Although Fang is very successful in the play, she has always been looked down upon. If it weren't for Aunt Xu, she would be a very sad role. But this pain has nothing to do with birth.
1. This shabby room has nothing to do with Brocade's original home. Fang is poor because of her family background. Although she tried to escape, she couldn't get rid of her mother's entanglement and couldn't erase the memory left on her. Most notably, she eats breakfast twice every morning and wolfs it down, which is nothing like an elite.
Although she tries to escape, her way of thinking is sometimes taken away unconsciously. In recent years, there have been many discussions about the origin of family. Many young people like to talk about family background. Indeed, our origins have a certain influence on us, and it is particularly difficult for us to get rid of these constraints.
But this is not an excuse that we don't want to do better. Fang and Su Mingyu in Never Imagine are very similar. They are all outstanding figures. Because they have the courage to break with their families.
Unlike Fan Meisheng in Ode to Joy, she has never been separated from her family in her hometown. Therefore, the poor room is not because she has such an indigenous family. After she met Aunt Xu, the influence of her hometown family gradually disappeared.
Similarly, each of us has the ability to separate ourselves from the family of origin, so let the family of origin take responsibility before anything happens. For many people, your parents are not perfect, but they have tried their best. Don't blame them for your problems.
Desire is so obvious that it is easy to be used to say that the room is like a brocade, because although it has achieved success and gained a certain status, it seems to have been looked down upon by others. The most typical is Zhai.
Zhai Xiaoyun looked down at the brocade in the room and even wanted to use her. In fact, the moment she stood in front of him with a fake diploma, she was doomed to failure. Zhai Xiaoyun saw through the brilliant desire in the room.
So on the surface, he takes care of Jinxiu's room, but in fact, he regards her as his own tool. The brocade room he sent was like a fake bag, which also confirmed this point.
Because he knows a girl like Jin Si too well. If you treat her better, she will be your savior. Money and love are the best ways to get such a girl.
Without Aunt Xu's help, Fang would have suffered more injuries in Zhai's residence. Similarly, Aunt Xu looked down on Fang from the beginning. Because in his eyes, this room is like Boko's behavior for money.
However, Fang's insistence on not accepting customers' red envelopes really touched him and gave him a better view. In their eyes, Fang is a girl who dares to face the public and will do anything for money. So, they use her will to help them do something they don't want to do.
Desire is written on a person's face, which is the easiest to see through, and then he always wears those colored glasses to see you clearly. So when they are close to you, they look "low". If people always play tricks on you, you should ask yourself if there is anything wrong.
In addition to the reason why rich people like Mrs. Naoto Kan look down on houses, there is another important reason, which is the problem of these rich people themselves. Class discrimination. Many people who are born with excellent grades simply can't understand the behavior of people like Fang. They will only think that she is poor and has only desire.
They think that people like Fang only have money in their eyes and will give up their bottom line and principles for money. This is why we often look up when we see people worse off than ourselves doing things we don't want to do. And people like Zhai and Master Lu, they also climbed up step by step under the dark circles of others. After climbing up, I was afraid of being looked down upon, so I took out the so-called elite mentality from the beginning and treated others in my own way.
But I believe that under the leadership of Aunt Xu, she will be able to get rid of the shackles bit by bit and move towards a better self step by step. Each of us can break free and become another person. Don't exhaust all your strength in the struggle day after day, leaving only an empty shell. When you are getting better and better, those who try to use you and look down on you will never treat you like that again.
What matters is not their attitude, but your courage in life. Remember one thing: the most pitiful person is not because others look down on you, but because you are afraid of being looked down on by others and are stuck in the same place.