I like this kind of family atmosphere. I don't think children who have lived in a harmonious family since childhood will be bad. My boyfriend and I were introduced by friends. He works in the company next door to us. We used to meet often and never said hello. Once I went out for dinner with several colleagues in the department and found him there, so I left my phone number and contacted each other.
I've been dating for almost two years, and my boyfriend's family is urging me to get married. My boyfriend is three years older than me, 28. In the village, his children can play soy sauce. I started talking about marriage. I took him home, but my parents didn't like our relationship. I know what my parents are worried about. Boyfriend's family condition is not very good. It is difficult to buy a car, let alone buy a house.
My parents expressed their true thoughts, not because my boyfriend has no money, but because he feels that his boyfriend has no opinion and listens to his parents in all important matters. I don't feel this way for the time being. Maybe it's no big deal that I'm with him. At this time, I have been blinded by my boyfriend's gentleness and thoughtfulness, completely ignoring my parents' words. It was not until what happened later that I deeply understood that my parents were right about people, and I was too naive after all.
If you want to get married, you have to have a wedding room. It is unrealistic to buy a house in the city on the condition of your boyfriend's family. At present, the house price is tens of thousands, and a small two-bedroom apartment of 70-80 square meters will cost about 1 million, which my boyfriend's family can't afford. But it doesn't matter. A few years ago, my parents bought me a small two-bedroom apartment for the convenience of work, which is where I live now. At that time, I simply cleaned up and checked in. Now it's redecorated, and it's good to be our wedding room.
My boyfriend said he was willing to bear all the decoration expenses. In a few days, he found a decoration team to measure the size, and we discussed the decoration plan together. At the weekend, my boyfriend told me that his parents were coming to see the house. I said yes, and they can help us refer to it then. At the weekend, they did come, but their boyfriend and father didn't. It was his mother and two sisters who came.
My boyfriend led them into the door, but my mother was impolite. As soon as she came in, she looked around and commented on my things. To tell you the truth, I feel a little unhappy. My boyfriend's two sisters chattered endlessly, and later they would say that this was no good and that was no good, and they would find fault everywhere, such as the bedroom was too small and the kitchen was too narrow. Haha, I laughed internally. You think this is too much, but your family can't afford this two-bedroom apartment of more than 80 square meters.
The boyfriend showed his mother around, and then everyone came to the living room. My boyfriend and mother said to me in front of them, "daughter-in-law, your suite is too small." How nice it is for your parents to buy a big one and live together! " I'm a little puzzled about this, so far I haven't answered. His two sisters immediately echoed, "Yes, that's right. My parents haven't lived in the city at this age, so it's time to go to the city and enjoy it. "
I looked at my boyfriend and asked him, "Do you think so?" The boyfriend faltered, "Yes, isn't that good?" Living together as a family is also convenient for taking care of my parents. "I was very angry at the time." Let my parents buy a big house and live with your parents. What a wonderful idea! "My boyfriend bowed his head and was embarrassed to look at me, and his sisters were not calm." What do you call this? What, your parents are fucking parents? Isn't it family after marriage? Your family has money. What's wrong with buying a suite to live with? "
Haha, I lost my temper and got angry on the spot. "It doesn't matter if I don't like my house. I have the ability to buy a big one at your house. I hope I can buy a house at home. Do you want to be a son-in-law? " Then my boyfriend came to pull me, and I threw him away. This man is too timid. If he doesn't help me, forget it. Let his mother and sister attack me. What's more, this is in my house, and I can't stand it. Seeing my tough attitude, my boyfriend's eldest sister dragged the three of them away and said to her boyfriend, "Let's go, there is no sincerity at all. I don't think she wants to marry you at all. "
Mother left arm in arm, followed by her boyfriend. I am speechless. What is this? My parents were completely right about my boyfriend's personality. Forget it. My parents don't like us either. Let's break up. I made up my mind to break up. I ignored him for two days. My boyfriend called me, but I didn't answer. He sent a text message. Without saying anything, he asked me if I agreed to his mother's request, and then threatened me that if I didn't agree, he would go on a blind date.
Damn, we broke up. what do you want to do? What does it have to do with me? I have nothing to say when I meet such an excellent man. Women are advised to keep their eyes open when looking for men. Don't be silly. I just want him to be nice to you. The other person's family is also an important factor in choosing a spouse.