There are many adventures in life, and I will always meet them, but what is God's arrangement?
About six years ago, I returned to Wuhan from Kunming after attending Zheng He's sailing seminar.
I didn't fly, although I could walk in the clouds at an altitude of 8000 meters. But besides clouds, it is still clouds, which is a bit monotonous. I like the feeling of taking the train. I like to sit or lie in front of a bright window and look at the scenery of the earth. If the window is open, there will be wind blowing in the wilderness.
There are not many passengers in the soft sleeper of that train. There is only one stranger in this room except me. Like me, he has been staring out of the window since he got on the bus. It was not until the conductor came in to deliver boiled water that we had the first conversation since driving for two hours, and dusk came.
Coincidentally, he said that he also got off at Wuhan, that he wanted to open a small curtain shop in Wuhan, and asked me about this market (he didn't know that I was a journalist by profession). I'm a complete layman in business. I just reminded him that there were too many curtain shops in Wuhan and asked him if he had done this before.
His answer was completely out of my expectation: he was released from prison at the beginning of the year and committed a criminal case. Sentenced to 15 years for killing one person in a gang fight in his hometown. Hearing this, I lowered my head and took a sip of water to hide my nervousness.
Suddenly, the conductor called him out and checked the tickets in the corridor. Only then did I realize that the door was closed during the shaking of the train, and no matter how hard he tried, he couldn't open it. The two conductors outside the door were busy for a long time before opening the door. They smiled and explained that there was something wrong with the door. Fortunately, it's only been two days on the road. Let's make do with it and call them if anything happens. If you can't hear them, knock on the wallboard. The conductor's workshop is next door.
After a while, he checked in and came back, but I went out with a heart. Although I am not a timid woman on weekdays, I am still very uneasy at the thought of staying with a man who killed someone, and I want to quietly find a conductor to change rooms.
I have reached the door of the conductor's workshop, and I stopped and stood in the corridor for a long time: I don't trust him, because he told me the truth, and he will definitely guess the reason why I changed rooms halfway, which obviously hurts. I can still imagine the way the conductor looked at him after hearing my reasons.
I stopped my plan to change rooms with difficulty. He casually returned to his original bunk. He took out a red apple, peeled it clean and handed it to me to continue his business. This trip to Wuhan was paid for by a cellmate many years ago. Naturally, that friend couldn't find a job after he got out of prison and started a small business. Later, I mainly made curtains, and now my business is very big. He also told me. His girlfriend was still pregnant when he was sentenced. Later, he went to Guangdong alone from the countryside, leaving a daughter to be taken care of by his parents living in the countryside. He had just turned 20 when he was arrested that year. His parents scrimped and saved, and often took long-distance buses to visit prisons near Changsha, hoping that he would make a good reform and "turn over a new leaf" after he was released from prison. Because he performed better. The term of imprisonment was reduced from 15 to 10. In 10 year. His parents are young, but they are full of silver hair, and because of him, they can't lift their heads in the village. 10, the baby girl born in the year when he was taken away also grew into a fourth-grade girl with pigtails.
He said that turning over a new leaf starts with his son and let his parents live a good life; Starting from a father, let the daughter find her dignity at school. He will also go to Guangdong to find the girlfriend who is said to have opened a hair salon with others and has disappeared since then, and apologize to her immediately. He said that he was most sorry for the young man who was killed by him and his accomplices in a rage. The man fell in a pool of blood and said nothing. Images often appear in the prison life of 10. For him, the biggest punishment is that it will accompany him all his life. Let his soul never rest.
Night took the place of dusk, and only the door of our room was always open in the whole corridor, and the moonlight sprinkled on the corridor like a layer of silver light. He lay down and held a black bag tightly to his chest.
I clicked the door shut.
He turned over and tears came out.
The train runs at night, and his snoring gradually rings in the room. I opened my eyes in the dark, without a trace of fear, and all kinds of life scenery flashed in my eyes.
The next day, he was still staring out of the window, and suddenly he said to himself, "bloom is dead." I looked out of the window, and the pear trees all over the mountain were pink and white.
The terminal Wuhan arrived and got off the train. We didn't say goodbye. His thin figure was quickly taken away by the crowd leaving the station.
