers or between lovers.
The veneer between the opposite sex and the same sex can also adopt the etiquette of sticking the cheek. When saluting, the two will stick their cheeks at the same time, and the order is first left and then right.
Verb (short for verb) is polite.
The namaste ceremony, also known as the crossing ceremony, is a special etiquette for believing in Buddhism, which is widely popular in Southeast Asia, South Asia and other countries.
Action essentials:
Put your hands together on your chest, put your fingers together, put your fingertips up, keep the top of your palm flush with the tip of your nose, stand your legs upright, lean your upper body slightly, and bow your head to congratulate or sympathize with each other.
When saluting others, the higher you raise your hand, the more you can show respect for each other. But you can't raise your head, because only when you are practicing Buddhism will you raise your folded hands above your head.
Six, chest massage ceremony
The so-called chest caressing means putting your hand on your chest to show respect for others. This etiquette is often used in Asian countries and European and American countries. For example, when raising the national flag and playing the national anthem, we often touch our chests.
Action essentials. Keep your eyes on each other or look straight ahead, keep your head straight and have a solemn attitude, with your right palm inward, your fingertips pointing to the upper left, and gently press on your left chest to show your respect. In some countries, the ceremony of touching the chest before shaking hands with others; In other countries, the chest massage ceremony is performed at the same time as the bow ceremony.
Seven, shake hands.
Shaking hands is the etiquette of greeting each other when meeting and leaving in most countries. Handshaking is not only the main etiquette for people to greet each other when they meet, but also an appropriate expression of congratulations, thanks, comfort or mutual encouragement. If the other party has made some achievements and progress, you can shake hands after giving gifts, prizes, certificates and speeches to express congratulations, thanks and encouragement.
Business Etiquette Etiquette for First Meeting 3 1, Etiquette
It is more appropriate to nod and smile when meeting the opposite sex for the first time. Girls should not shake hands with each other. One is not reserved, and the other is too formal. Of course, when the other person reaches out, you should not refuse, but accept generously.
get dressed
Choose clothes that suit your image and put on the right clothes. Cleanliness is the most important thing, and it is best to choose casual clothes in style. Don't be too grand, and don't leave a bad impression of sloppy and ridiculous clothes details.
make oneself up as
Heavy makeup is not necessarily good, such as long false eyelashes, long and pointed red nails, and thick eye shadow, which usually only give girls extra points. However, if you are not a naturally beautiful girl, it is also a failure not to make up. You can choose thin foundation, lipstick or not, light nail polish, etc. Can make girls look more feminine.
Step 4 discuss
Don't chatter, it will appear that your mouth is too broken. Conversation is not a speech, nor can it be a unilateral conversation that only expresses one's wishes. Speaking appropriately and listening to each other's expressions is also a way to understand each other. At the same time, don't be silent. Communication has always been a matter for both sides. If you just wait for the other person to talk and listen to him, the other person will be at a loss. When he can't find something to say, it will form an awkward atmosphere.
5. Psychology
The psychological aspect is also an important issue, and we can pay due attention to the following points:
First of all, don't hide yourself. Some girls like to hide their true character and don't want the other person to see through themselves. They think it's a bad thing that the other party finds their weakness. However, in this way, you are bound by yourself and can't speak freely and express yourself freely. Show each other the true side of your personality. Truth is sometimes a special attraction, much better than affectation.
Secondly, even good friends will have contradictions and hate each other, especially when they meet for the first time. Therefore, it is necessary and necessary to prepare thoughtful etiquette for each other, but don't expect to be 100% accepted and liked by others. What others say about you is someone else's business. As yourself, you just need to mobilize your personality and ability, try to show your sincerity and don't care too much about yourself.
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