Wife complains; The son doesn't like it; Friends cajole; Colleague jokes; Being looked down upon by the boss, even his own apprentice. Tell me: How miserable this life is. Although there is not so much suffering in our life, we can always find a little shadow in him.
Divorced his wife, chose to lead an honest and clean life, and gave her the house and car. Going to the supermarket to buy daily necessities shows that the balance is insufficient when paying. I had to return a few things, and then repeatedly said sorry to the cashier.
When I got home, my wife sent a message saying that my son had to pay tuition and the mortgage was more than 4,000 yuan. At that moment, there was a scene of him jumping off a building, and later I realized that it was my imagination. However, considering that there are so many stressful things, there will be times when you can't stand it.
Why does he live such a boring life? Besides social patience, there is also his inferiority complex. This should be because his parents divorced when he was a child, his mother died when he was a teenager, and his father lacked care for him and kept thinking about his money. How painful childhood is may take a lifetime to answer.
To tell the truth, I am an inferiority complex. But why do people feel inferior? Now to sum up my own feelings:
1. Born in a family, my parents seldom communicate with me, lacking encouragement and criticism.
2. Your own personality, introverted.
3. It looks so-so.
4. sensitive.
5. Think too much
Actually, I've always wanted to go out, but I'm always with you. Many things, I dare not do, I have no courage, I am afraid of making mistakes, I am afraid of the eyes of people around me. There will be times of confidence, but not for long.
I really feel that I am an extroverted lonely patient: sometimes I am very enthusiastic about people and make many friends, but I still feel lonely.
Inferiority is a terrible thing, and it is difficult to get rid of it. Because you will think a lot of boring bad things and affect your mood. The main reason why I want to feel inferior now is that I refuse to let myself go and accept myself. It's much better if you think in reverse and do it in reverse.
1. If you seldom communicate, communicate. Never mind the so-called looks. Not everyone will look good.
2. If you are sensitive and think too much, go out and have a look and chat with friends.
3. If you think too much, you will read more, charge more and learn more skills, and you will always fade away from your inner unhappiness and be happy.
Summary: Inferiority can only be changed by yourself. It's no use talking too much. I just want to make myself more aware of this by writing it down. If I continue to feel inferior like this, I will have a hard time with myself. When Yu Huanshui really came out, he became brave, no longer timid, and everything was full of goodwill to him.
He thought he was ill because of misdiagnosis and would not live long, so he dared to speak loudly to his wife and tell the truth. He was afraid of his wife.
What he said made me want to cry:
If you don't love, you will be separated in a down-to-earth manner. No one will really sympathize with me. When I feel uncomfortable and can't sleep, only darkness will sympathize with me; I fell when I walked, and only the road would sympathize with me; After I die, only the grave will sympathize with me.
But his wife never cares, and her face is cold.
However, he was relieved, knowing that his wife didn't love him, and let go decisively.
Company leaders also began to change their attitude towards him and immediately upgraded to department manager.
Father-in-law and brother-in-law have auras, and they are no longer humble.
Live high's idea is rich and famous.
When you are weak, there are the most bad people.
I remember Bo Huang also said that you are weak and healthy, and there are calculations everywhere. You are strong, and you are surrounded by smiling faces.
We don't have to be so powerful, but at least we have to live with dignity.