[1] Online dating is a social way that allows people to find their love objects online. The reasons include but are not limited to the following:
1. Geographical restrictions: The Internet has broken geographical restrictions and enabled people to know more people from all over the world.
2. Privacy protection: Some people are reluctant to find love objects in reality because they are shy or protect their privacy. Online dating can protect their privacy to some extent.
3. Hobbies: There are various social platforms on the Internet, which allow people to find people with the same hobbies and establish the same topic and emotional foundation.
4. Freedom of time: Some people don't have time to find love objects because of work, study and other reasons, but online dating can be done anytime and anywhere, saving time and cost.
[2] How to deal with online dating:
Option 1: building trust and understanding
1. Get to know each other through video chat, telephone and other channels.
2. Gradually deepen communication and get to know each other's hobbies, family background and personality characteristics.
3. Establish the basis of mutual trust, and avoid hiding or deceiving each other.
Precautions:
-Pay attention to personal privacy and don't disclose too much personal information at will.
-Pay attention to each other's words and deeds to avoid being hurt by swindlers or undesirable elements.
Option 2: Keep a moderate distance.
1. Keep a moderate distance and independence in online communication to avoid excessive dependence on each other.
2. Keep personal social circle and life, and avoid indulging in online dating and neglecting friends and family in reality.
3. Leave room, don't have too high expectations and commitments for online dating, and avoid causing harm.
Precautions:
-Don't let online dating become the whole of life, and maintain personal independence and freedom.
-Online dating encounters difficulties or contradictions and needs to seek help and solve them in time.
Option 3: Meet in reality
1. On the premise of ensuring safety, meet in reality as soon as possible and establish a real emotional foundation.
2. Try the same hobbies and activities to strengthen mutual understanding and communication.
3. Communicate and adjust in time to avoid destroying the emotional foundation of online dating because of the limitations of realistic conditions.
Precautions:
Don't trust each other's promises easily in the early days of online dating, but build trust and understanding through various means.
You should think carefully before you meet the reality, choose a safe place and time to avoid unnecessary harm.
To sum up, dealing with online dating requires certain social skills and emotional management skills, and it is necessary to maintain the stability and health of the relationship through appropriate distance, trust establishment and realistic meeting. At the same time, we need to be vigilant and cautious to avoid unnecessary injuries and risks.