Mainly because of the woman's lack of security, although this era is fair to women, there are still many unfair places in traditional concepts. For example, my neighbor's son's girlfriend, one day my mother and I talked about our efforts to find a girlfriend. My mother said that my neighbor's son's girlfriend seems to have a lot of ideas, but my neighbor's son is just so-so, and I feel a little sorry for that girl. I joked that it would be my brother. Did my mother immediately call me crazy? The one who slept for so long? (Note: My mother is not an antique, she is more open-minded. I say this because I don't think my brother has ever dated and wants to find someone with the same simple personality. ) I immediately said, what if I live with someone else? The prostitute in your mouth is me. How did you feel when you heard me say this? My mom said it right away. Of course, she never said such a thing. She just told you. I can see that she still has this feeling in her mind. This is the imprint of her time in her heart, and we grew up under their influence, and we all have these ideas more or less, even if we don't say it, we will still mind.
When a man is promoted, he feels capable. When a woman is promoted, someone will say that she is having an affair with that leader. Moreover, it is more difficult for women in their thirties to find jobs than men in their thirties. Women should be thin, dress rationally, and men should make money. Men want to find a good-looking marriage as long as they have money, but women find a good-looking man to marry more than that, because women will be more afraid.
Besides, a friend of mine married a boy. When we got married, we didn't agree that that boy was more of a playboy. The girl plunged into it and got married. We advised her not to help with the down payment as a loan, or just to be responsible for the decoration, but to keep the receipt and invoice of the decoration expenses. But the girl didn't listen, saying that grandma was very kind to her, and often said that if her son was sorry for her, he would definitely give her the house.