I don't think this is right. She may not understand how important a sense of boundaries is in life.
People with high emotional intelligence are often people who accurately grasp the subtlety of this boundary, fully consider each other's feelings and make each other comfortable. Your friend is definitely not a person with high emotional intelligence. You want more privacy, but she may accuse you of being selfish and unloving. ...
You should know how to establish "psychological boundaries" in the right way.
Psychological boundary: refers to the fact that in interpersonal relationships, individuals clearly know the scope of responsibilities and powers of themselves and others, which not only protects their personal space from infringement, but also does not infringe others' personal space.
This means that you can not only say "no" bravely, but also accept others' rejection calmly.
There are two kinds of "boundaries", one is physical and the other is psychological.
The physical boundary mainly refers to private space and contact.
Psychological boundary refers to being independent of others in thought and concept.
A good "psychological boundary" can protect your self-esteem and control your emotions.
Those people we admire in our life and call high emotional intelligence are all people who know how to respect each other's boundaries physically and psychologically.
Small enough not to interrupt you when you are talking, big enough to respect your wishes, not to comment on your behavior at will from a moral height, and not to talk about the qualities of people you care about in front of you.
From a psychological point of view, it is the person with "narcissistic personality" who is the easiest to step into the boundaries of others.
The so-called high emotional intelligence is nothing more than a willingness to lower yourself, understand and feel the situation and ideas of people around you, and respect each other without arbitrarily forcing or infringing on each other.
There is a "border" relationship, which is the real intimacy.