I don't know if he finally stayed in this city to open a curtain shop, but over the years, when I passed those curtain shops. I think of him occasionally.
There is a cat who likes to brag about himself and cover up his mistakes. It caught the mouse and accidentally let it run away. The cat said, "I think it is too thin, so I have to let it go until it is fattened." He went to the river to catch fish and was hit in the face by the tail of a carp. He reluctantly put on a smiling face and said, "I didn't mean to catch it. I just wanted to wash my face with its tail." On another occasion, it fell into the river, and its companion planned to save it. It said, "Do you think I'm in danger? No, I'm swimming ... "Before I finished, I sank to the bottom of the river.
Safety enlightenment:
If a cat can learn a lesson after accidentally letting a mouse escape, if it can learn it quickly after being hit in the face by a carp tail, and if it falls into the river to call for help, there will be no casualties. Therefore, others will not think you are smart because you cover up your mistakes and save face. On the contrary, I just feel pity and ridiculous. There are hidden dangers that are not terrible. The terrible thing is that you can't take the initiative to eliminate hidden dangers and rectify them.
Story 3: After the Monkey King came back from the Buddhist scriptures, he had nothing to do at home and decided to go out for a walk. Just a few steps out, I saw someone else say noisily, "Look at that smelly monkey. Dirty and smelly! " Hearing this, the Monkey King immediately fled home in embarrassment.
After returning home, the Monkey King decided to go to the most famous beauty salon for beauty treatment, so as not to be watched and discussed.
So the Monkey King went to the most famous beauty salon, and the beautician pulled out all the hair on Wukong's body with the most advanced machine. Looking at the smooth body in the mirror, Wukong was satisfied and went home happily.
I was about to go home when I saw a monster bullying a child. Wukong was furious at once and wanted to conjure up some little monkeys to deal with the monster. It never occurred to me that my hair has been shaved and there is no hair to change!
Wukong was stunned, and the little monster had escaped.
Son, this story tells us that what suits you is the best!
I watched my neighbor's twin sisters riding bicycles everywhere. I was so envious that the teacher pestered my mother to buy me one. This Spring Festival, my mother bought me a brand-new bike as a New Year gift. I don't want to mention how happy I am, so I love it.
My mother and I came to Little Square to practice cycling. Mom said, "When riding a bike, relax, look straight ahead, sit up straight, and don't look at the wheels." Then my mother told me how to get on the bus and how to brake. According to my mother's instructions, I got into the parking space, put my left foot on the pedal, and as soon as my right foot stepped on it, the car drove forward. However, it seems that the car didn't listen to me and swayed to the west. Suddenly it fell off the car and its leg was scratched. I sat motionless on the ground in pain, and my mother helped me and said, "nothing, just a scratch." Let's do it again. " The result failed again. I sat on the ground and cried and said, "I'm not riding!" " It's not funny! "Mother said," how can you give up so easily? Failure is the mother of success, you can't give up halfway! "Hearing this, I am full of confidence. After many exercises, I finally learned to ride a bike.
After learning cycling this time, I understand that anything can be successful as long as I have the courage and confidence to overcome difficulties.
A long time ago, there was a man who would have a hard time with him if someone accidentally touched his things.
Once, an emperor came out for a walk in farmer's clothes and met the man by accident on the side of the road. The man immediately flew into a rage and swore. The emperor just smiled and said to him, "Oh, dear! I'm sorry, it's my fault to hit you. Please forgive me. "
The man originally wanted to forgive the emperor, but seeing him dressed as a farmer, he swore again: "You poor man, wearing these rags, you have to pay for the medical expenses if you hit me, or you won't leave."
The prime minister next to the emperor couldn't stand it anymore and whispered to the emperor, "Your Majesty, this man is unreasonable. Don't tell him. Send someone to arrest him and put him in prison for seven years to see if he can correct it. "
The emperor said, "Prime Minister, if I mistreat people like this, my country will not be a good country, and those people will flee everywhere, which will eventually lead to a large population." The prime minister is very helpless.
Suddenly, the emperor took off his coat and revealed the clothes worn by the king. The man was shocked, pale, and said nervously, "Your Majesty … you … you … don't have to lose money." The king asked the Prime Minister to take off his coat, too. When the man saw it, he ran home without looking back and quickly locked the door. From then on, that man never dared to quarrel with others for a trifle.
