How to pursue the boy you like?

How to catch up with the boy you like? How to catch up with the boy you like? It takes skill to pursue someone. There are many different ways for us to pursue, and pursuit has many meanings. So here's how to catch up with the boy you like. How to catch up with the boy you like 1 how to catch up with the boy you like 1 how to show the charm of women and establish the external image of women, improve the connotation and emotional intelligence of women, show them in time and release their sexual attraction. Make him like you, but you act like you don't like him. Then he will constantly determine your good feelings for him in the process of exploration. With the continuous investment of energy, he will get deeper and deeper and finally love you. To understand his situation, we should first understand his family and life, starting with his family education, his parents, and then his friends and colleagues. Then ask him about his hobbies and what he usually likes to do. If you want to chase a boy, you should first approach him from his hobbies, so that he won't think you are fake. If you are already friends or close, start with him, find more topics that he may know, start with his psychological defense, slowly make him feel good about you, make him want to chat with you, and then euphemistically express his feelings in the follow-up communication. If you don't know him, approach him slowly through your friend or his friend to enhance your familiarity. Finally, slowly develop to your friends. Remember, you can't rush for success, and it's easier to lose his good opinion of you. 3, buy a small gift, spend more time with him, care about him. When walking slowly together, you can occasionally buy him a small gift, such as a razor and a belt. A scarf. Make him think you don't treat him like a meal ticket. At the same time, if you have a bad temper, try to converge and occasionally lose your temper, but pay attention to the occasion and be sure to give the boy face. Even if the boy you catch up with has some wrong ways of doing things or living, you can't follow suit and criticize your boyfriend. If you are not satisfied, you can communicate privately. Pay attention to the occasion and face when you are with a boy. When your boy is ill or in a bad mood, you should take time out to spend more time with him. Makes him feel warm and someone cares about him. It's been a long time, and he can't live without you. Concern, tolerance and forbearance are mutual. Don't let boys tolerate you blindly. When he underestimates, you should spend more time with him and encourage him. I believe you will go further. How to catch up with the boy you like 2. Do you know the routine of chasing boys? Love is one of the sweetest and most complicated emotions in human feelings. The most beautiful stage of love is when two people want to say goodbye. However, not every ambiguous paragraph can finally develop into a romantic love. Sometimes your relationship has come to an end before the last critical moment. Therefore, for everyone's beautiful love and happiness, in today's article, the teacher will tell you how to avoid the misunderstanding of love and use the correct love skills to get happiness faster and better on the road of developing love with boys. (Don't worry, take your time, the focus is behind) First of all, make a simple self-introduction: Hello, I am Zhang Zhe, a beloved team, and I have been focusing on the emotional education industry for eight years, with more than 30 emotional counselors with psychological counselor qualification certificates. Mainly solve four emotional problems for friends: saving boyfriends, attacking true love, long-distance love, and how to chat, and teach you to save and catch up with boys you like through actual combat to get true love. If your emotional intelligence is low, you can't chat and often can't find a topic; If you like boys but don't know how to pursue them. Then please click Add Tutor (click Copy Tutor Number, and add it in the search), and send me your current problem confusion at one time, and I will directly help you analyze the situation and solve the problem! At the same time, my circle of friends also has many chat skills and confession skills, which can be combined with learning. Maybe you have been wondering why your relationship with him is not smooth after you have paid a lot. In fact, the root cause is that you have gone into some misunderstandings when you get along with boys. Next, I'll talk to you about some misunderstandings that you shouldn't walk into: some fairies think that if you want to fall in love with a boy, you must first "make a good relationship" with him. It is said that the first step in falling in love is to be friends with each other. But being friends doesn't mean that you are "brothers" and "sisters" to each other. If you want to have the possibility of development with each other, then remember to take care of your relationship with each other. You know, a boy won't fall in love with a female creature named "Buddy" around him, because