Compared with the blind date market, the house market is relatively direct and transparent, and now there is an online platform. Many things, objects and even people can be promoted and publicized on the web page. During the period of buying a house, I installed many apps, including Anjuke, Shell Net and Chain Home. During the blind date, I installed Jiayuan, Lily Net, zhenai and some regional public dating platforms.
* * * Similarity: The information on the network platform is naturally mixed, so you should have your own discrimination. The scope of choice is regional, and generally priority will be given to the city where you live, the surrounding cities, or the city of your hometown and the cities around your hometown.
Difference: The information is true or false. Some house information can be audited by an intermediary before. As long as the intermediary is reliable, there will be no big deviation in the listing information. The information of dating websites involves privacy, and the websites have no reliable right to check it. Just identity, property, education, family background, work background, these have a lot of water injection components.
Take a fancy to your favorite house on the platform, and first communicate with the intermediary to confirm the authenticity of the information. Or ask him to send some real-life pictures of the house. When you see the object you like on the dating platform, you will also send a message on your own initiative to see if you can learn more.
* * * Similarity: A bridge is needed in the middle. The bridge of the house is a real estate agent. Of course, you can also contact the owner directly, if there are resources. The bridge of blind date is the matchmaker or introducer of the platform. If it is free love, it is not a blind date.
Difference: Real estate agency charges after service. If the transaction is unsuccessful, there is no charge. Platform matchmaker charges first and then serves. As for whether it will succeed in the future, there is no guarantee. From this perspective, real estate agents are still relatively real.
There is certain certainty and uncertainty in the information of the house and the blind date.
For example, the area, location, decoration and price of the house are very clear, and you can choose according to your own economic ability. But some other information about the house, if you can't buy it, is actually very difficult to know. For example, how about property management, the quality of neighbors, whether the house will leak, and whether there will be frequent power outages and water cuts. These things are closely related to your life, but it is difficult for you to know before you buy them. Unless you've rented it for a while.
There is even more uncertainty about the blind date, such as his appearance, age, job, income and family background. But his past experience, personality characteristics, and whether he can do housework at home, get along with each other, whether the three views match, and his loyalty to marriage. Even the taste of eating, whether you snore or not. This pile of habits that are closely related to later life is difficult to understand through chatting and ordinary communication. Unless you've been living together for a while.
Buying a house, like dating, is about fate.
The house you like may not belong to you in the end because of the price, or others may come first and then arrive, or even the owner doesn't want to sell it.
The person you like doesn't marry you, maybe because he doesn't like you, maybe someone else beat you to it, or maybe he has no desire to get married at all.
In a period of time, I have seen countless houses or dated countless people. If there is no favorite house or object, you will choose from similar houses or objects you have seen before. Instead of waiting forever. Either choose not to buy a house or choose not to get married. Because house prices are the same as age, they will only rise and not fall.
When you decide to buy a house, you must make a promise and pay a deposit first. This is only the first step of the intermediary, which can help you win the opportunity to talk to the owner. Finally, we still have to go through the transaction process. To completely prevent the owner from showing the house to others, we have to sign a contract and pay a deposit. In this way, we can continue the following procedure in case both parties regret it.
The same is true of blind date. If two people meet several times, they have never promised each other. Then the other party is not responsible for this relationship at all. He can still date other girls. Only after you have confirmed your boyfriend and girlfriend, or even your engagement, will you have a chance to get married.
Houses are the same as people.
There is no 100% perfect house. If there is, you may not be able to afford it.
There is no perfect person, and even if there is, he may not value you.