Zhang Chunhua was a good wife and mother, but Sima Yi was humiliated in public. Why does he hate his wife so much?

In ancient times, women's status was not high. Many married women don't have their own surnames. More often, women are addressed by a surname or a wife, and there is no formal address. It can be seen that the status of women has not been high, and it is not easy to leave a name for women in history. Zhang Chunhua is such a legendary woman.

Sima Yi is not a simple person. He has helped her husband Sima Yi out of the crisis many times. Sima Yi's success is inseparable from the opening of Chunhua. We use the word "wife to help" to describe Zhang Chunhua. Like most women, Zhang Chunhua has worked hard for her family all her life, but in the end, she still can't stop herself from getting old. Her husband Sima Yi is very disgusted with her. Without the support of four children, she doesn't know what her old age will be like.

Zhang Chunhua was born into an official family, his father was Cao Yipin, and his mother was the founder of "Seven Sages of Bamboo Forest". Zhang Chunhua, who was born in an official family, received a good education from an early age, allowing her to give full play to her intelligence above ordinary people, and asked Zhang Chunhua not to worry about getting married at all.

Sima Yi was born as an official. His father Sima Fang was a native of Jing Zhaoyin in the Eastern Han Dynasty, and Sima Fang had eight sons. Every child has the word "big", which is the so-called "Sima Ba Da". As the second son, Sima Yi often cares about his country and people, so Yang Jun, the prefect of Nanyang, called him an extraordinary man. "Shangshu" Cui Yan once had an excellent evaluation of his brother Sima Yi because of his friendship: "Your brother is smart, sensible, decisive and heroic, and you can't compare with him."

Sima Jia and Zhang Jia have similar family backgrounds. The two elders think that love in the city is a match made in heaven. When they add up, they officially become in-laws. After Zhang Chunhua married Sima Yi, he gave birth to three sons and one daughter, namely Sima Shi, Si Mazhao and Sima Qian, and his daughter Princess Nanyang.

Sima Yi's outstanding talent made a generation of lean Cao Cao attach importance to Sima Yi and wanted to accept Sima Yi as a counselor and serve himself.

In the early days, Sima Yi didn't want to work for Cao Cao. He declared that he had rheumatism and asked Cao Cao to withdraw. Cao Cao is a suspicious person. He thought that what Sima Yi said would be a lie, so he sent people to the mansion to explore the truth at night. When he found that Sima Yi was really lying in bed, he confirmed that he was not lying.

Sima Yi believes that we must be extremely careful, and a slight omission will cause unnecessary trouble. He is always cautious at home, just to reduce the risk. Although Sima Yi was extremely cautious, there were still omissions. His omissions almost destroyed the family.

One day, Sima Yi saw that the weather was fine and asked the servant to take the book out to dry. Because the sky was not beautiful, it suddenly rained heavily. I called several times but no one came to clean it up. Sima yi didn't want to waste books like this, so he stood up and cleaned up. It happened that the maid at home suddenly passed by, and Sima Yi was startled by the sudden appearance of the maid. I don't know whether it's good or not. His wife Zhang Chunhua saw that the situation was wrong and immediately came to the rescue, directly killing the maid. Sima Yi saw his wife's good performance and praised her very much. Zhang Chunhua's position in Sima Yi's heart has risen a lot.

Cao Cao is a man who will never stop until he reaches his goal. In order to get Sima Yi out of the mountain smoothly, he made a little trick to force Sima Yi out of the mountain to be an official so that he could accompany the prince to study.

After serving Cao Wei, Sima Yi served Cao Cao, Cao Pi and Cao Rui successively. During this period, Sima Yi suffered countless times in do or die, and it was only through Zhang Chunhua's strong mediation that he was saved. It can be said that Sima Yi's success is inseparable from the opening of Chunhua.

After several years of ups and downs in officialdom, Sima Yi became an important minister of Cao Wei. Like many successful ministers, he also married several concubines. Because there are many concubines around him, he alienated his wife Zhang Chunhua. After many twists and turns, Sima Yi fell ill.

Zhang Chunhua misses Sima Yi, who hasn't seen her husband for a long time, and plans to visit him. Sima Yi was very angry when she saw the first lady Zhang Chunhua. She humiliated her in front of my concubine, Mrs. Parker, and made the first lady Zhang Chunhua lose face. She thought that she had loved Sima Yi all her life, and she was so surprised that she decided to go on a hunger strike.

Zhang Chunhua's tragic experience aroused the dissatisfaction of Sima's and Si Mazhao's brothers, who thought that his father should not treat his mother like this, and planned to go on a hunger strike with his mother Zhang Chunhua. Although Sima Yi doesn't like his wife Zhang Chunhua, she has to take into account the children's ideas, so she plans to put a low profile and make up with Zhang Chunhua. Zhang Chunhua thought that Sima Yi would only make a low-profile apology because of the child's face, so he planned to give Sima Yi a step to make everything go smoothly at home and forgive her husband Sima Yi's unreasonable behavior.

After this incident, Sima Yi became more resentful of his first wife, Zhang Chunhua, and ignored Zhang Chunhua. The gap between Zhang Chunhua and Sima Yi can no longer be adjusted. This state lasted for more than ten years. In April of the eighth year of Wei Zhengshi (247), Zhang Chunhua died at the age of 59. A few years later, Sima Yi and Sima Shi died one after another, and Si Mazhao became the King of Jin, honoring his parents and eldest brother. After Zhang Chunhua's grandson, Sima Yan, destroyed Wei, Zhang Chunhua was made Queen Xuanmu.

I think Sima Yi doesn't like Zhang Chunhua in two aspects. On the one hand, he is old and his color is declining. On the other hand, he did more things than Zhang Chunhua, which made Sima Yi feel insecure. He thinks that Zhang Chunhua will get rid of his former threats. Sima Yi was very worried about this and thought that Zhang Chunhua would retaliate against himself. In order to ensure his own safety, he can only alienate Zhang Chunhua and ensure his own safety.