People who learn to write must first learn "what not to write"
People who learn to speak must first learn what not to say.
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I always thought I was easy to talk to death and couldn't speak, so I began to learn the charm of Liu Yong's speech.
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First of all, Mr. Liu Yong told us to know when not to talk.
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Misfortune comes from the mouth. There must be a reason why this idiom can be circulated for thousands of years in China's 5,000-year history and culture.
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Sometimes, because of an unintentional sentence, it may cause discomfort to the other party, but it may lead to physical friction and even raise the problem to the legal level.
So we should learn not to talk.
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The first story that Teacher liuyong told us was that Lao Wang didn't say a word during the whole process of looking at the house, but he kept the house price down by 5 1000 square meters.
Every question asked by the sales girl, Lao Wang used body language to answer, and also used practical actions to show that he knew the house very well, and even clearly knew where the shortcomings of the house were.
Finally, Lao Wang knows almost all the information about the house, but the sales company knows almost nothing about him, and he is worried that he will let a big customer go because of the price dissatisfaction and never get it back.
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This story tells us that if we learn not to talk, and sometimes talk too much, it is easy for others to catch us.
Talking too much nonsense wastes your breath and energy, and may even cause disputes.
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I sometimes make such mistakes myself. When chatting with people, once you are happy, it is easy to speak without considering the consequences and say whatever comes to mind.
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After reading this article, I realized that I should not only learn how to speak, but also learn when not to speak. It is difficult to learn how to speak, but it is easier to learn when not to speak.
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Starting from tomorrow, think for three seconds before you speak. Should I speak in this conversation?
Reference book: the charm of speech? Liu Yong [same]