In fact, in the face of children's problems, money seems to be less important. At present, family education, especially early family education, has attracted wide attention from all walks of life, and the unique value of early family education in children's sustainable development has finally been recognized by society. Although we have begun to wake up from many courses, we have not fully accepted it emotionally and turned it into educational behavior. There may be many objective factors leading to this situation, but the psychological misunderstanding gradually formed and hidden in the practice of family education is one of the key factors.
? Family education can be said to be the most important and basic education for children, and it is a lifelong education concept of learning to be a man, learning to be a man, and learning to get along with others.
Suhomlinski, a famous educator in the former Soviet Union, once compared a child to a marble. He said it takes six sculptors to shape this marble into a statue: 1. Family; ? 2. school; ? 3. The local group where the child is located; ? 4. Children themselves; ? 5. books; ? 6. Accidental factors. From the perspective of arrangement, family comes first, which shows that family plays a very important role in shaping children and occupies a considerable position in the minds of educators. So it is very necessary for parents to understand the importance of family education.
In short, as parents, we should fully understand the importance of family education, consciously do a good job in children's education, fulfill parents' responsibilities and obligations, train qualified construction talents for the country, fulfill their responsibilities for children's success, and be parents. Obligation.
The popular definition of family education in China is the three-way education put forward by scholar Zhao Yulin in 2008, that is, lifestyle, the way to be a person and the way to learn. Short for "3M". This is:
Lifestyle is centered on life and health, and consists of three aspects: physical health (health), mental health (happiness) and safe adaptation (safety).
"The way to be a man" takes the value of life as the core and consists of three aspects: life role (foundation), personality life (perfection) and life accomplishment (communication).
Learning style takes life wisdom as the core, and consists of three aspects: learning quality, comprehensive literacy and independent expertise.
People's Republic of China (PRC) Family Education Promotion Law was adopted at the 31st session of the 13th NPC Standing Committee on 23 October, 20021year, and came into force on 23 October, 2022. This shows that the state attaches importance to family education.