What should I do if my husband has no ambition?

Before marriage, women will say, "I don't care what you have, I only care about you"; After marriage, a woman will say, "No money, no house, no car and no ambition. What else do you have besides you? " What should a married woman do in the face of a husband who is not motivated? Yanyuanbosi Beijing Marriage Emotional Psychological Counselor will interpret it for you. Case: My husband and I have been married for six years and our children are five years old. Our relationship is good, except that he has no ambition. It is enough to think that he was kind to me before marriage. He is currently purchasing in a small company, and his income is not high, but he feels that something to do is enough and he is not short of money. Recently, I have seen that many friends who are not as good as us earn a lot of money, live a much better life than us, and are increasingly dissatisfied with their husbands. I also think that a man should support his family, but he is not motivated at all, so he quarreled with him for this, but he is still very independent. How can I change my husband? Interpretation of Yanyuanbosi Beijing Marriage Emotional Psychological Counselor: Faced with this situation, some women are happy to have a man at home as a "good wife", but they want a stable and practical life; Some women just quarrel repeatedly, try to persuade, and fall into endless pain and suffering after failure. So, what kind of psychology does a woman expect her husband to change? 1, the projection of self-expectation A woman can't undertake social work. As long as her man is excellent, she is valuable and worthy of other women's envy, especially "I see many friends who are not as good as us earn a lot of money, live a much better life than us, and are increasingly dissatisfied with their husbands". A woman's expectation of her husband, just like a mirror's expectation of a person who looks in the mirror, is based on "the man reflected in my mirror is excellent" to prove the value of this mirror, and "I am very attractive in the eyes of women" is exactly what a man does through the effect of "looking in the mirror". However, in this mutual expectation, there is a lack of true love. The basis of true love is to accept each other's true self, respect and understand each other's self-expectation, and not impose their own expectations on others. 2, vanity For many women, being with a strong man can be shown off, because men's work and money are the best aphrodisiacs to satisfy women's vanity. Before you get married, you don't care whether he is really rich or not, and her husband also thinks that "it is enough to have something to do, and there is no shortage of money". He is very satisfied with his present life, but you want others to look at you with envy, so you start to satisfy your vanity with a harsh husband, but after all, the other half is not to show off, but to be a person's value. We can all be less vain, more practical and keep a little balance. Yanyuanbosi, Beijing marriage emotional counselor, warmly reminds you that in marriage life, it is not important that men are strong and women are weak, as long as they can find a balance in the system, be willing to bear it and satisfy the present.