doing so will make them feel extremely uncomfortable. If you introduce the relationship between you into the misunderstanding of friendship from the beginning, it will be difficult to reverse it in the future. The correct way is to keep some distance and mystery while being friends. A big difference between a good friend and a girlfriend is that a good friend keeps an appointment, but a girlfriend doesn't necessarily keep it. You became brotherly friends? It doesn't matter, there is a way to save it! You can guide him to pay for you, which is different from my brother's righteousness. The point is that his motive for helping you is protection, not loyalty. I have 30 suggestions for him to help you a little. Add me, reply to the keyword "guide payment" and I will send you information for free! In love, if two people are strong, especially the girlfriend is stronger, it will give birth to a sense of oppression, and he will be depressed all day and have no man's courage. For example, some women always investigate the whereabouts of their boyfriends. Where did you go today? With who? How did you get there? What did you do? Why don't you take me? A series of questions will drive boys crazy. Boys are both controlling and conquering. Most of men's sense of accomplishment comes from women. When he catches up with you, he will feel successful. But if the girl's momentum completely overwhelmed the boy, if it were you, would you become lovers with such a girl? Boys always say that they like girls without makeup, but in fact they like girls with makeup and beauty. Boys always say that simple girls who like to dress up are actually girls who like to look good in figure and clothes. So girls, don't be fooled by their words. Girls dress not only to please men, but also to please themselves. Dress up neatly and you will feel very sunny. If a girl looks too untidy, not only boys don't like it, but even girls don't like it, do they? Girls, if you are determined to make a change, you can click Add Tutor (click Copy Tutor Number and add it in the search), and we will help you make a professional transformation and make you look brand-new in front of him! After understanding the misunderstanding, girls should try to avoid it in the process of getting along with boys in the future Then, the teacher will talk about how girls chat with boys with high emotional intelligence: the entrance effect: first make a small request, and then once people agree to the small request, it is difficult to refuse the latter request. Start with small requirements and put forward higher requirements in stages. For example, it will be strange for us to invite each other to dinner and watch movies at first, so we can make a small request first. You can ask him to help solve a small problem first, or have a cup of coffee together on the way. Have a few cups of coffee, try to invite each other to lunch, and then you can go to the movies. Of course, in this process, we should choose something that really needs his help, or something relatively small. Of course, we also need to prepare some topics in advance during dating and chatting. Don't make others feel uncomfortable in this process, then the next requirement of the step-in-the-door effect is likely to fail. If girls really don't know what kind of "small favors" to ask each other for help, or what to talk to each other when they meet, the teacher has prepared the secret of universal chat topic for you. Click Add Tutor (click Copy Tutor Number and add it in the search) to get it for free. The so-called praise, praise is to give recognition to each other. Only when he is recognized and respected will he be more comfortable, more relaxed, more trusting, more eager to express himself and more willing to open his heart to you. For example, the foot-in-the-door effect mentioned in the last article, when the other party gives help to your request, you can praise him while inviting him. You can say, "Wow, you are really good, but many people I know are not!" " It seems that I have to consult you more in the future! "For another example, if he gives you something about popular science, you can say," You know a lot. It turns out that there is such a big article in it. Tell me more about it when you are free. It's really interesting. "Or you go out to play, when, where and what to do are all his suggestions, so you must express your gratitude at the end. You can say, "that store is really good, not only delicious, but also has a great atmosphere." How did you find it? "Thank you very much today. I really haven't been so happy for a long time. " No matter what the situation is, the other person needs a sense of accomplishment and identity, especially after your praise, which is enough to prove that everything he has done is meaningful and his efforts have not been in vain. On the other hand, when he praises you, you should skillfully reflect the praise on him, respond sweetly with "It's very kind of you" or "I didn't expect you to keep it in mind, so happy", and show him that you enjoy and care about his praise with a