Today's children are the pride of their parents. At home, they are afraid of luxury, and their parents do everything, let alone cook and wash dishes.
The quarrel between Fan Xiao and Ayong started from this little incident. Fan Xiao and Ayong got married after a year together. To outsiders, they are an enviable couple. The conditions of the two families are superior, they have a house and a car, their jobs are good, and there is almost no economic pressure.
But the quarrel started.
Once, Fan Xiao's mother sent them food at their residence. When she saw her daughter cooking for her son-in-law, the smile on her face suddenly solidified. She said angrily to Ayong, "Fan Xiao is cooking here, Ayong, why don't you come and help?" ? Look at Fan Xiao's delicate little hands. I didn't let her wash vegetables at home. Is she a good cook?
Ayong naturally understood her mother-in-law and reluctantly went into the kitchen.
Afterwards, the two began to quarrel because of this matter.
Ayong complained that Fan Xiao's mother was too tolerant. In addition, women have to do laundry and cook sooner or later when they get married. When they have children, don't they have to cook for them? My mother always cooks for the whole family. Why should she go to her daughter-in-law?
Fan Xiao knew that her mother said this out of love for herself, but Ayong said that her mother was wrong. Fan Xiao was disgusted and her heart was particularly unhappy. I have never cooked at home. After I marry Ayong, I have to cook. I cooked a meal today, but I received a complaint from Ayong.
Later, there was a quarrel, and the two decided to go their separate ways, one cooking and washing dishes, and the other cooking and washing vegetables.
Bian Xiao thinks this distribution is reasonable, because although gender equality is emphasized now, women not only have to go to work, but also do more housework. But husband and wife should be in the same boat, sharing weal and woe. Why do you do less and less? As mothers-in-law, young couples should stay out of their business. They need to hone what they need and they need to deal with what they need. Parents can replace children when they are young, and they should put them down when they get married.