Why didn't that man tell you the truth? If you are in love, men will forgive women for lying more easily. Most of them are white lies, or white lies will account for the majority. The reasons are, of course, firstly, for fear of affecting your relations, and secondly, to avoid the bad side. Therefore, as a girlfriend, we should give proper understanding and don't get to the bottom of it. This will not only bring no effect, but also bring more deception and even cause his resistance. If you are married, because of further intimacy, there will be fewer and fewer secrets between you, and men will naturally lie less. Of course, the important reason why men lie frequently after marriage is cheating, so when this happens, we must be vigilant.
Men sometimes lie to avoid "trouble"
Men lie to women. Sometimes it is because women who are afraid of causing "trouble" are bored or difficult to accept women because of trivial matters, which limits men's autonomy and freedom. Most of them have no patience and are not good at dealing with women in complicated ways because they don't have the necessary things. Proper lying is the most direct or simple way they think. Men don't think about lying as complicated as women do, and women just get caught up in it because men don't think lying is complicated, and they can't even extricate themselves, and they are miserable.
Tell whether he is lying or not.
First, there are no wrinkles in the corners of your eyes when you giggle.
Second, the more popular children are, the more likely they are to lie.
Third, the expression of real surprise is fleeting, and it is fake for more than one second. Generally speaking, long-term expressions-some as long as more than ten seconds, usually about five seconds-are almost all fake. The real heartfelt words are not long, unless the emotions are extreme.
If the other person shows disdain for your question, usually your question will be true.
5. Speaking fast indicates that the parties are in a hurry.
Six, when people lie, it is difficult to tell the lie. They will make up lies in advance, but they will never run backwards. So, if you let a liar flash back, he will reveal the truth immediately.
Seven, a man has sponge tissue in his nose. When he wants to hide something, his nose will start to itch, and at this time he will subconsciously touch his nose.
8. The time difference between answering and asking questions is called reaction latency. The longer the incubation period of the response, the more the respondent conceals the truth.
If you ask your husband who just called, he suddenly starts talking like a magpie, you should be on your guard. When lying, the pitch rises because the liar hides his inner weakness.
Liars seldom mention the names of the people involved in their lies. When talking about the zipper door incident with the public, US President Bill Clinton said, "I didn't have sex with that woman" and replaced "Monica" with "that woman".
Women must distinguish between lying and cheating.
If a man is not a man with bad hobbies, or does not cheat a woman in front of right and wrong, it is still necessary to distinguish between lying and cheating. The two are actually different in nature. If they really confuse the nature of their relationship with you, such as men who hide their marriage history, men who behave badly and so on. Then even if things like drinking and playing cards don't happen to them, you should definitely decide to break up with such a man. And your conservatism and rigor amplify some men's lies, thinking that lies are cheating.
Give him a verbal warning.
If a man can't stand lying, you can try to give him a verbal warning. Tell him that since you are together, I hope you don't have too much to hide. If you have difficulties, share them with me. Don't keep it to yourself. Just say what you did wrong and admit it. Don't lie to yourself, tell men what you think and do.
Communicate effectively with him.
Men lie sometimes to protect themselves. It is better for them to communicate more when they encounter something. Don't be suspicious, don't trust their boyfriends. You can find a chance to talk about it when it's over. Don't communicate when you are in a bad mood, otherwise men will not admit it for their own face, let alone listen to their suggestions.
What if I meet a "liar" man again?
You should observe whether they lie all the time or occasionally. Of course, although a man who has been lying is a little far from cheating, such a man should not associate with him. A leopard cannot change his spots. If you are a man who lies occasionally, you should consider his original intention and purpose of lying. There is a kind of man who will lie carefully. He will consider each other's interests before telling a lie. Sometimes the way they lie is to deal with the rationality of certain things. Maybe the method is not appropriate. They won't affect the interests of themselves and the people they care about because of some unimportant things.
Two people can stay together for a long time, mainly relying on mutual trust. Boys will choose to lie, mainly because girls don't trust them. Lying also has two purposes: one is to live a good life with you, and the other is not to live with you. The main reason for lying is that girls bring great pressure to boys, they have to intervene in everything and don't trust each other. Whether a boy is really trustworthy is not only proved by whether he has lied or not.
If a boy blindly thinks that a white lie is not malicious, lying on the pretext of loving you is actually an escape psychology. He always said, "I'm not doing it for your own good." If you love her for her good, you must be honest with each other, not afraid of misunderstanding, and just solve it. Communication in love is also very important.
White lies are really harmless, but in love, communication is often more important than lying. Two people can make an appointment to tell each other their inner doubts and thoughts, which is the way to maintain a long-term love.