2. The sense of self-worth shapes the behavior expression of children's self-thinking, discrimination and handling when they encounter difficulties. For example, when people had contradictions, it was not easy for parents to be "referees" to evaluate right and wrong, but to encourage children to find ways to get back together.
3. Frustration Endurance Parents should apply for and encourage their children to participate in theme activities such as "Baseball Game" and "Little Triathlon" to arouse their children's faith and self-confidence against the strongest. Even if parents know that their children can't get grades, they feel that courage and strength don't always come from winning. "Mentality determines everything." It is most important to shape children's understanding of self-reliance and transcendence of spiritual essence, and it is most important to train children's will and temperament not to bow their heads in the face of difficulties and difficulties. Children in China, in particular, lack frustration tolerance. As mentioned earlier, we often see information about students committing suicide. For parents, this kind of psychological repression is really unacceptable in life. Is the work pressure of children now greater than that of previous generations? Obviously not, every generation will have their own life difficulties, and setbacks will not only appear in this generation of children, because setbacks are different. Children nowadays are more delicate.
4. Interpersonal skills Adults should always listen to their children's suggestions and let them play a certain role in family management decisions; But you can't find your heart. Children should be responsible for their actions and choices. In social communication, sincerity is imprinted on children's hearts in this way. If you ignore this, do you still call yourself an excellent lecturer? So are parents. The environment at home harms the temperament of children, and personality will determine fortune.