The short story is over, and the spirit of the emperor is worth learning and galloping with a tolerant heart.
In the later Han Dynasty, Si Mahui did not talk about other people's shortcomings, but talked with others, saying good things and bad things. Once, someone asked him if he was safe, and he replied "yes". He was told that his son was dead, but he still replied, "Fine". His wife scolded him and said, "People think you are virtuous, so I tell you." Why did you hear someone say your son was dead, and you also said yes? Si Mahui said: "As you said these words, this is also very good! "
Safety enlightenment:
"Mr. Nice guy" is often seen in our life, and there are many people. However, people engaged in work safety must not be good teachers, nor should they go with the flow. Because, the work of production safety must not be sloppy, being a "good gentleman" in the face of hidden dangers may bury unsafe hidden dangers and lead to production safety accidents.
7. I still remember when I was in the third grade, I once saw the pipa playing "Moonlit Night on the Spring River" on TV. A beautiful aunt in cheongsam is holding the pipa and stroking it slowly. She frowned, bent her fingers, and then started her music, beautiful music, flowing from the string, and I was shocked. So I fell in love with this national musical instrument called Pipa, and begged my mother to sign me up for the school folk band to learn Pipa playing.
In the first folk music class, after a brief introduction, Mr. Li, who teaches pipa, taught us how to find syllables. After drawing a simple sketch on the blackboard with chalk, Teacher Li began to give us a demonstration. I watched and listened to the teacher's lecture carefully. "1 On the first fret of a string, and 2 on the second fret of a string?" He showed us with his finger as he spoke. After the teacher finished speaking, we began to try to play. I carefully held the lute, which was about half my height at that time, and clumsily searched for those so-called' scales'. I still couldn't start after searching for a long time. Pipa and guzheng are musical instruments with opposite fingering. Guzheng can play some simple etudes in the first class, but I only have one string in the first class. My forefinger and thumb should form a circle, and my whole wrist should turn back and forth like a fan. In less than ten minutes, I will start to have sore hands, sore neck and backache!
I'm a little impatient, and my fingertips are particularly painful because I press the strings hard, so I don't want to practice. Miss Li came over, looked at me and asked kindly, "What's the matter?" "My hand hurts and I don't want to practice." "Miss Li looked at my hand and said to me," Don't worry, take your time. It's important to keep learning pipa. Look at these hands of Miss Li. " I looked at Mr. Li's hand. Because of playing the piano for a long time, Mr. Li's knuckles are much thicker than ordinary people, and there are thick cocoons on each fingertip. "What is my hand compared with Miss Li's? "I slowly calmed down and looked for these carefully." 1, 2, 3? "I gradually discovered these tones. Since then, the ups and downs of learning pipa have been with me. It tastes more bitter and spicy-I was curious at first, and thought it was easy to play with this thing. I learned it once or twice before I knew it was easy. I've been playing one-handed modeling for hours, which is so boring. Moreover, I was criticized by my teacher for not playing well. When I got home, my mother told me that I secretly cried because I played the pipa several times. Now I can perform on the stage and play many beautiful songs skillfully.
Now whenever I am tired of practicing the piano and don't want to practice any more, my mind will always see Mr. Li's hands covered with thick cocoons. "Persistence is the most important thing" has always inspired me and overcome many difficulties in my study. Although learning the pipa is only a trivial matter, it makes me understand a big truth: all successful people are stepping forward step by step. We should persevere in everything and not give up halfway.
I think everyone has virtue. In fact, virtue is like a vast sea. Only by gathering beautiful things the size of water droplets can we truly cast that beautiful character.
When I was very young, I read Kong Rong's story about Qin Li. I think this story has long been a household name.
One day, Kong Rong's mother bought a bag of pears and washed them for everyone to eat. She put the washed pears on the table and let Kong Rong, the youngest in the family, choose first. Kong Rong looked at the pears on the plate. He first chose a big yellow pear for his father and a very fragrant pear for his mother. Then he picked up a big pear and gave it to his brothers. Finally, he picked up the smallest pear and ate it. Kong Rong's father saw it and asked curiously, "Why only give yourself the smallest pear?" ? You are the first to take it. You can take the biggest and sweetest pear to yourself. "Kong Rong said:" Only by giving the best to the elders and respecting the teachers is the truth of being a man. "Kong Rong's father was pleasantly surprised.
