Education is a natural empathy when getting along with others, and it is also a self-denial and practice when being alone. The cultivation in a person's bones is not a deliberate action, but an act made without thinking.
Its level depends on the individual's moral character and inner quality.
The charm of a person's education is reflected in the details of life.
1. If you move the chair in public, you will lift it instead of dragging it directly to avoid making loud noise or harsh sound.
There is an education called:
It is my greatest gentleness not to disturb your attention.
Don't splash water everywhere after washing your hands in public places, so as not to splash on others.
There is an education called:
* * * occasions, mutual understanding, keep public morality.
When I was about to enter the door, I saw a man holding the doorknob waiting for me to come in, so I stepped forward and grabbed the doorknob in time.
There is an education called:
Seize the small kindness of others.
4. Open the WeChat group and see that someone has sent some key messages in front. Don't send useless messages at random below, it will push important messages to the top.
There is an education called:
Avoid adding useless work to others.
Even if something is inconvenient, take the initiative once after refusing two invitations from friends.
There is an education called:
You have taken the initiative. It's my turn to take the initiative this time.
6. Ask someone for help. Ta when eating, find a suitable reason to leave first, and then come back when the other party has finished eating.
There is an education called:
I'll be back when you finish eating.
7. If someone asks for help, if he is busy at that time, tell the other party the waiting time under foreseeable circumstances; If not, tell each other and come back when you are done.
There is an education called:
Let the waiting person have a good idea.
8. Someone called to communicate things. If you are eating, you should empty your mouth and put the food away first.
There is an education called:
Don't make you feel disrespected.
9. After asking others for help, tell them in time if you don't need help in the future.
There is an education called:
Don't let you do unnecessary mourning.
10. When others are talking, even if they want to interrupt again, they should hold back and wait for others to finish.
There is an education called:
I'll say it when you're done.
1 1. A friend decides to marry someone she likes, even if her other half is not the best suitor. All we have to do is bless her, not tell her that she should choose another one.
There is an education called:
Don't judge the happiness of others with your own eyes.
12. If you talk to someone much shorter than you, your body leans slightly.
There is an education called:
Try to talk on an equal basis.
13. Friend A tells herself the secret of Ta. If friend B asks in the future, even if you have a good relationship with Ta, you can't disclose it to B.
There is an education called:
Secrets are between two people. I won't tell anyone. I will protect your sense of security.
14. When you want to send someone a WeChat voice, ask in advance: Is it convenient for me to send a voice? Send it after you get a positive reply.
There is an education called:
Before switching contact information, ensure the convenience of Ta.
15. If someone wants to add another friend's WeChat through me, I will ask my friend in advance if he is willing to add it. After I agree, I will recommend my friend's WeChat card to this person.
There is an education called:
Should I ask you in advance?
16. Borrow money from others, pay it off in time, and bring a small gift or settle interest when paying back the money.
There is an education called:
Consciously, and take the initiative to express gratitude.
17. Give due recognition and praise to the efforts of others. It is a simple sentence for us, but it is a great reward and encouragement for those who work hard.
There is an education called:
Give others the praise they deserve.
18. The people around me did an embarrassing thing. Don't sTare at ta all the time, just pretend that nothing happened, or deliberately avoid it.
There is an education called:
Take care of your situation and don't embarrass you.
19. Don't call yourself fat in front of people who are fuller than yourself; Don't call yourself poor in front of people with little income.
There is an education called:
Don't sprinkle salt on other people's wounds.
20. When eating, after pouring water for yourself, put the pot where the other person can easily reach it and point the handle of the pot at the other person.
There is an education called:
If it is more convenient for you, it will be more convenient for you.
2 1. When chatting with people, there is sudden silence around you, so you should consciously start a new topic.
There is an education called:
Reduce the embarrassment of the speaker appropriately.
22. If you don't block your circle of friends, your circle of friends is also a public place on the Internet.
There is an education called:
Don't take up too much public resources.
23. Don't go home empty-handed, but bring some small gifts with your heart.
There is an education called:
Goose feathers are sent from afar, a trivial gift, but there is a heavy yearning behind it; What matters is not the gift, but the mind behind it.
24. Friends entertain themselves at home. When eating, they have to wait for their cooking friends to finish their work and start moving chopsticks when serving food.
There is an education called:
When two people eat together, they should move chopsticks together.
25. Go out for dinner with everyone. Don't put too much into the bowl when you meet your favorite food.
There is an education called:
Others may like this dish, too.
26. Have dinner with familiar friends. When Ta asks us what we want to eat, we should speak our minds generously and don't hesitate.
There is an education called:
Put happiness first when eating, don't spoil everyone's fun.
27. When staff or other people solicit opinions in public, they should give necessary responses and signals when they are related to themselves.
There is an education called:
Don't let you worry, don't let you be ignored for too long.
28. If you are unwilling or unable, refuse to ask for help from the beginning.
There is an education called:
Do what you can. If you can't, I'll tell you frankly.
29. Borrow someone else's car. Remember to fill it up or wash it as a friendship return after use.
There is an education called:
In the face of mutual affection, give and take.
30. If you get a vague answer the first time you ask someone something, don't ask it again.
There is an education called:
Realizing your embarrassment, I'll stop at once and stop demanding.
Education is our business card for dealing with people.
In the final analysis, education is also a kind of kindness. It doesn't want to treat people with evil. This is human nature and a pure choice. It is willing to pass on its goodwill to others and bring itself into a warm world.
Start from every detail in life and be a person with "others" in mind.