Once couples have the idea of divorce, why is everything out of control?

Just like cheating. Once you cheat, there will be a second time and a third time. The idea of divorce is the same. Once, there will be a second time and a third time. No matter how quarrelling between husband and wife, once the idea of divorce is moved, the idea will stick to the heart like a thorn, even if the thorn is pulled out, the wound is still there.

The divorce between my best friend and her husband Xiao Chen started with the idea of divorce. Once, the two of them quarreled about the decoration of the house. Xiao Chen thinks that the decoration of the house should respect parents' opinions. After all, their parents gave them a down payment. But my best friend thinks that the house is mainly occupied by the two of them and has nothing to do with their parents, so they quarreled. Then the girlfriends said, I knew you were such a mother treasure and shouldn't have married you in the first place. Kerwin Chen also responded not to be outdone, saying that it is ok to divorce now. The word divorce suddenly stung the hearts of girlfriends.

When you say it unintentionally, the listener has a heart. My best friend thinks that Xiao Chen doesn't love himself enough and even has the idea of divorce. From then on, no matter what Xiao Chen did, her best friend would ask for a divorce. If Xiao Chen doesn't come home for dinner at night, his best friend will wonder if Xiao Chen is having an affair and want a divorce. Xiao Chen went to a class reunion and met his ex-girlfriend. After a few words, his best friend will think, is his ex-girlfriend the reason why Xiao Chen wants a divorce?

On the other hand, Xiao Chen can't stand all kinds of questions from his girlfriends. Once they quarreled because Xiao Chen didn't open the toilet seat when she went to the toilet in the morning. Her best friend came over and said, How many times have I told you to open the toilet seat? You just won't stop. Why don't you listen to me? You really want to divorce me, right? Little Dignā ga was angry for a moment, then he replied, Go away, I can't stand it. Then the two of them really went to divorce.

Afterwards, Xiao Chen chatted with me, saying that he was just impulsive and asked me if I had any chance to save it. I heard the tone of my best friend. My best friend really wants a divorce. In fact, at first, what Xiao Chen said about divorce was just that they quarreled on impulse. They didn't really have the idea of divorce, but their girlfriend took it seriously.

Breaking up and divorce are the last words lovers and lovers can say. Once they say it, whether it is true or not, it will cause irreparable harm to each other.