bright smile. Girls and boys will readily accept compliments from others. If girls don't know how to use compliments naturally when chatting with boys, you can seek the guidance or help of professional teachers to speed up the progress of your relationship with boys. Click Add Tutor (click Copy Tutor Number to add it in the search), tell the tutor your confusion, and the tutor will teach you how to do it. People with weaknesses are more attractive than perfect people. Everyone will have the idea that those girls who are good-looking, capable, beautiful and in good shape are as perfect as the goddess, but out of reach. Perhaps many people will envy such a girl, but they always feel that such a goddess lacks a little fireworks, which makes people feel inaccessible. In contrast, those girls who are not so good, but are kind to people and occasionally expose some small shortcomings, will be more attractive. So occasionally exposing your own small shortcomings will appropriately narrow the distance between you. For example, send a message in a circle of friends: I couldn't control myself again today and had a big meal with my colleagues. Today's weight loss plan fell through again. Run 5 kilometers tomorrow! (With pictures and food) Such a circle of friends will occasionally make you look more human in the circle of friends, and it will also make people feel that you have a good personality and are easy to get along with. The ability to get along and chat can be constantly learned and exercised. If you want to know more about getting along and chatting skills, click Add Tutor (click to copy the tutor number and add it in the search) and send "Getting along and chatting skills", and the tutor will send you all the most complete tips! At the same time, if you have other problems in getting along with boys, you can also ask your tutor for help in class. The tutor will carefully analyze and give you the most accurate guidance. Sister, you have seen this place from the beginning, so Zhang Zhe believes that you must be the kind of person who wants to quickly change the status quo and improve the level of love. Maybe you can't stand talking to boys all the time. Maybe you don't want to go out and date boys who have no results. Maybe you want to improve yourself and make yourself better. These questions may be difficult for you who have no love experience. But Mr. Zhang Zhe is very responsible to tell you that everything is not a problem. What matters is whether you meet the following three conditions: 1. You must make up your mind to change yourself and make yourself better. You are willing to invest in yourself, not cater to men. 3. You can cooperate with consultants and have the ability to execute and action, instead of just saying that you can't. It is actually a very simple thing to associate with boys. Why? Because as long as you are normal and have the ability to learn, then you can chat; You just need to learn love skills, learn to associate with boys, improve your emotional intelligence and improve your love ability. Some sisters will have such doubts. Isn't the economic ability very good? Is it okay to be ugly? Here, Zhang Zhe tells you that as long as you have a normal income and are willing to invest in yourself, that is, you are willing to invest in yourself with this money. Only lazy women, no ugly women. Don't always make excuses for yourself. In fact, as long as you can master the methods and make up your mind to study, you can still get the results you want. After all, it is not difficult to chat with boys. As long as you use the right chat method, learn the skills of getting along with boys, and add the guidance and operation of the tutor, then success is not far away. In fact, sisters, it is not difficult to get along with men, whether it is chatting or dating! As long as you master the right method and have a professional tutor to help you, then you can do whatever you want. Don't worry about chatting with boys, who suddenly ignore you; I don't know how to reply; Going out with boys and not knowing where to play; And you don't know how to upgrade your relationship with boys, because you haven't studied systematically at all. Sisters, finally, Zhang Zhe asked, Do you want to study? Want to change? If you confirm that you want to change, and you want to improve your level of chatting and love, then follow Zhang Zhe's mentor to change! Do you know the routine of chasing boys? If you are willing to invest in yourself, want to change yourself through learning, and want to take off your bill as easily as tens of thousands of my students, and pursue a boy you like, then directly consult with your tutor, one-on-one consult with your tutor, and tell your tutor about your emotional problems. The tutor will help you analyze and guide in detail! Tutor Zhang Zhe will give you all-round emotional analysis, recommend suitable courses for you, and teach you to catch up with your favorite male god through chatting, so as to quickly solve your emotional problems. I'm Zhang Zhe's tutor, and I'll wait for you in the internal course!