Su Song's "The Second Style of Giving up a Book": "I am worried about myself, but I have given up my pen and ink stone. Although I am reluctant now, my mind has declined. "
The Romance of the Three Kingdoms, the fifth chapter: "Prosperity is the folly of building a palace; Send more beautiful women to have fun and entertain their eyes and ears. "
Liang Bin's "The Story of Burning Love" trinity: "Everyone has this intention, please finish this glass of wine!" Biography of Li Si in Historical Records: "Today I am on earth. If you want to know my eyes and ears, what is my pity? My surname is Yi 'an Congsi. What can I do? "
Qing Liu Dakui's Epitaph of Qiu Yiren: "If there is a will that is too pleasant, it will be accepted first."
Xu Dishan's Weaving Spider Birds of Life: "Now that she is absent, she must go back and ask the Bodhisattva for permission to marry." In the final analysis, it is success or not. Mainly depends on what kind of heart. Sometimes an idea can decide everything about you. Everyone will have this experience: if you are determined to do something, you will go all out in the process of doing it, do your best, not afraid of difficulties, stick to it to the end, and most of the results will be successful; If you waver from the beginning, can't do it, or think that you can't do it, you will lack energy in the process of doing it, and you will easily be out of breath and give up halfway, and most things will not be done. So Tolstoy said, "Determination is strength, and confidence is success." This is why Austin said, "There is no failure in this world except psychological failure." Doing one thing is like this, and so is life. Only those who think they can win, and only those who think they can be great can get what they want.
Spiritual energy determines all aspects. For example, the mind determines academic success. "If you don't learn, you can't be versatile. If you don't want to learn, you can't learn." (Zhuge Liang) As long as we solve the problem of kindness-having the enthusiasm, interest and will to learn, we will certainly be able to learn automatically and actively, and we will be particularly outstanding in learning. Generally speaking, successful family education, school education and self-education have done a particularly good job in developing spiritual energy. Those great masters, whose parents' education is not high, spend less energy on tutoring, have no "accompanying students" and no tutors, why can they be very successful? The reason is that they have developed children's mental energy and cultivated their ambition, interest, self-confidence and will. What is the biggest obstacle to lifelong learning? It is the heart of an adult.
Romain rolland said: "The biggest reason why adults are slowly eliminated by the times is not the increase of age, but the decline of learning enthusiasm." Enthusiasm and enterprising spirit are the most important motivation for learning. Without this enthusiasm and spirit, without the heart to learn, it is impossible to continue learning and lifelong learning. The reason why young people are regarded as the most energetic people is the hope of the whole society, which lies in their hearts and spirits. When many people are young, they are full of longing, hope and positive enthusiasm. But after some setbacks, their hopes, expectations and motivation to learn are gone. Especially after marriage, I lost hope for myself and pinned all my hopes on my children. This is why parents are particularly willing to invest in their children's education, but they are unwilling to invest in themselves. It's all because I lost my mind. As the saying goes, "bereavement is greater than heart death, and human death is second." When the heart dies, people are finished. Many adults are dead to themselves. No wonder Qian said angrily that everyone over forty would be shot. Although the words are extreme, they are quite reasonable. How can an adult with a dead heart continue to study and study for life?
Mentality not only determines the success of study, but also determines the success of career. Wenzhou people are the best at doing business and have created the "Wenzhou Miracle".
There are many "families" in Wenzhou-almost every family has a factory, every family has a house, every family has its own entrepreneurs, and some family business assets have grown to tens of millions of yuan! Wenzhou is very different from Shenzhen and Shanghai, because the rapid development of Wenzhou does not depend on local special resources, preferential policies and huge national investment. Wenzhou has a population of seven million, and the per capita land is only three points. The state has hardly invested in Wenzhou for ten years! From the perspective of economics, Zhong Pengrong, a famous economist, actually attributed the mystery of the miracle to Wenzhou spirit.
Where there is business, there are Wenzhou people, and orders from all corners have been taken away by Wenzhou people. All this depends on the unique spirit of Wenzhou people-the "four thousand" spirit of sales. What is "four thousand"? That is, I have gone through a lot of hardships, said a thousand words, traveled all over Qian Shan, and worked out a thousand ways! Come up with a thousand ways, no strong will, okay? Many people think that one or two methods are not successful. Why do you say do everything possible? This is the difference between success and failure! It is this "four thousand" spirit that makes Wenzhou people receive one order after another, which makes Wenzhou what it is today! This spirit belongs to the category of spiritual cultivation. The cultivation of mind is to practice the "four thousand spirits" well-to go through all kinds of hardships, say a thousand words and do everything possible. The mind is the soul and the foundation of growth and success. The worst is mental disability, and the most feared is mental death. In Focus Interview, it was said that a disabled person came back from the brink of death, paralyzed and unable to move his hands and feet. The same person, when he was disheartened and desperate for himself, refused all treatment and thought of suicide. Later, through psychotherapy, I aroused hope, restored my psychological strength, overcame all difficulties, translated one book after another, and learned to draw with my mouth, which I could not do as a healthy person before! In life, we often see many disabled people whose conditions are much worse than normal people, but they are more successful than us, which is really shameful. Because there is only one 3: they are physically and mentally disabled. Although some normal people have hands and feet, many people are disabled in thought and ambition. Such people are often more pathetic than disabled people who are physically and mentally disabled. Such people are truly "disabled".
Now there is a saying called "brainwashing" and "changing brains". The heart has more control and influence on people than the brain. Corresponding to "brainwashing" and "changing the brain", there should be "washing the heart" and "changing the heart". Wash your face and feet every morning and evening, and take a bath regularly. Who can "wash the heart" regularly-wash away the dark, pessimistic and negative things in the heart? Thoroughly cleaning yourself should be not only a physical cleaning, but also a spiritual cleaning.
If just washing your heart can't solve the problem, it's necessary to change your heart. When you change your negative and contented mind, throw it into the trash can and replace it with a positive, dissatisfied, progressive and rushing heart. This is the heart of a successful person. With such a heart, you will succeed. Now there is a theory of transplanting memory and brain. If science is developed enough to transplant human hearts, copy the hearts of successful and great people and install them for mediocre people, many people will be successful and great! Of course, it is impossible to change our minds at present. What we can grasp is to practice our hearts every day and work hard to cultivate them into the hearts of successful people.
The core of mental cultivation is "ambition"-ambition and will, which occupy the most important position in the whole psychological energy. If you master ambition, ambition, spirit and will, you can master most of your mind.