First, emotional counseling.
I am 25 years old,163,50, unique, with three copies. My boyfriend is 25 years old,175,65, and has two books, which is the first love. In the early days of love, it was a long-distance relationship, but in order to sublimate feelings, my boyfriend came to my city from his hometown to find a job and live with me.
My boyfriend is very considerate to me and my family, and gives gifts and surprises every holiday, because I said "life should have a sense of ceremony".
Appeal: My boyfriend's income is not as high as mine, and he once said that he is under great pressure. Moreover, the parents of the boyfriend hope that the boyfriend can be in his hometown and it is more stable to take an examination of a civil servant. Recently, he also urged marriage to have children (I have never met the other parents). My parents are older than my boyfriend's parents. They are in poor health and have difficulty going out. They don't want me to marry far away.
Boyfriend's parents want to take care of the children, and think that the children should be accompanied by their parents. I also prepared a new house for my boyfriend in my hometown as a married residence. The problem that can't be solved now is how to take care of each other's parents, but it can have a good result.
Second, emotional solutions.
In fact, you haven't put marriage on the agenda yet, so there is no need to worry about what may not happen in the future in advance.
At present, it seems that your treatment is really good, and the man's parents are more sincere. I suggest you continue to move in the direction of marriage. For example, it is not too late to meet his parents first, and then let him visit your parents, and then consider this problem. Encounter emotional problems? 0 yuan received 1 professional analysis >>
Maybe your parents saw him and thought the young man was very reliable and agreed to marry you far away; It is also possible that after meeting the parents of the other party, you find something unsatisfactory and don't want to continue this relationship; It is also possible that his family is willing to take the initiative to solve your inner concerns after they know about your family. All these things can happen.
In short, there is still room to reverse Gan Kun. You can take a step forward and have a look. Good luck.