As the saying goes, "filial piety is the first virtue". Only by being filial to teachers and respecting elders can we do other things well. Kong Rong is a good example. He has been very filial since childhood. Only when you are kind in heart can you get recognition and praise from your elders!
I am very happy to be filial to my elders and be polite to others. Why not?
Short story and great truth 9 annoying people
A person is upset, so he looks around for the secret to get rid of it.
One day, he came to the foot of a mountain and saw a shepherd boy riding on the back of an ox, playing a melodious flute in a piece of green grass. He stepped forward and asked, "You look very happy. Can you teach me the way to get rid of my troubles? "
The shepherd boy said, "You ride on the back of an ox, and when the flute blows, there will be no trouble."
He tried, but to no avail. So, I started looking again.
Soon, he came to a cave and saw an old man sitting alone in the cave with a satisfied smile on his face.
He bowed deeply and explained his purpose to the old man. The old man asked, "So you have come to seek liberation?"
He said, "Yes! Please give us your advice. "
The old man smiled and asked, "Did someone tie you up?"
"... no. "
"Since no one binds you, how can you talk about liberation?"
He woke up suddenly.
Truth: Because our mentality is not adjusted well, troubles will follow. In fact, most of the troubles are out of thin air. Adjust your mentality, the problem will become very simple, and the troubles will not be driven away.
Story and Truth 10 In the cool autumn, the breeze blows gently, and the pupils of Deep Sea School begin to report for duty!
Little crab and mother hurried to school and began to report for duty. After the registration, the little crab is waiting to go to school the next day!
The next morning, the little crab came to school with great interest. However, other students always cast strange eyes on him. The little crab is confused. ...
After school, the little crab found his mother and asked, "Mom, mom, why don't other students seem to like me and don't want to be friends with me?" "Well, it's not because our ancestors walked sideways, so we also inherited the habit of walking sideways!" Mother replied, "all the other children walk upright." You are different from them, so they think you are abnormal. " Hearing this, the little crab thought: I see, then I will learn from them and walk vertically like them! The little crab is determined to practice hard.
The hard training began. ...
From then on, the little crab got up at 5 o'clock every morning, washed and came to the beach park. First of all, he tried to take a step forward with his leg, but this time, he didn't succeed, but almost broke his leg ... The little crab endured the pain and kept trying ... It's time for school, and he came to school without letting go for a minute. He practices after class, physical education class practices in his spare time, and he practices in his rest time ... After coming home from school, the little crab is also training hard. ...
In this way, time goes by slowly, and the little crab will graduate from primary school. He has almost practiced walking upright and can be like other children.
That Sunday, Little Crab invited his best friend Little Turtle to go for a walk on the beach, and the two good friends walked hand in hand happily. Suddenly, a huge thing caught the little crab, and the little crab trembled with fear He glanced at the huge thing, which turned out to be a big human palm. The man said, "Oh, it's the first time I've seen a crab that can walk forward!" " Wouldn't it be a big profit if I arrested him and sent him to the aquarium for exhibition? "So, the little crab was sent to the aquarium and locked in an oversized glass jar.
Since then, the little crab has lost its happy and free life in the past and can only watch in the jar.
This story tells us that everyone is different and has his own advantages and disadvantages. Just be yourself.
A famous singer has a beautiful private garden. Every weekend or holiday, her garden will be destroyed by tourists, which makes the singer very upset.
"Maybe, people think this is a wild field." She thought so, so she hired someone to add a low fence to the garden.
I didn't expect this situation to get worse, because people were curious about the scenery inside the fence and people climbed over the wall one after another. After seeing enough beautiful scenery, they will sit on the grass to rest and eat. Some people will set up tents for the night or have a picnic, which will make the garden more messy than before.
"Maybe, people don't know that this is a private garden." The singer thought so, so he ordered the servant to brush a sentence on the wall: This is a private garden, please don't enter.
