Why do you want to learn psychological counseling?
Maybe someone will ask, "I'm not a professional counselor. Is it necessary to study counseling?" Indeed, is it necessary? Dr Wang Weijie's answer to you is: Yes! It is necessary! ! Why? Dr Wang Weijie pointed out that psychological counseling can help people to know themselves better and get along with themselves better. Everyone's past is deeply branded with his present, and the biggest function of psychological counseling is to let visitors reflect on themselves comprehensively and profoundly in an unprecedented way and examine their past. By understanding the formation process of one's own experience and observing whether there is any misinterpretation of one's own judgment or excessive attention to some experiences and emotional experiences, one can observe one's "present", understand the source of troubles, get rid of the shackles of the "past" and step into a new future. When people often complain, "What am I doing for?" When they made great efforts but got nothing in return, it showed that he lost himself in life. At this time, he needs to change his perspective, re-examine himself, rediscover his desires and pursuits, and set sail again. Dr Wang Weijie also pointed out that helping people know and understand others better. The so-called misunderstanding is actually a misunderstanding. That is, the parties' understanding and understanding of each other's words and deeds are biased, and they think about each other unilaterally, ignoring that the other party is also an independent individual with their own independent thoughts and behaviors, which leads to many misunderstandings. Through psychological counseling, we can see the world except ourselves, see the independence and lifestyle of each individual, reduce misunderstandings from each other's point of view, and live in harmony with the people around us. Finally, help people learn to face reality and deal with it. Jung, a psychologist, once said that the main purpose of psychotherapy is not to make patients enter an impossible state of happiness, but to help them establish a philosophical patience and a firm belief in facing reality when facing suffering. The more people who feel troubled by life, the more they want to escape and not face the reality, but escaping will only get you deeper and deeper. The important task of psychological counseling is to help visitors return to reality, not be bound by the past, not be confused by the future, and really face reality. Dr. Wang Weijie suggested that psychological counseling can help us return to inner peace, clarify our own needs and understand the ways to realize our needs and desires, so that we can not be blind, but recognize ourselves and reality and live a free life.