I don't like this feeling of being tied down, such as sending a message asking where you are and when you will go home. Send me a message when you go home. Actually, it feels normal to be monitored. Sometimes I don't even look at the WeChat sent by the other party. Don't say it's a second, I will feel very tired. So because of my state of mind, I can't continue chatting with my blind date.
Wechat really doesn't take seconds to return. It's good to get in touch with people. Why do you have to send a message to let the other party call back in seconds when you call directly? You know it's urgent, and you ask the other party to answer in seconds. That's your problem. This practice will make the other party very free and uncomfortable. Presumably, no one likes this emotional state, which will make people suffocate.
The significance of the existence of WeChat is to facilitate communication between you and me, not to restrict personal freedom. If I don't reply in time or in seconds, it doesn't mean that I don't have you in my heart. Maybe I'm too tired to talk, or maybe I think a phone call can solve some things, or two people need better communication.