Unexpectedly, because private gardens are relatively rare in the local area, curiosity has led more people to enter the garden for sightseeing, and the garden is more chaotic than before.
The singer was so angry that she asked the servant what he could do. The servant gave her an idea. The singer thought about it and decided to follow the servant's instructions. If not, we'll talk. Unexpectedly, once this idea was put into practice, the garden immediately quieted down, and no one came to disturb those flowers and plants anymore.
The singer looked puzzled outside the garden, and the original wall was written with such a sentence: "Welcome to this garden. If you are unfortunately bitten by a poisonous snake, please go south, and the nearest hospital can arrive in an hour. "
Universal principle
Success or failure sometimes lies in the change of ideas. If it is too difficult for everyone to think of you, let people think of themselves and think of you by the way.
The truth of the story 12 A young man bought a mobile phone for MM with a 20xx 1500 yuan, stayed at a dinner in 500 yuan, and rode a battery car to find MM. MM said: You are a good man, but we are really not suitable.
Improvement scheme: A young man, 700 yuan, rented a BMW5, and then 300 yuan went to the wholesale market to buy 99 roses, telling MM that he likes to go to those romantic snack bars hand in hand, and the maximum consumption is 100 yuan.
MM promised him that night because of love. ...
Enlightenment: This tells us that the business model is the key to the success or failure of the project, not the cost!
There is a family living on the road between towns, growing vegetables for a living and suffering from lack of fertilizer.
One day, my parents had a brainwave: "There are many people trading with each other on this road. If a toilet can be built on the roadside, it will be convenient for passers-by on the one hand and solve the problem of fertilizer on the other. "
He built a toilet with bamboo and thatch, and sure enough, people coming and going liked it. Since then, there has been no shortage of fertilizer for growing vegetables, and vegetables and radishes have also gained weight.
There is a family across the street, which mainly grows vegetables. After reading it, I was very envious. I thought, "I should also build a toilet on the side of the road. In order to attract more people to go to the toilet, I want to make the toilet cover clean, beautiful, generous and luxurious. "
So he covered it with good bricks and painted it with lime inside and outside, which was twice as big as the toilet opposite.
He felt very satisfied after it was finished.
Strangely, people come and go in the toilets on the other side, but no one cares about the beautiful toilets they built. Later, I asked a passer-by, because his toilet was so beautiful and clean that most people thought it was a temple. Of course, people who are in a hurry run to the toilet, not the temple.
Story and truth 14 people must have experienced a lot in this life. Some things may have been forgotten for a long time, but some things are like diamonds in the heart, which cannot be forgotten.
Years ago, it snowed heavily in winter and the wind was biting. A drop of water will immediately turn into ice when it falls. But my old grandfather still stands in the corridor at the gate every morning, holding a big broom and trying to clean Zita Law at the door of every house.
It was so cold that I couldn't sleep that morning, so I secretly got out of bed, put on a thick coat and went to see my grandfather. But I turned around and couldn't find it. I wonder if grandpa has gone out for a walk. So I tried to open the door. The road was clean and there was no snow. In the distance, an old man was waving a big broom. Who is so kind? A closer look turned out to be an elderly grandfather. I rushed over and asked, "Grandpa, why do you sweep this snow every day?" Grandpa smiled and said, "I have nothing to do. It is easy for everyone to go out and sweep the snow. " I didn't ask much after listening, so I took my grandfather's hand like a dead skin and went home.
I didn't understand why at that time. Later, with the growth of age, I gradually understood that "when you give someone a rose, there is more fragrance in your hand." Helping others is actually helping yourself.
The cicada in the tree is going to suck some cool dew, but she doesn't know there is a mantis behind her. Mantis was about to catch cicada, but he didn't know that yellowbird was behind. The yellowbird wants to peck at the mantis, but she doesn't know that a child with a slingshot is aiming at it under the elm tree. When the child wanted to shoot the yellowbird, he didn't know there was a deep pit in front and a stump behind.
Safety enlightenment:
The fable of mantis catching cicada tells us that when people pursue immediate interests, they often ignore the hidden dangers behind them; In the process of production and operation, it is often easy to pursue the speed of production and ignore the running state of production; In terms of production input and safety input, it is often easy to consider increasing production input to pursue maximum benefit, while ignoring safety input.